Family & Relationships - 8 September 2007

so person a and person b were on the wrestling team with me... they were constantly flirting and asking my out and for my number ect. after about a year of not talking to them i found out that they thought i knew about the bet. because i was mad at them for saying i was on my period 24 7. They had a beat to see who could go out with me and fool around with them... neither won. i found out through one of my friends and now they two boys know i know......

I wanna get revenge but dont know how
they plan on doing this two another girl this year too

2007-09-08 13:59:37 · 20 answers · asked by Carmen 2 in Singles & Dating

i found this purse yesterday at the mall.
it is $65.
i asked my mom for it and she said no.
i asked her if she could buy it for me now and take away my allowence to earn that money for it.
she said no.
i dont know what to do. i love this purse and i know it is a lot of money but there were only two left and i dont see the big deal i mean i would be paying for it with my own money and i havent gotten a new purse in months and my old one is falling apart.

what can i do?

2007-09-08 13:48:14 · 10 answers · asked by MissSamanthaAnne 1 in Family

i wanna keep my last name for a while for some personal reasons. anyway, is that possible and how do i go about doing that???

2007-09-08 13:43:31 · 6 answers · asked by kandycisses 1 in Weddings

I'm 19 and I'm dating with 20s guys. 1 guy was bisexual and I don't want that. The other guys were all nice, but I liked them as buddies and I couldn't love them.

Every man I met said I'm so cute, nice and pretty and that they fell in love with me. I always feel so ashamed and sorry for them, because I don't love them. And they don't except me as a buddy. I'm always polite, but it still hurt their feelings.

I want a boyfriend and buddies too. How can I get male buddies?

Do you also have this problem?

The men you want you can't get and the men you don't want you can get?

What should I do?

2007-09-08 13:43:27 · 11 answers · asked by Kay 1 in Singles & Dating

normally at least one of my ''girl''friends is always mad at me so i normally sit with the guys at lunch. I notice that when i sit with them at lunch people ( other girls) look at me funny. Should i keep sitting wih my true ''guy'' friends or should i sit with the rest of the girlz so i don't fell out of place? or get wierd looks? i'm reallie confused HELP!!!

2007-09-08 13:41:10 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Last night I had a dream that my boy friend was having a fling with one of my friends. Even worst that my best friend knew about it all along and never said anything. I was overly upset with all three of them. What could that mean?

2007-09-08 13:30:53 · 5 answers · asked by JINELLE P 1 in Friends

lets say I have a friend ok this girl who likes me but Im married but I cant do nothing with her what should I do?

2007-09-08 13:19:56 · 11 answers · asked by Southern Cowgirl 2 in Singles & Dating

Has anyone left a cheating, lying spouse that they loved to the bone and would die for- if you did how did you finially decide to leave and how has that decision affected you?

2007-09-08 13:19:25 · 6 answers · asked by Chava 2 in Marriage & Divorce

When I have relationship with a guy friend(a neighbor) my mom tells me not to find him, only have him find me. But we are friends and don't friends find each other?
We sort of had a romantic relationship and fought over it my mom knows. Maybe she is protecting me to not be too soft with other people (since that is my usual reactions)

Also when we don't go to a tutor anymore (professional one) she won't let me contact them, same as my older employer who never called me back after I told her my relationship is bad with my mom and I don't want to go there yet.
I forgot to call her back, and my mom is like don't contact her.

Also there were instances where a neighbor needing babysitter didn't come and she told me not to find them after the daughter (6) came over tried to knock on my door (I heard it , but she didn't really make a ring and went away)

Is she trying to mess up my relationships with others or ting? Is she wrong or is what she says ok with you if you were me

2007-09-08 13:18:44 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

No running not moving away! Just moving on in order to love life.

2007-09-08 13:18:12 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

like finding some one that will be with you through thike and thin.

2007-09-08 13:16:51 · 7 answers · asked by JULIE G 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok this is early , but iwant to plan it from now that ive starded high shool.

When i finish high school i want to move to England and when i leave i want everything set up.Like have my house so the day i arrive i have already were to stay.Thats the most important part.............i want to go to college for the 4 years i have to go to college.

My problem is how could i send money starting like right now,,,when i have a job.

Does that mean i have to go for a short time like to open a bank account and send money.

LOTS OF MONEY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I have no family members in England.


So i really need help.


I tell my mom but she thinks im just fooling around and she dont even listen to me she just ignores me.....AND THAT MAKES ME HELLA MAD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


So please help me because i also have to get a job in London.
I want to live there for the rest of my life.

2007-09-08 13:16:09 · 1 answers · asked by I Love Twilight! 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Well my friend is mad at me and i dont know why,I thought it was because i hung out with my other friend more than him i really dont know and when i ask him he just doesnt answer back!

2007-09-08 13:15:53 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i just want to talk to sumone that knows about this and can help..serious ppl plz

2007-09-08 13:10:40 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want to go live with my dad in Wyoming. I live in Texas and I'm 13.... is that old enough to choose custody??

2007-09-08 13:10:39 · 13 answers · asked by Tessa 3 in Family

i went to his house the last 2 saturdays...
the first saturday he was like you are so perty saying stuff like that, and his mom asked him you are starting to like her and he said yes.(but he has a girl friend)
the next saturday we kida kissed... it was more like a peck. i was kinda with this guy 2 years ago but he kinda cheated on me, i usto to be ugly and i have changed alot...
i fix my self more and lost a little waight...
so is he lying to me or what..
should i not kiss him no more so he could take me serious if we ever do get to gether...

2007-09-08 13:10:18 · 7 answers · asked by kim 1 in Singles & Dating

like why do they date a girl or a boy

2007-09-08 13:10:07 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My birthday is coming up next week on September 14, and I have no idea what I should get! I'm turning 14, so anybody have any ideas on what I should get????

2007-09-08 13:09:45 · 5 answers · asked by Twistie™ 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Are men more responsible for forming women's dating expectations, since in the early years, we are the ones who usually cause the "hearbreak", or should young girls be taught by their mothers to expect this, and be more prepared for their "first love"?? Or is there nothing to be done to prevent/prepare for hurt, and men are men, and not evil??

2007-09-08 13:08:02 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am known for being nice, a bit off, and smart. People use me to get answers for homework/class work. I am sick and tired of it, but I am afraid to say no to people because I want to make new friends. This year seem especially hard for me because none of my good friends are in my class and the people I am interested in already have their little tight knit group of friends. How do I change my reputation so people will stop using me?

2007-09-08 13:07:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i dont want to........im not stuped i know we all grow up but
i dont want to be a stuped zitty teen ager(no effence if your a teen)
im in 6th grade and please dont awsner this like
"sorry hun its part of life"

2007-09-08 13:06:37 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

its not that i do not love my bf. its just my ex bf was my kind of guy. my new bf is very sweet n loves me a lot but he is not able to be THE GUY for me n that is the reason i am not able to give him my 100% as i am not sure if i want to be with him. but i do not want to hurt him as he is a very nice guy n loves me a lot............ maybe i love him too but m not able to realise.......................... i am so confused......... plz help!!!!!!!!

p.s any advice on how to get over my ex..

2007-09-08 13:05:50 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-08 13:04:03 · 1 answers · asked by coconuts 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

why are guys immature and rude? no offense to you guys out there but you act like total idiots sometimes. you say random things to girls that walk by like baby and stuff. some guys dont do that but why do you do that?

2007-09-08 13:03:32 · 29 answers · asked by kivasiri 3 in Singles & Dating

Ok guys, i have a couple of questions.
First of all, would u like it better if a girl came up to you and confidently asked you out, or said she liked you, asked you to dance, ect. or would you prefer to make the first move?

Secondly, what kind of girl would u prefer to date, someone quiet, and kept to herself, someone bossy, or someone just free spirited who goes with the flow but has an opinion on everything.

Third do u think its cute or annoying when a girl does random/dumb and do u like girls to be hard to get and mysterious or available?

Last! I have a feeling the people who are answering this aren't shallow, and no one relys on looks. But what is your preference on what an ideal girl for you would look like? taller than u? shorter? thinner? fattter? blonde hair? red hair? black hair? brown? eye color?

thanks you

and by the way i am wondering because i never know how to act around a guy, to be random and annoying, or to be mysterious, or quiet.
thanks for answer

2007-09-08 12:59:00 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-08 12:56:57 · 20 answers · asked by krisy360 1 in Singles & Dating

well my sister was 14 when she lost her virginity to a 20 year old guy and they had been dating behind my family's back for a year before we found out about it. they have been dating since july 2004. well he didnt use a condom and now she has a std which gives her possibility of cervical cancer which can prevent her from having kids and can killl her and she has been on the pill since she was 14 and she has to constantly have a paps mere (or however you spell it).anyways he almost got my mom arrested cause he was up in her face at mccoy stadium and she slapped him twice and he pressed charges. she almost got arrested but since she had the complaint of what he did to her she is not in jail. but now everyone is at truce with him but im still not. i just cant get over of how he KNEW he had a std and he didnt evn try to use protection and all my family has been through cause of him. is it wrong to still be the only mad at him for what he did? is it wrong to hate the relationship?

2007-09-08 12:56:48 · 6 answers · asked by Subtle Revenge 7 in Family

romantic yes or no 1.dinner&movie 2.cuddle on the pier watch the moon and talk 3.make love to luther vandross (if this word were mine or the closer i get to you) with fresh soft sheets bright & red candels

2007-09-08 12:56:03 · 9 answers · asked by chris l 1 in Singles & Dating

can i have any advice of getting on to 3rd and 4th base in a relationship? i want to with my gf but i dont know how to ask or does it just happen?

2007-09-08 12:55:43 · 7 answers · asked by DaDoC 2 in Singles & Dating

there is this guy i like i mean i REALLY LIKE and he flirts with me all the time and i like him a lot well too bad he also flirts with lots of other girls how do i know when he really likes me?
is there a way to know he likes me by the way he acts?

2007-09-08 12:55:40 · 13 answers · asked by kara :D 3 in Singles & Dating