Family & Relationships - 8 September 2007

as my life with my husband are not that happy i am bored his system.He is a drinker,he must get drunken 4 times a week that is at least.He is not imployed.What i want most in my life is to have a house,our own motocar,have security for our children future.We have been married for 15 years and i still don,t see anything from him i mean any properties.While i am at work he will just leave our children in the house if his friend call,s him for a drink in the cafe'.He also have been with a lady with his reason i am not that good to satisfied his sex activity.Some time he said that i am too bored for him just because i always warn him to be more serious to look money for his kids....he says i alwasy make him mad.But what i see is he don,t want to be stop from seeing his friends for drink.what should i say or act.i am thinking not to waste my time with him.what do you say......please tell me.

2007-09-08 02:52:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok in art there is this arab kid that sits across the room from me and he sits in class starring at me all hour smileying and when i walk past him he says heyy and stuff but i just ignore it, and he waves across the room to me, he wont leave me alone what should i do or say

This kid is weird and annoying :[

2007-09-08 02:49:14 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

a pervert so we never hooked up. now we met and fell in love,at least i did and she told me over and over how much she loves me. but i got drunk one day and acted like an ***.i guess said some things.after 2 months she is talking a little bit,says she hopes we get back together,but can never really have the time to call me,or talk.i keep calling her and bugging her should i do that. cant stand not being in contact with her. i love her that much,please help

2007-09-08 02:48:59 · 16 answers · asked by markO 1 in Singles & Dating

Hubby has found old friend/pash buddy online.
She flirts, tells him she has "yummy" desserts with male dance partners while her hubby has "frozen dinners" She calls him babe and asks him to chat at 2am (he hasn't).
He met her for brunch at an upmarket cafe and doesn't understand me going psycho as he is being above board and honest.
I have disliked this woman, sight unseen for many, many years.
We have been married over 10 years with 2 lovely kids.
What do I do?
Am I overreacting?

2007-09-08 02:47:52 · 14 answers · asked by Drama Queen 1 in Marriage & Divorce

any tips of the first kissing???

2007-09-08 02:43:48 · 8 answers · asked by horation 2 in Singles & Dating

just want to know what happens if you use a credit card that does not belong to you

2007-09-08 02:41:28 · 6 answers · asked by anna m 1 in Friends

My friend recently died whilst in Tunisia. He was trying to renew his visitor's visa so that he could return to the UK. He died on 30th August just 6 days after flying there from the UK. I miss him so much, my heart is broken. I know that one day my pains will be so that I can bear them, but will I ever get over his death. He was 23.

2007-09-08 02:41:14 · 14 answers · asked by tunisianboy46 5 in Friends

Ok ....My boyfriend has a tendency to go to parties and hang out with his friends most of the time....I dont really have a problem with this the issue is that once he come to hang out with and spend time with me he stays falling asleep so is like hes not here at all with me...I told him this and hes like "ok hes gonna try to get more sleep and blah blah " But today hes suppose to come over and hes now just getting out of where ever this party was now and is like 9:30 am ....Second issue ....hes page on Myspace says single..."hes like I shouldnt take that seriuosly that is just Myspace" Im like ok but you cant even tell he got a girl ...and then he says he wants to marry me now...but I dont think hes even ready for a girlfriend ...imagine a wife...

2007-09-08 02:41:07 · 5 answers · asked by Stranger 2 in Singles & Dating

WHAT DOES IT MEAN!!

2007-09-08 02:41:02 · 6 answers · asked by bustamove88 2 in Singles & Dating

I was sexually abused years ago by my mums brother(he was aged about 17-18 at the time, and I was 5 or 6), I did not tell anyone about it till I was 16, I told my mum. I also found out he abused my sister aswell. My mum told me at first not to tell anyone cos they would never believe me, and she also said he was too young to know what he was doing. After that she turned to complete denial and said she did not believe me. To this day she has never even asked her brother if he did it, or said she believes me but I think she does believe me now, deep down.

She still visits him, and tells me about it, and when I tell her I am not interested in anything to do with him she gets offended.
This has affected me alot and I just cannot forget about it, I have no respect for my mum-but we have an okay relationship on the surface. Do I need to just forgive and move on? How can I though if noone ever admits anything bad happened?
this WAS serious sexual abuse by the way.

2007-09-08 02:40:11 · 9 answers · asked by ditto 2 in Family

is it changing for the good or bad?how does it affect both of them? how should we handle it?is it in some way positive or just negative?

2007-09-08 02:39:55 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

ok so i have this friend with benefits and when we started he talked to me like normal still. and it's been this way for months up until last week. now it's just wham bam thank you mam. i don't understand why he changed. i mean why didn't he just act that way in the beginning? that's how i thought it'd be like. but because he was still acting like a friend i've been under the impression that he would continue to talk to me as a friend.

2007-09-08 02:35:10 · 4 answers · asked by noname 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-08 02:24:52 · 5 answers · asked by basketballgirl 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My child's father continues to believe that we are still together, after a split two months ago. We gave it two tries and it's not going to work. I want to stay away from a custody battle and resolve things ourselves. However, he keeps using our child as a reason to "drop by." This is a serious invasion of my privacy! How am I ever going to move on with this constant aggravation? He's had three years worth of chances, and I can't seem to convince him that there is someone else better suited for him!

2007-09-08 02:24:21 · 9 answers · asked by Jenny 1 in Family

one of my bestfriends told me that i should open up coz she knows that i have a problem that makes me sad yet im still pretending that i dont have one,well...what she said was true,the problem is that i just want her to trust me that everythings gonna be fine...i just dont want her to worry...i dont know if im afraid to open up or im just pretending to be strong...got any advice?

2007-09-08 02:22:27 · 7 answers · asked by bUrN 1 in Friends

I know people can be engaged as long as they want or feel they should or need to be but how long would you consider too long??

My bf is not ready to be married and too be honest i doubt i am either yet i constantly want to ask him to marry me because i love him so much, i know he hasnt asked me because hes not ready to get married and we have discussed it and he said to me that he has no problem being engaged and that we could get engaged right now just not married.

I only want to get engaged when hes ready to marry me so dont worry im not getting engaged it just made me think how long is too long and does anyone know the average length of time most couples get engaged for??

Thanks

P.S which finger does the engagement ring go on? that has confused me ever since i learnt about marriage.

2007-09-08 02:07:59 · 21 answers · asked by Stacey H 2 in Weddings

i am a girl soon will be 20, but life's all dead... i was average kid have brains but never scored extremely good, dumb in sports or any extra curricular, never saw mom and dad getting along... elder bro is thr but he got his life and not living with us meanwhile.
i dont see any enthusiasm for life in my parents... they keep blaming things.., each other and me..., i appreciate they did lot for me and brother... but thats all materialistic... they love me but dont understand a bit... they dont understnd my life's different. if they had painful past so did we kids with them...
i want them to start living in present but i being shut up by them.

i am not a very social person... i dont make lot frnz... my college mates are hypocrites corrupted...
i want to live life... whenever i stay at home for few days when college is off... my whole eneegy is drained... and am left with question "what should be done?"

can any1 suggest?

and am getting addicted to chatting

2007-09-08 02:07:27 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Been with gf for 3 yrs. Have a 2 yr old son together. Her mom is going to college and is taking this course in computers and wants me to do it all. She's bribed me (bought giftcards), my gf puts me on the spot when her mom calls and asks for help. Every weekend I'm spending my time over at her mom's house doing her f'ing hmwk. My gf doesn't want to step in and tell her mom something. I have told my gf off about her mom, thinking this would prompt her to tell her mom to backoff, but still nothing.

Whose responsibility should this be? My gf or mine - to tell her do your own f-cking homework, or am I being a little unconsiderate? I'm already done with college - I don't mind helping but the whole f-ing assignments?

Sorry for all the bad language, I'm venting a little here...

2007-09-08 02:00:58 · 11 answers · asked by Me 3 in Marriage & Divorce

what age do you think is okay to have sexx.im only a freshmen {9thgrade} but some people are already half virgins nd some people already did have sexx...what age do you think its okay to have it and what age to blo*w someone

2007-09-08 01:58:32 · 26 answers · asked by mily h 1 in Singles & Dating

I want a woman to be president but I'm not voting for Hilary Clinton because there was DNA proof that Bill cheated on her and she didnt get a divorce she stood by her man. I believe that women should stand by their man unless there is abuse or infidelities. I dont think she will be a good example for our children. I want a woman president who sticks up for herself. If she would have got rid of him when that happened then she would of had my vote.

2007-09-08 01:58:11 · 30 answers · asked by juniper555 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a friend who wants to know what is wrong with him....he is happly married.... but has sex with about 5-10 different ladies per month. he tells me his wife sexually satisfyies him into the next deminsion, and believe me ...she is top model class A lady....So what is his problem?....he wants to know what he can do to be normal? he tells me he has tried to stop but says he still has the urge!

2007-09-08 01:52:04 · 28 answers · asked by Bob 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i have a problem. my friends always talk behind my back and that sort of thing. but they are the only people who are nice to me. please help! should i dump them? or stay on and ignore the mean stuff they say? i need help immediatly!

2007-09-08 01:49:49 · 16 answers · asked by clara 3 in Friends

Okay with this guy for 6 months and he will do anything for me. But today he broke up with me because I wouldn't forge his teachers signature on a fake letter to his coach. Was I wrong for not doing it? or was he wrong for braking up our relationship because I didn't want to get in trouble? And do I take him back after this?

2007-09-08 01:49:39 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-08 01:49:14 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

there is this boy named lets say... jay, he has a girlfriend and he is TOTALLY flirting with me..... i just started flirting back with him but he has been flirting with me for like 2 weeks..... he HAS a girlfriend but he is SO HOT how do i not flirt back? Obviously, he is a player i knew that along time...... what should i do? I cant say...."WHOA! dont flirt with me cause you have a g/f" because i like him way too much and he likes me very much too.... please help me some ppl in my classes say to be afraid of the g/f.......and you know it is not my fault he flirts w/ me 24/7 (and she even knows he is a playa) SO PLEASE!!! help me:)

And i know ur thinking.... he just wants to get in ur pants and i no that .... thats not my question.....(ALMOST all guys r like that basically)lol



im NOT A sL*t if thats what ur thinking... im new to this boyfriend thing so please dont sent mean comments... im not a bad person

2007-09-08 01:42:17 · 7 answers · asked by brittbby☮ 2 in Singles & Dating

wants me to use it to buy a house so he can renovate it and then we split it 60/40 (as in he gets 40% profit and I get 60%). Anyway he earns money now in a full time building job but earns crappy money and says my inheritance money is the only way for him to lose his current crappy job and get a 'proper job with proper money' and says as my partner i should be discussing the inheritance money with him and am selfish if i just wan t to put int in a savings account!!! I think thats rude its my money i can do what i want not what he wants and he says 'but we are partners' but thats funny, as we have been together and where is the marriage and kids i have been wanting?? I am 26. Is he using me?

2007-09-08 01:39:23 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What makes a woman attractive? Be that her dazzling smile.. her mysterious eyes... her full, pouty lips... her voluptuous curves or do you go for personality?

I'm after honest, in-all-truthfulness answers please! (as I am a very curious person)

Thanks in advance!!!

2007-09-08 01:38:35 · 13 answers · asked by eat_marshmellows 1 in Singles & Dating

It was over between him and i 6 years ago, but i can't help feeling a bit weird about it for some reason. Him and i are still friends, and i bump into him occasionally at lunchtimes as he works near me. He told me she treats him like crap. Why do i feel like i want to slap her??

2007-09-08 01:32:19 · 25 answers · asked by . 7 in Weddings

I am 26 almost 27, and i have been with my fiance' for 10 yrs, and we share 2 kids and I have just lost my desire to have sex anymore. I don't want any kind of sex, but the odd thing is I am still attracted to him! When we first met we had sex like 3-4 times a day, and now he thinks we should have it at least 3-4 times a week. I don't agree with this and it is ruining our relationship. I just don't want any sex, and that's how I feel! I don't consider myself selfish but rather concerned with if he can still love me and we never have sex anymore. We have been through a lot and have made it work this far, so I hope me not wanting sex any more won't affect our relationship, but it is headed that way! I am sad and I would like to try to get help, like I said, he is still very attractive to me, I just don't get turned on anymore! Please help...... anyone!

2007-09-08 01:07:58 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i hate my cousin khoa, she is ******* rude to me and she say stuff about me.And what can i do?I dont want to fight with her because i fight with her like a million times.She ask for my stuff and i say yah but when i ask her back she say no.She always tell me to do this and that.All the time what can i do???

2007-09-08 00:55:20 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family