i am a girl soon will be 20, but life's all dead... i was average kid have brains but never scored extremely good, dumb in sports or any extra curricular, never saw mom and dad getting along... elder bro is thr but he got his life and not living with us meanwhile.
i dont see any enthusiasm for life in my parents... they keep blaming things.., each other and me..., i appreciate they did lot for me and brother... but thats all materialistic... they love me but dont understand a bit... they dont understnd my life's different. if they had painful past so did we kids with them...
i want them to start living in present but i being shut up by them.
i am not a very social person... i dont make lot frnz... my college mates are hypocrites corrupted...
i want to live life... whenever i stay at home for few days when college is off... my whole eneegy is drained... and am left with question "what should be done?"
can any1 suggest?
and am getting addicted to chatting
2007-09-08 02:07:27 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Sweetheart, when I started to feel like you're feeling now I decided to focus my energy on helping others. See about volunteering for a local charity and you'll be amazed how much that will help to inspire you and to make you feel like life has meaning. Don't get sucked into chatting online and convince yourself that that's the only way you can make friends. Get out and about. Good luck.
2007-09-08 02:32:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm facing the SAME situation as you.
heh. kindda weird, but yeah. all my friends are hypocrites. there are a LOT of things which are left undone in your life. I'm now a teenage kid. just like you were. I have brains. Never scored good marks, never the top 10 in class. Even sports, there is always someone who is better, so makes me no better than them. My parents are always busy with their friends, or work, or babysitting my sibling's babies. My elder sis is married and is working not office hours. She doesn't stay with my family. My bro is also married, and doesn't stay with my family either.
My second sister is not married, yet working, and during her free times, she either sleeps, or go out with her friends. So it's like I'm all alone in the world, can't depend on your friends, nor your parents. But there are two 'people' you can depend on.
1. God: He is always there for you, though you may not believe it. Always pray for protection. The more you pray, the more closer He is to your soul. Pray for happiness, though it might not come as you wish, but it will come, somehow, someday.
2. yourself, your soul, your heart and your mind. who are you without you? you are your soul. you are your mind. you are your heart. you are who you are and that's a fact no one can deny. Everyone leads a different life. Parents don't understand their children. And never will unless you talk to them. Slowly, later they will understand you. It's because they care for you too much that they can't bear to lose you. You matter more than your parents' life. They will die for you. They will sacrifice for you. Cos' that's what parents are made for. They gave you life. Even if they have painful past, they will try their best not to repeat it. They don't want you to experience what they had experience when they were young.
I hope this will help you in a way or another. Anyway, you will understand more when you are a parent yourself. And you will know how painful it is, to be one.
2007-09-08 09:35:14 · answer #2 · answered by social scumbag 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
join some good personality development classes and get rid of all the junk in life.
be assertive and encouraging to others.
change ur life style step by step.
be optimistic.join exercises,do meditation and c a sea change in ur life.
life will be so beautiful which u have never dreamt of.
believe me,
involve in some good activities.
being dull can be enacted by many, those are the one who come up in life by being active.don't bother about what people r thinking.
for more u can mail me.
2007-09-08 09:50:54 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes .....
Move to Florida in the US, buy a bikini, stoll the beach by day, take classes at night.
Be your own person, live life, experience the world.
Or ......
Just keep exhisting . . . . . . .
Choose Well.
2007-09-08 09:33:42 · answer #4 · answered by John 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wake up and smell the coffee. i want you to get in the shower right now. get out beautify yourself. put on a cute outfit and get out there. walk around shop a little have lunch you'll feel better about yourself :) unplug ur computer.
2007-09-08 09:16:51 · answer #5 · answered by soccer3416 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are severly depressed and need to see doctor and then you need to move away from them and create anew life for yoursel and be happy.
2007-09-12 00:40:34 · answer #6 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋