When I have relationship with a guy friend(a neighbor) my mom tells me not to find him, only have him find me. But we are friends and don't friends find each other?
We sort of had a romantic relationship and fought over it my mom knows. Maybe she is protecting me to not be too soft with other people (since that is my usual reactions)
Also when we don't go to a tutor anymore (professional one) she won't let me contact them, same as my older employer who never called me back after I told her my relationship is bad with my mom and I don't want to go there yet.
I forgot to call her back, and my mom is like don't contact her.
Also there were instances where a neighbor needing babysitter didn't come and she told me not to find them after the daughter (6) came over tried to knock on my door (I heard it , but she didn't really make a ring and went away)
Is she trying to mess up my relationships with others or ting? Is she wrong or is what she says ok with you if you were me
2007-09-08 13:18:44 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I can understand why your mom wouldn't want you to call certain people. Esp. if she is from the old school, meaning women were taught to not call on the guys, but let the guys call on you.
As far as the neighbor, needing a babysitter. I feel like your mom is teaching you dishonesty. You could have at least answered the door. If you wasn't able to babysit, then you should have just said so.
An old employer, you should have been able to contact them.
I dont see what the problem there was.
Your mom is being overly protective. You need to talk with her.
Good Luck, faith
2007-09-08 16:59:02 · answer #1 · answered by faith♥missouri 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋