Family & Relationships - 8 September 2007

2007-09-08 23:59:51 · 8 answers · asked by nuhaa3 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband lied to me before marriage that he is divorced. But after my marriage I came to know he is not divorced yet.Later He divorced her legally and Religously.But he does not send her the divorce papers.I dont know Why.The papers are with me. Everytime I ask him he gives his own reasons as busy etc. Respond quickly as to what should I do to make him send Divorce papers immediately to that female and let that female go ahead in her life.

2007-09-08 23:57:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

She always make fun of my college course, Physical Therapy. She tells me that I am going to be a massage therapist.. that's my only job.

But WTF I HAVE A HARD TIME BUSTING MY *** WORKING FOR MY GRADES FOR THIS COURSE!

Yet, she always makes fun of me.. She wants me to be a nurse, what the hell, I don't like that job!

I really hate what she's doing to me. And I just have to control myself from showing her I am annoyed already.

2007-09-08 23:52:47 · 11 answers · asked by juliette 4 in Family

Ok, Ever Since I Was Younger My Brother Has Always Been Overprotective of Me. At First I Thought It Was Cute Because I Was His Little Sister And He Didn't Want Me Getting Involved With The Wrong Guys. But Now, I'm 18 And It's Still A Problem.

It's Really Starting To Get Annoying Now And I Can't Take It Anymore... I Just Want To Live My Life Just Like He's Living His. I'm Still A Virgin And I Just Got My First Boyfriend A Little Before I Turned 18... And I Think That's Pretty Good Considering Alot of Girls Are Getting Pregnant, Already Have Kids, Or Are Just Extremely Promiscuous.

What Should I Do?

2007-09-08 23:51:21 · 7 answers · asked by ♥Ello♥Vee♥E♥ says Shut Up, Take Notes 7 in Family

me and my partner have a four year old and a ten month year old. Both girls. his parents are upsetting me because they pay no attention to our girls, but there other granddaughter get everything and they see her all the time. they live five minutes away. they didnt bother to call or phone on our eldest daughters birthday, they have been to visit baby once since she has been born, they dont phone or text to c how they are. his mother has told me im not welcome and that they wont speak to me again because i have asked her if she is going to visit, or can girls go round. she has sent me abusive text mesages and my partner has seen them. i feel abit upset that her wont stand up to her and ask why she doesnt want to see girls and why is she so hostile towards me, it is really hurtful that she doesnt seem to want to see the kids.am i asking to much to ask my parent to stand up for me.gemma

2007-09-08 23:43:30 · 10 answers · asked by S D 1 in Family

My mother (not a gold-digger) is 75 and two husbands have died. She's fairly well off. She gave me a check for $5,000 and I could really use the money but feel I don't deserve it (I know, poor me). My first thought was WHEW I could pay off so many debts. But all I can think is I don't deserve it, I didn't earn it, Then again I was a good daughter to my two step-fathers. How do people "born" with money live with themselves when they have money they didn't earn? I want to tell her I can't accept it because I didn't earn it, but she didn't "earn" it either. She only wants to help. My other thought is I would accept it if I could give some to some of my struggling friends, and some to charity. I know this sounds too good to be true, but I can't live with myself if I just take the check.

2007-09-08 23:43:07 · 12 answers · asked by wikedwhich1 2 in Family

2007-09-08 23:39:23 · 28 answers · asked by BRAD Thomas 1 in Singles & Dating

Can you, please, tell me about them?

Thank you very much! :)

Have a wonderful day! :)

2007-09-08 23:13:35 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

ok guys first off im not gay. its just that i was used to being alone without a girlfriend for like 13 years. then all of a sudden i am with this woman who turns out to be a total ***** no problem letting her go but now i am not happy being alone and need someone else. this woman like f#uck#d me up cause now i am not happy being alone. i could always go back to her but NO on that. its like wtf??????????

2007-09-08 23:11:24 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is it wrong?

Would it be unfaithful if you then finished the relationshipo and got back to married life?

2007-09-08 23:00:21 · 33 answers · asked by Diamond Geezer 2 in Marriage & Divorce

she has already had 3 DWI's (driving while intoxicated)..and been to jail also..and we want her to stop drinking all together..me and my sister use to try our best before to make her stop but she wouldnt listen..and look where she ended up..in jail..and now she getz out..doesnt have a car anymore (becuz she wrecked it)..not becuz of her being drunk thought..she went to jail for it becuz the night before she got drunk and that stayed in her system and the other ppl that were in the car with her got injured and had to got to the hospital..and she said she would stop but we have found her drinking again..what we think is that she is thinking that since she isnt driving she can drink..but we want her to stop all together even if she isnt driving at the moment becuz her license got suspended..becuz it might pursuit her to get drunk and drive again when she does ger her license back..and we r trying our best to make her stop..and she just doesnt understand..we just dont kno what to do..

2007-09-08 22:59:38 · 9 answers · asked by 24_KaY 1 in Family

He tells me things that in my life have made me sad...like my adoption, and other things. He tells me I am a slut, no good, ect, that there is no use talking to me about anything...As far as realtes to my child, he TELLS me what to do, never 'discusses', then hangs up so there is no discussion. I am FORCED to deal with this (court orders, but no help with it)

2007-09-08 22:50:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

As many of the boys get pissed off,what to do at that time??:D

2007-09-08 22:48:36 · 8 answers · asked by Zia Nadeem 1 in Weddings

2007-09-08 22:38:23 · 11 answers · asked by izebhucks09 1 in Singles & Dating

Everyone I know has their own social circle. I just have my boyfriend (who I love dearly) and he too has his own social circle. What is wrong with me? Why aren't I part of a group of good friends? I am 31 and quite normal I think??!!! I have had various groups of friends throughout my life but it just seems we've either grown apart, outgrown each other or occasionally fallen out. I gets lonely sometimes, anyone else in the same situation?

2007-09-08 22:36:33 · 12 answers · asked by Tluni 3 in Friends

(first off **** of if your going to give me a negative comment)

okay, My boyfriend who i met over the internet yeah no biggie (dont comment about it because i dont give a ****, if your going to comment me about something stupid then how about you comment about me being raped at 6). I'm mailing him a letter, He lives in Storm Lake, Iowa I Live in LaVergne, Tennessee sam time zone so yeah, oh and I'm not going to put a returning address if it makes a differance. (dont say i have to because i know i dont)

2007-09-08 22:34:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

they from france and they love me but we can,t in the usa,, but i love them what do i do

2007-09-08 22:16:24 · 7 answers · asked by rocketman 3 in Singles & Dating

About a year ago, I met this guy and fell in love with him. I felt he was my soulmate. At tat time he had a galfriend. He was attracted to me but promised himself tat he will never have sex with me because he is already with someone else. He recently broke up with her because she cheated on him. I and he became officially seeing each other. Now the problem is he is married with 3 kids. His kids are teenagers. He doesnt love his wife anymore. He cannot divorce because of the children.
Im 32 and never married before. We agreed we will live together and i will have his child. Something is bothering me.
Am I doing the right thing?

2007-09-08 22:13:53 · 1 answers · asked by scarlett 3 in Singles & Dating

Okay, I met this guy online. We have been IMing/texting pretty much every day since we started talking to eachother. He really like me, and I really like him. (hes not a creep. everything hes told me has checked out.) He literally lives like 2 miles away from me. Thing is, is he wants to meet me. I would like to meet him too, its just everytime he brings it up, my nerves get the best of me and I end up making some excuse for me not to go. (this has only happend twice) Im not getting nervous because Im afraid of him, I get nervous because Im afraid of making a complete fool of myself. That and I have never met anyone I have met online before. My question is: 1) how do I get over my nervousness? 2) Has anyone here met there bf/gf online? and 3) Ladies, do you think hes hot? Heres the link:
http://i220.photobucket.com/albums/dd107/Rideak06/attachment19.jpg

2007-09-08 22:07:07 · 4 answers · asked by rideak06 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm really short and i wanna know if guys like short chicks :(

2007-09-08 22:05:36 · 21 answers · asked by cherryhsheri 1 in Singles & Dating

So I have this acquaintance that I've met several weeks ago during orientation, we've only talked two or three times then. After that we haven't did not see each other in two months. So just yesterday I went to a club and I saw him there and he recognized me from orientation. We just exchange hellos and how are yous. Then I got into the dance floor with my friends and he went up from behind me and start grinding the whole time and kept grabbing me from my hips! Does that mean he's interested in me or attracted to me. I am so into him, I hope so! ;)

2007-09-08 21:55:10 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex-boyfriend & I recently broke up but we still keep in touch. Last night we were talking & he told me how much he missed me and still loved me. He asked me y I haven't dated any1 since we broke up, then said to me me "tell the truth, ur not w nobody else bc I'm the only guy u want to b with,huh?" I lied and said "no it's bc of the way guys approach me-if they approached me in the right way I would give 1 of them a chance." I didn't want 2 tell him bc I didn't want him to think that I was sprung & couldn't get ovr him. He got quiet and said oh. I asked him y he kept asking me stuff like that he said he still had feelings for me and loved me. He wanted me 2 be real so I told him I did miss him & have feelings 4 him & wanted to go back out but I didn't want him to break up w me again. He got quiet & said "Mm. l don't understand u. I don't even feel the same way about u like I did." He said that he didn't feel that I liked him bc I don't act like it. Then out of no where he got upset.

2007-09-08 21:49:03 · 31 answers · asked by Jinga 2 in Singles & Dating

I heard some guys enjoy digisex. Is this true?

2007-09-08 21:42:51 · 10 answers · asked by Loving.You 4 in Singles & Dating

I am married for 5 years with a very attractive wife. I have a very close friend at the office with whom I confide my personal life. He is very experienced with women and advises me how to handle issues I have with my wife. But lately I have started telling him very intimate things about my relationship with my wife and he seems to take particular interest in knowing more about her. The thing is I have also taken a liking in telling him these things and often look forward to meeting him during office hours to tell him these details. I have invited him to join my wife for lunch on 2 occasions and it gives a ver exciting feeling seeing both of them together interacting. Can anybody shed some light on why I feel and act this way?

2007-09-08 21:23:27 · 29 answers · asked by Rick 1 in Marriage & Divorce

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2007-09-08 21:22:47 · 11 answers · asked by Momi 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-08 21:19:54 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have been seeing this girl for 3 years and i love her, i'm not sure exactly how she feels, besides knowing that she has feelings for me, but her education and children are keeping her from committing, we've never had serious talk, but i love her, and her children love me, i want to ask her to marry me, is that to presumptious for me to ask, but i want to know whether i'm just wasting my time or if she is committed. we do have a cool relationship, she calls me everyday, and we've been intimate a lot of times, but because of her previuse marriage, she is hesitant on a relationship, but i really would like to find out if she wants something to me, i know once i ask it will either break us appart or bring us closer, i dont know maybe i should wait, but then, maybe i'm waiting for nothing and wasting my time, this girl is so confusing, any advice by anyone?

2007-09-08 21:18:48 · 5 answers · asked by jack a 1 in Singles & Dating

I currently have a boyfriend, whom I love very much. We started dating a month ago, But we have been best friends for about 4 years. We have always had feelings for each other, but when one was going to ask the other out, one of us always had another gf/bf.
Well about a year ago I broke up with my ex boyfriend Charlie, after dating for about 2 years. He cheated on me and got another girl prego. We are still friends, but we rarely ever talk. He is always telling me that he still loves me and everything, but I don't love him the way I did before he cheated on me. I only love him as a friend and he knows that. I thought I was completely over him, but here recently I have found myself crying over him, every time a song comes on that he has dedicated to me, or when i see one of his old pictures. I have talked to my current boyfriend about it, and he understands, but also he thinks that me and Charlie was meant for each other. I don't believe we was though. I feel unfaithful to Garrett.

2007-09-08 21:00:42 · 9 answers · asked by rebel_chick425 2 in Singles & Dating

I answered a topic which dealt with a newlywed and her new hub who she found masturbated. I noticed one posting in particular by a man who posted 'What's with all these "young" females coming in here & answering this question as though they are an expert on the subject?'

BTW: How old are you bob, and how do you know all of us are young and inexperienced???

Anyhoo.....let me start the ball rolling. I am in my mid 30's and met my former spouse at 18--he was 20. We married at 20 and 22, and divorced at 31 and 33. We each knew the other masturbated BEFORE marriage. We each knew it had NOTHING to do with sexual dissatisfaction--we had a great sex life, even long after the divorce, lol.

Could most of you actually marry someone without speaking about intimate matters such as this? Seriously? I started masturbating in my teens, and didn't stop because I had a stud at my disposal, it is great stress release and you don't have to worry about pregnancy and/or mess.

2007-09-08 20:48:16 · 18 answers · asked by navy_brat913 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I met a girl that was at the time in a relationship. We were attracted to each other and we really clicked and feelings developed. Her boyfriend left for college and said that they should go on a break. However, he still calls her a lot, and acts as if they were still together. She tells me she no longer feels the same towards him. She started telling me how controlling he was and that she is done with that. The boyfriend saw some pictures of her and me hanging out and was furious. She finally told him that she doesn't feel the same anymore but he just doesn't seem to get it. He still constantly calls her and tries to sweet talk her back. She keeps trying to tell him but he just doesn't seem to get it. I really feel that I am really responsible for a lot of this. I am guilty but at the same time I think she deserves better. I tell her end it with him because there is not much she can do if she doesn't feel it anymore. What should she do?

2007-09-08 20:38:32 · 3 answers · asked by Edmond K 2 in Singles & Dating