I consider my boyfriend very attractive. But almost everyday after he gets home from work he tells me stories about female customers hitting up on him and flirting w/ him at work. Could he be lying just to make me feel how lucky i am to be w/ him? Could all his stories be true??
2007-09-11 05:50:35 · 20 answers · asked by ~JUST ME~ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
One of my ex's did the same thing. But it seems that most guys tell those stories just to make you feel like, "Gee wiz, I'm such a lucky girl to have gotten such a stud!" What they don't realize is, it mostly just makes us either pissed off, or think that they are big fat liars. Also, some guys think that if a girl talks to them or says 'hi', or looks at them for half a second that they're being hit on. Sometimes guys can be dumb. The stories are probably not true.
2007-09-11 05:56:05 · answer #1 · answered by Jaz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, could very well be. Now, it is important for you to reconized him on his looks and how much does he do for you. Sometime guys need to have that security from their mates.
A well kept man is a happy man..I have a great girl that makes me feel good all the time..I will never even think of having other woman come between us. I know what I have
2007-09-11 12:54:58 · answer #2 · answered by Burt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It looks like the opp site...
It looks like hes insecure about being in a relationship with you, maybe he thinks he might loose you so he pretends other girls flirt with him to show you how lucky you are!
Just make him feel secure...
He should stop after a while!
2007-09-11 12:55:34 · answer #3 · answered by Kawaii-Kitty! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
those stories could be absolutely true, or horrible lies. he may want you to feel lucky, but that is the wrong way to do it. you need to have a talk with him. maybe you don't want to hear those stories because they make you feel bad. tell him how it makes you feel and why it makes you feel that way.
2007-09-11 12:55:21 · answer #4 · answered by hinderbaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might be trying to be honest with you, so that if you go to his work one day,a nd see the women flirting, youwon't be suprised. He might be insecure, and this is his way of letting you know that you have quite a catch on your hands. He may feel unapprecciated and wants to let you know other women do apprecciate him.
2007-09-11 12:55:10 · answer #5 · answered by cindy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The issue isn't "are the stories true?" The issue is WHY is he telling you that these women are hitting on him? Does he enjoy the reaction he gets, or is he stuck on himself? Ask him.
2007-09-11 12:54:42 · answer #6 · answered by say_tay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably a little true?? But he could be trying to make you feel jealous and right. Lucky to have him.
2007-09-11 12:53:55 · answer #7 · answered by Chris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheaters are insecure, and need to attract constant attention on the side. They flaunt their popularity in attempts to boost their own low self-esteem.
I know this from experience, just my 2 cents.
2007-09-11 12:56:40 · answer #8 · answered by xen01 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you ask him? Babe is it true that people hit on you at work, or are you trying to do this to upset me?
Besides if you love him, why do you care? He comes home to YOU
2007-09-11 12:58:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he just telling you all these stories...cuz he thinks that it will make u like him more..and respect him...and thats easy for him to get another girl....So i think he just making stories up...cuz if that would be true he wouldn't even tell u them....
2007-09-11 12:54:45 · answer #10 · answered by Rina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋