Family & Relationships - 8 September 2007

Guys how can you tell if a girl likes you? Girls how can you tell if a guy likes you?

Thanks for answering!

2007-09-08 12:07:25 · 11 answers · asked by ♥nikki♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

If you had a family member teaching you in school..(someone you not super close to (like a cousin)?? would you be more shy around them and feel like you have to live up to something more? or would you be more laid back??

2007-09-08 12:06:27 · 5 answers · asked by Wut?I missed it 3 in Family

Hey I've been dating this woman for over 10 months now, shes really nice with me and we can have great I mean great conversations all day long, i love that about her, but she is older than me and she almost never wanna have sex with me, she always tells me that shes tired and not in the mood, that her sexual drive is so down bcause the meds she takes and her age... But sometimes she tells me that at the middle of the night she gets horny and have to use her toy, but when shes with me shes never in the mood. I told her to call me when she gets the urge but she never do it.... do you think shes not attracted to me like she say she is? what should I do? stay with her or move on?

2007-09-08 12:05:41 · 14 answers · asked by nikko4ladies 2 in Singles & Dating

He gets so mad sometimes for the stupidist reasons. he starts yelling and it pisses me off so bad i want to hit him or tell him off. of course i wouldnt do that but its the thoughts really. it used to be every once in a while but now its almost everyday. im gettin sick of it. some times i even feel like running away just be away from him. the other day he went on a buisiness trip for 2 days. i was so happy when i found that out. is that wrong of me? hes not abusive. but lately hes been takin it out on our dog. then he try to play it off by sayin " i didnt even hit her hard" or "i was just holding her". she just a puppy its not her fault she not house trained yet. we will probably have to sell her b/c we dont want her abused. can i have soem advice on how not to get mad at him or to explain to him that hes acting weird. and also hes been taking these herbalife vitamins or sumthin could that have something to do with it?

2007-09-08 12:04:20 · 16 answers · asked by tchrebel101 1 in Family

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My daughter is now 17, in the school 6th form year 1.

This was not my wish though.

She deliberately failed her GCSE's or at least didnt try or study for them.
Basically, she wanted to stay on in school and not go onto College yet.
She is delaying "grown up" studies and life.

It hurts me to say, but she has become untrustful, very very lazy and has no "drive" or ambition.

She had a nice little part time job, but gave it up.

A lot of her friends parents are affluent etc.
We are not, and I like to go by my fore parents way of things.
Work hard for your rewards in life.

I wanted her to go to College.
Resit a couple of important GCSE's.
Gain some NVQ's.
Work the odd evening to fund her life style.

Is this so wrong?

She's now gone back to school to resit the deliberate failures.
Wont do any further studies.
Wont work.

(scream)........Help.................................

2007-09-08 12:03:13 · 18 answers · asked by Nutty 3 in Family

I'm a US citizen considering marrying a Kiwi and remaining in NZ, perhaps permanently..
Is NZ citizenship automatic in such a case?
If not, what other steps towards citizenship are necessary?
Thank you

2007-09-08 12:02:59 · 8 answers · asked by Lance W 1 in Marriage & Divorce

. . from the 1980s or know how to find some? Thanks!

2007-09-08 12:00:14 · 1 answers · asked by Misty T 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I like my friends husband i dont know if its a crush but i want him .... sexually is that bad ? I been feeling like this for awhile and im also married but no happy !! What should I do tell her or just stay away !

2007-09-08 11:54:30 · 22 answers · asked by Emi 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-08 11:52:58 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

God i dont know what the hell to do, she has serious bi polar and walked out on me saying she would never come back and never wants me again.. and packed up all her **** and left.. but now that she finds out im going to PA to hang out with my friends, she doesnt want me to go shes saying im leaving her all alone and ditching her... and that if i went then she'd definately never come back, i love her but i also want to go, and im also kind of sick of these games shes playing with me.. i dont know what the hell to do please help me.

2007-09-08 11:46:45 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

married 8 years ago, trying to get a divorce they moved back to indonesia i cant find them.. any suggestions no kids, property etc.

2007-09-08 11:45:30 · 7 answers · asked by graded 1 in Marriage & Divorce

is there anything i can do to improve my look? i think im pretty but you know a girl is always loking to try to look even better

no make-up: http://s173.photobucket.com/albums/w52/megluvsu_2007/?action=view¤t=mystuff080.jpg

make-up: http://s173.photobucket.com/albums/w52/megluvsu_2007/?action=view¤t=mystuff027.jpg

2007-09-08 11:44:57 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a male. and i like to fight.
For the past 6 months, i have seriously injured over 300 people from fighting.What would be a good "kill technique" thanks!

2007-09-08 11:36:34 · 2 answers · asked by pokemonguyjosh 3 in Friends

I know women cheat too but this is focused on my father. He has no respect for my mom every morning he gets up and calls the other women and ever afternoon when he comes home from work he gives her a call b4 anything else. She use to do the "call and hangup thing" but now he just calls her. My mom is not well of financially right now or else she would leave but u can see that the marriage is over and she has confronted him about the women but he denies it. But we're not stupid my sister and I are in our early 20's and I have heard him talk to her on the phone the way he should be talking to my mom. He wonders why I don't have any respect for him and why I always try to avoid him. I wish we were well of financially so we could all move out he doesn't know how sick he makes me. The strange thing is I over hear him telling the other omen about us, things like our majors in school, jobs, hobbies, etc. And if we were to confront him about it he would probably say she just a friend.

2007-09-08 11:32:30 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok so there is this guy in my science class,(who i know likes me) and every day this week he gave me gum. and im really starting to like him a lot. but then yesterday, we were passing notes (yes i know, its not smart to break the rules and i should play atention to class, but im a straight A student and i think i can handle haveing a BF) he asked me if i had one of his teachers, and i didn't. so i asked him why he asked, he said he needed to know what the homework was. then he asked if i had a phone. and i thought he ment cell phone, which i don't have (nor do i have a home phone) so i said no. my question is, do you think me might have taken that as a rejection? do you think he thinks i don't like him. because i really do like him i was just telling him the truth. what do you think?

2007-09-08 11:31:08 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-08 11:30:41 · 12 answers · asked by Meagan 1 in Singles & Dating

It starts with the first ring: "How much should he pay for my engagement ring?"

"How can I tell people I want money toward my house/ remodelling/ honeymoon/ other thing as a gift instead of what they want to get me?" (Funny, they never want the money donated to charity)

"How much must/should my mommy & daddy pay for their adult offspring's wedding?"

"How much must/should my fiance's mommy & daddy pay for their adult offspring's wedding?"

"Should I be mad that my/his mommy & daddy aren't contributing to MY wedding?"

"My mommy & daddy are only giving me $8,000 for My Special Day. It's hell planning a wedding on just 8 grand. How do I tell them they have to pay more?"

"I sent my registry info with the invitations and nobody bought from it! How should I deal with these spiteful people?"

"I eloped and didn't get gifts...I want a do-over in church, but my mommy & daddy won't fund it. Is that fair?"

"He only paid $2K for the wedding ring. What should I do?"

2007-09-08 11:29:44 · 11 answers · asked by Bill 6 in Weddings

2007-09-08 11:29:06 · 13 answers · asked by Lori N 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, I'm a freshman girl and I'm barely into high school. But I'm also in the marching band and so is he. We stand two people away from each other. Anway, he's a senior... probably 17 or 18. And I'm, 14. I really like him though. He's kinda shy, artistic, he's my section leader in band, so the teachers trust him, which is a good sign I guess. He hasn't asked me out or anything, but I just want to know if he's worth chasing. Please don't say I'm too young to know how I feel. I hate when people do that. And don't say "Only if it's cool with your parents." I don't care what my parents think right now.


PS- I've only had one boyfriend, and it wasn't really a real relationship cuz we just went out for 2 months, called each other twice, never went anywhere together, so it wasn't really anything.

2007-09-08 11:27:03 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

please help me... i am a freshmen students who wants to ba a cool guy but i am acting like a nerd.... please help me... everyone in our school hates me, nobody wants to talk to me and they are just avoiding me.. i just want to hang out with the cool guys in our school and be pupular or famous..

2007-09-08 11:24:41 · 12 answers · asked by Dev!L~AcE 2 in Singles & Dating

In my immediate family? My cousin & my nephew just had babies, but no one told me. 2 new births in the family. Also, when my OWN twin sister got pregnant, I was the last one to find out, & I had to hear from other sources. & she said her kids' births are none of my business. I mean, do I NOT have the right to be informed of new family members or who died? & when my oldest sister died, no one told me, & I couldn't even go to the funeral. I was one of the last ones to find out about her death. I never got to meet her in person because me & my twin sister & some brothers were taken away into foster care.

I'm 24 now. Why would my brother inform my former foster mom about my sister's death before me? & she didn't even give me the message. My twin sister was raped & my former foster mom didn't tell me. I overheard her telling HER family members.

2007-09-08 11:24:37 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-09-08 11:22:30 · 2 answers · asked by Madmen22 1 in Singles & Dating

I know someone who is trying to get married just for the green card. Should I do anything? And if so, what?

2007-09-08 11:21:28 · 29 answers · asked by lisakotrob@sbcglobal.net 1 in Marriage & Divorce

if it's like a newer relationship, and i don't want to send her the wrong message with a ring, i was think a bracelet, but what do you guys think?

2007-09-08 11:19:08 · 25 answers · asked by novak253 2 in Singles & Dating

Any kind of relationships - lovers or friends, if you and the other person go through REALLY bad, hard, and challenging times together (to the point where you don't know what's going to happen) and OVERCOME it, do you value the relationship more? do you feel closer to the person and feel that your relationship has grown more?

I'm not talking about "oh we had a fight" (for like a week), i'm talking where it's dramatic...it's those hard times you just go through (like a blessing in disguise) - a big misunderstanding...

and w. "relationships", i mean you guys had to have been really close, have a great connection, and there's that mutual respect and understanding to fix things

2007-09-08 11:18:04 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-08 11:17:17 · 16 answers · asked by Anya 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-08 11:15:25 · 21 answers · asked by Jazzy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband has a job opportunity as a Deputy Sheriff, which we were very excited about- even though he would take an $8000 yearly drop in comparison to his current salary. He would work less, and be able to supplement his income on his days off. When his boss found out he was planning on leaving, he offered to double his pay and open another shop, specifically for him to run. It would not have the benefits that the Deputy job does, but the pay would be spectacular. We could actually pay all but our car off in about 6 months. What would you do?

2007-09-08 11:12:53 · 5 answers · asked by Loving Mommy 2 in Family

2007-09-08 11:12:25 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

We received a few gifts off our registry in the mail. One before the invitations even went out. (This person is a young male who is not attending the shower.) And a few others from relatives who will be at shower. Not sure when shower is. Anyway.... Do I send a thank you note now so as the gift giver knows they were received? Or can I wait till after the shower?But when I thank them early do I say wedding gift? Our wedding is at end of Oct.

2007-09-08 11:08:53 · 15 answers · asked by Miss 2 in Weddings