well my sister was 14 when she lost her virginity to a 20 year old guy and they had been dating behind my family's back for a year before we found out about it. they have been dating since july 2004. well he didnt use a condom and now she has a std which gives her possibility of cervical cancer which can prevent her from having kids and can killl her and she has been on the pill since she was 14 and she has to constantly have a paps mere (or however you spell it).anyways he almost got my mom arrested cause he was up in her face at mccoy stadium and she slapped him twice and he pressed charges. she almost got arrested but since she had the complaint of what he did to her she is not in jail. but now everyone is at truce with him but im still not. i just cant get over of how he KNEW he had a std and he didnt evn try to use protection and all my family has been through cause of him. is it wrong to still be the only mad at him for what he did? is it wrong to hate the relationship?
2007-09-08 12:56:48 · 6 answers · asked by Subtle Revenge 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
my sister is 17 now and im 15 and she lives with her boyfriend. and im learning from her mistakes and i cant have abf cause of her stupid mistakes.
2007-09-11 08:34:43 · update #1
I understand why you don't like him, but I really wouldn't take so much time hating on him. What I mean is. Don't waste your time hating him. Just ignore him. He doesn't have to be part of your life. You don't have to speak to him, or be involved in discussions where he is of topic. Your sister is making her decisions, and there is nothing you can do to change her decisions. I would say just soak it up and learn from her mistakes.
But you are very caring for being so concerned. She is very lucky to have you.
2007-09-08 15:34:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she got HPV. well I'm in the same situation with my older sister. She's married but he's a a$$hole! don't work, drug addict, and gave her HPV. everyone stays out of it because shes old enough to know what she's doing. by being mad at him, at least he knows he can't fool everyone. but at least support your sis and let her know you're still gonna be there for her no matter what.
2007-09-08 20:38:32 · answer #2 · answered by CherryHearts32 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well whats done is done....i think if he is going to be a part of your sisters life you have to let go of the past..especially if she has forgiven him for infecting her...you dont have to like him but i do think you need to be nice or at least civil for the sake of your lil sis and your family which you said has already been through so much...drama doesn't do anything but cause more drama..
2007-09-08 20:08:32 · answer #3 · answered by Jennifer C 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
OK. The guy's an irresponsible jerk who
oughta be shot. ... But you can't do that.
You probably can charge him with
Statutory Rape, - a crime in most venues.
Since he gave her the disease, your sister
should be willing to testify.
2007-09-08 20:32:55 · answer #4 · answered by Irv S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is not wrong for u to hate ur sister bf for something he knew he did to ur sister! its not right to put someone elses life ahead of his sexual pleasures
2007-09-08 22:13:40 · answer #5 · answered by rugbrat86 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u are entitled to ur own opinion of the relationship...u are a good sister! if u dont like it, then dont like it....i wouldnt either!
2007-09-08 20:25:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋