as my life with my husband are not that happy i am bored his system.He is a drinker,he must get drunken 4 times a week that is at least.He is not imployed.What i want most in my life is to have a house,our own motocar,have security for our children future.We have been married for 15 years and i still don,t see anything from him i mean any properties.While i am at work he will just leave our children in the house if his friend call,s him for a drink in the cafe'.He also have been with a lady with his reason i am not that good to satisfied his sex activity.Some time he said that i am too bored for him just because i always warn him to be more serious to look money for his kids....he says i alwasy make him mad.But what i see is he don,t want to be stop from seeing his friends for drink.what should i say or act.i am thinking not to waste my time with him.what do you say......please tell me.
2007-09-08 02:52:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
why stay with him , kick the lazy bum out.... your the one holding the family together, you don't need someone like that in your life......
2007-09-08 03:06:02 · answer #1 · answered by tinkerbell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Must be wonderful to be such a martyr....15 yrs....so you are teaching your children it's o.k. to be a whinner and walk all over people. Your lack of backbone is a mental issue for you, no changes can be made until you make changes within yourself. A drunk is a drunk is a drunk....you must ask yourself, "what's in it for me". You need to help yourself first. Pick up the phone dearie Al-Anon is there.
2007-09-08 10:18:56 · answer #2 · answered by Sandy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have been with him for how long!!?? WOW. You poor dislusional woman!! We can all tell you to leave him; but i dont know if you will. Im sure it didnt take you 15 years to figure out that he was a loser. so WHY in the world would he ever change since he knows your not going anywhere!! Prove him wrong; you owe it to your kids and yourSELF to leave him.
2007-09-08 10:22:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You already know the answer to that question you just need somebody to make up your mind for you. The question is how do you get out of that relationship.
2007-09-08 09:58:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've lost 15 years already it's enough.....time to spread your wings and get yourself a real life, a real man and a real happiness.
2007-09-08 10:08:48 · answer #5 · answered by Jane Marple 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You married him and have been there for 15 years, why do you expect things to change now?
2007-09-08 09:59:05 · answer #6 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He doesn't respect you at all, you need to get a divorce for your sake and your childrens.
2007-09-08 09:58:01 · answer #7 · answered by MyMichelle 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of him.
2007-09-08 10:09:50 · answer #8 · answered by tuggybird 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋