Ok, I'm a freshman girl and I'm barely into high school. But I'm also in the marching band and so is he. We stand two people away from each other. Anway, he's a senior... probably 17 or 18. And I'm, 14. I really like him though. He's kinda shy, artistic, he's my section leader in band, so the teachers trust him, which is a good sign I guess. He hasn't asked me out or anything, but I just want to know if he's worth chasing. Please don't say I'm too young to know how I feel. I hate when people do that. And don't say "Only if it's cool with your parents." I don't care what my parents think right now.
PS- I've only had one boyfriend, and it wasn't really a real relationship cuz we just went out for 2 months, called each other twice, never went anywhere together, so it wasn't really anything.
2007-09-08 11:27:03 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he's really nice, not just to me. he doesn't seem like a jerk around anyone.
2007-09-08 11:38:42 · update #1
like, he doesn't seem like the kind of guy that would want to try something... idk what he's thinking though.
2007-09-08 11:40:30 · update #2
ok let's just clear this up now: i'm not looking to be cool or need anyone's opinion of me. i really like him. if he was a freshman, i'd still like him.
2007-09-08 11:43:56 · update #3
if ten years from now age won't matter, why should it matter now? i just don't get it.
2007-09-16 03:05:35 · update #4
As I just told someone else..Take it easy...You may like him now but once you get to know him you may find things about him that you do not like...DO not rush...I have a daughter who is very young as well and makes comments about boys that she likes at school..I tell her that there is enough time for liking boys but now is the time to take care of yourself and make sure that you are even prepared for a relationship...Do not jump the gun...Take it very slow...I know that you get excited by this guy when you see him or think of him but those are your hormones talking and not your heart...When both your hormones, your heart and mind are in the right sync and you are absolutely sure about his guy then introduce your self to him...But remember do not give into this guy until you are absolutely sure that he is not going to disrupt your personal life with your family and friends or worse.... Un WANTED: Pregnancy....Take car and best wishes to you..Keep your head on your shoulders...You never know...Mister right maybe waiting for you in the near future...
2007-09-16 10:00:54 · answer #1 · answered by bollinger74 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This isn't a real question. You've already decided what you want to hear, despite the fact that a lot of posters here have a lot more life experience and common sense than you do.
If he's 18, he is an adult. You are not. It sounds as if you've never even been on a date, unless it was with the guy who wasn't really your boyfriend, the one you never went anywhere with.
You say you don't care what your parents think? Good! Then march right up to them and tell them you've decided to chase a senior boy in your high school, because You Know How You Feel. If you're grown up enough to know how you feel, you're grown up enough to acknowledge it to your parents.
2007-09-16 15:47:00 · answer #2 · answered by pufferoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so do you want us to answer the question Cuz it seems that you've already got your mind made up?
Frankly your tooo young. and your parents should not be cool with it. an 18 year old male could only be after 1 thing out of a girl your age. Now if thats what you want... to give yourself to some guy because you got a crush on him...If thats the case, next month you'll be asking what you should do, because your pregnant by an 18 y/o that dumped you as soon as he found out you were with child. Now im not usually to the point. As any of you know that read my posts. but this post hits home because My little 15 y/o sister is in that boat now because she didnt listen to me. She lives with me and i ahve custody of her and my brother. so i'm just speaking from experience.. Please dont mess up your life :D
-Will
2007-09-08 18:38:18 · answer #3 · answered by William 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He is probably only interested in girls around his age. You could try to talk to him but i wouldn't see why he would go out with a girl 3-4 years younger than him.
btw: this is his senior year and he probably has a girlfriend that he will go to the prom with. Also i was in a class with a senior who had a girlfriend that was a sophmore and everyone made fun of him so i dont think he wants that kind of humilation unless he gets really serious about you
2007-09-08 18:35:48 · answer #4 · answered by Shaun 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are *way* too young for him. Ten years from now, the difference won't make a difference; right now, it does and you are running a huge risk even considering "chasing" him. You may not like to hear the truth and it seems likely that you'll probably ignore it anyway, but that's all I've got for you.
2007-09-16 02:51:04 · answer #5 · answered by Don C 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should let him no that your interested he might actually consider going out with you even though there is a slight age difference. Try going up to him and starting conversation then try asking him if he wants your number or something so yall can talk more.
2007-09-16 17:01:24 · answer #6 · answered by sweetest_gurl;) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if he is a wonderful person and you don't think he will take advantage of you or want to take your purity then go ahead make sure u don't get to attached though because in a year he will be gone and even if he likes you or loves he cant wait for u to graduate before he goes off to some college!! keep it clean but fun and flirty always go after what u want
2007-09-08 18:33:51 · answer #7 · answered by zari j 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I say go after him. Dating a senior guy might actually make you cool. Anyways he sounds like a good guy, like most guys in the band. You know he could have chosen to play football or something jock-like but instead he chose music.
2007-09-08 18:34:16 · answer #8 · answered by D.C 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You should get to know him first, before you decide whether or not he is worth chasing. Talk to him before and after class, and around school when he is with his friends, or when you are with yours. Also, be patient. You are barely in high school, and probably not used to it yet. And it could be a crush, you never know. But good luck!
2007-09-08 18:34:10 · answer #9 · answered by xapatheticxkinzx 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Your only looking for approval from people who really don't care about you. Your only 14. Grow up.
2007-09-08 18:35:25 · answer #10 · answered by nhuvi j 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋