Hey I've been dating this woman for over 10 months now, shes really nice with me and we can have great I mean great conversations all day long, i love that about her, but she is older than me and she almost never wanna have sex with me, she always tells me that shes tired and not in the mood, that her sexual drive is so down bcause the meds she takes and her age... But sometimes she tells me that at the middle of the night she gets horny and have to use her toy, but when shes with me shes never in the mood. I told her to call me when she gets the urge but she never do it.... do you think shes not attracted to me like she say she is? what should I do? stay with her or move on?
2007-09-08 12:05:41 · 14 answers · asked by nikko4ladies 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thx for all your comments : )
2007-09-09 17:00:59 · update #1
my suggestion.... buy her a toy that you can help her play with... or try stimulating her while she's playing.... but not to the point where she's tired.... you are just helping to get her more into the mood. and then give her the main course.... pretty soon the main course will be all that she wants... and she'll skip the appetizer..... good luck.
2007-09-08 12:24:37 · answer #1 · answered by chrysteena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude!!!! You need to move on dude. She may have something and just not shure how to tell you, or don't want to tarnish the relationship that you~two have with each other. If attempting to leave her doesn't work, Just leave, but if it does...make sure you PROTECT YOURSELF!!!!!! Dude Please believe me man, I have a lot of experience, and am somewhat of a pimp who loves older women. Because they focus more attention on you than younger girls do. younger girl lie and can't handle the pressure of another gut flirting.. Good luck dude.
2007-09-08 19:25:17 · answer #2 · answered by Skinny-pimpin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's all about her low sex drive. You need to either move on or know this is as good as it will ever be.
2007-09-08 19:13:30 · answer #3 · answered by ninebadthings 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tough situation. only you can make the choice about what to do. i would suggest taking her aside and really talking about this. tell her how u feel about it and hope that she understands and can be honest with u. dont leave if u havent taken the time to address the problem.
2007-09-08 19:12:13 · answer #4 · answered by Taylor 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awww sweety u can come to me : ) lolzz juzz kidden but just ask her straight what her prob is or what she wants?or then leave her and find someone better who wont leave u pinning like that.
2007-09-08 19:13:47 · answer #5 · answered by BlossomMe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to meet a chick is to walk up next to her, cut a big, juicy, silent but deadly fart and then blame it on her. Works every time ;)
2007-09-08 19:10:44 · answer #6 · answered by tatsnrings6 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well 2 mature adults should talk it out. But it really sounds like she isn't interested. u definitely should talk about it.
2007-09-08 19:16:14 · answer #7 · answered by lou lou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
meds can KILL a sex drive almost to nothing. it sounds like thats most of it.
2007-09-08 19:13:19 · answer #8 · answered by closetalbino21 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she just wants to be ur friend.
2007-09-08 19:13:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think this woman doesnt like having sex with you... move on and find someone else you are compatable with....
2007-09-08 19:12:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋