Last night I had a dream that my boy friend was having a fling with one of my friends. Even worst that my best friend knew about it all along and never said anything. I was overly upset with all three of them. What could that mean?
2007-09-08 13:30:53 · 5 answers · asked by JINELLE P 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
First, I understand that after only three weeks since your break-up, you are still in a lot of pain ,are still confused(did I do the right thing),and wondering if you should get back together.That is normal and my heart aches for you and the the pain you currently feel.Your dream is also normal.Five years is practically an eternity in affairs of the heart.It is a protective reflex on the part of your heart to try to shield you using dreams.Unless you know for a fact that your friend had a fling with your ex and your best friend knew it and was quiet,you see how wrong your waking feelings are.I would suggest the following for now to help you:1)don't hesitate to lean on your friends and family for help and support2)It is okay to feel the pain, disappointment, and hurt you now feel3)While you did not mention the reason(s)for the break-up, think about them to make sure you and/or your ex are not overreacting,making assumptionsor mistakes4)ask if breaking up was the best or only solution5) ask if it can be fixed.I am an incurable romantic who believes in the healing and redemptive power of love,and that there is no problem that can't be resolved if the parties want to and love each other. There is no question that after five years of being together , you guys love one another.Please don't allow false pride and ego to stand in the way if there is hope(and I think there is)in fixing this romance.Don't throw this away.I wish you both all the best, and please let us know how things turn out.Good luck.
2007-09-08 14:05:12 · answer #1 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Three Years Is A Veryy Long Time.. But Then Again So Is Five Years Tugevaa.. I Can't See Whyy She Blanked Yu Aftaa Yu Spent So Long With Eachovaa.. She's Obviouslly A Horrible Person That Yu Need Tu Stuff Tu Thah Back Of Yur Mind .. Leave Her Get On With It, She Doesn't Deserve Yu . xx
2016-04-03 21:52:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dreams arn't always what they seem to be. If that dream reoccurs, pay attention to the friends who're having a fling with the guy. Does she look like you? As for being upset wit the the three of them, It means you're jealous and still in love with the guy.
2007-09-08 13:40:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It has been hard on your x boyfriend too.
your dream means you were suspicious of him before but you didn't want to admit it to your self.
2007-09-08 13:45:16 · answer #4 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means you don't trust this boyfriend you broke up with. So it's a good thing you broke up with him!
2007-09-08 13:36:54 · answer #5 · answered by kathyw 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋