ive been suicidal, but im not going to do it. the only reason is my parents. every so often two people my mom knows dies, i dont want to be one of them, and i dont think i could do that to my dad. so im wondering if its loyalty, love, obligation, or a little bit of all? what's your opinion?
2007-09-11 05:21:41 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
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2007-09-11 05:27:14 · answer #1 · answered by AYOOZe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just described family.
So, what ever it is that bothers you sort it out down to the level of *simple*. Remember that life will never be perfect...farther from it we do nothing about everything except complain and label. There is no time for all that you mentioned if you are 2 busy with negative thought. You note that you aren't going to do it so keep your word and now you have a whole lot of time to construct some positive in your life. Don't even try to force us to believe there aren't any ...count your blessings often : )
2007-09-11 12:38:53 · answer #2 · answered by GoodQuestion 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, you have to go talk to someone about your feelings. Someone that you trust. You have to work out your feelings. Find out why you feel like this. I don't think you want to really die. You know there is no fixing that. Once you die, that's it. Think of all the positive things in your life and start with that. It sounds like you really love your parents. It takes alot of courage to live but life is what you make it. It's not easy sometimes but it sure is worth it. Call it what you want, what ever keeps you going. Hang in there, whatever makes you feel down or bad, work on it. Life is to short as it is. We are all living on borrowed time and have to make the most of it. Good luck to you and many many happy days to you.
2007-09-11 12:36:15 · answer #3 · answered by darlene z 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You love your parents and you see how much it hurts your mom see someone she cares about pass away. Imagine if that was her baby girl. Suicide is a truly selfish act and the only reason you haven't is for very unselfish reasons. You care about your parents, and that's something to live for.
2007-09-11 12:29:06 · answer #4 · answered by Rachel The Hippie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither. Its the realization that your suicide is the wrong thing to do to yourself. Life is a terrific thing and although you might not think so now, it gets better as you get older.
2007-09-11 13:05:19 · answer #5 · answered by Oz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is because you LOVE your parents and that is why you don't want to commit suicide.
But, I suggest you talk to your parents and ask them to get you some help with your feelings.
2007-09-11 12:32:29 · answer #6 · answered by Aliz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are a million reasons to live - go find them!!!!!!!!!!
2007-09-11 12:26:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋