Family & Relationships - 8 September 2007

I understand this an adjustment for all of us. I always seem to be stuck in the middle. I just don't know what to do anymore. Any suggestions?

2007-09-08 07:59:55 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-08 07:56:21 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

The world might have been sexist before but even then men(there are exceptions) always respected women and there have been always laws against rape even in ancient times (castration). Are men even half as sexist as feminists claim they are? I swear women hate other women and are way more sexist to each other than men are. It seems like they are blaming us for the trouble they cause themselves. I don't believe in a wage gap, think about it why would any employer pay for just 5 guys when they can use it to hire six women? it doesn't make any sense. Just look at all the women in yahoo answers that think they are better than men. If you keep this up ladies the sexist men are gonna come back, this isnt the 70's or 90's ive noticed the guys have had enough of getting blamed on. The nice guy from the 70's is dying and those players you hate or gonna come back.

2007-09-08 07:55:41 · 9 answers · asked by first l 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a lead person on the floor. Every time I ask "Debbie" to do something or show her how to do something, she gets all freaked out. A simple task sends her into a panic. All she wants to do is a run a machine where she can sit down. When I do train her on a new task, she again gets all stessed out and then tells the owner I didn't train her well enogh to do the job. I had to move her 3 times yesterday because she acted like this at each task. Once she is at a machine that requires very little work, she is fine. I believe she does this on purpose. I hate to deal with her but have no choice. How would you handle someone like that? She also talks a lot of crap about people that are my friends there.

2007-09-08 07:49:45 · 11 answers · asked by *♥♫Hedy♫♥* 6 in Singles & Dating

I am just looking for some opinions please..
I have been married since I was 16, I am now 30. I have met someone online about 5 years ago, I am completely in love with him. I stopped contact with him for over a year to see if my relationship with my husband would improve. It did not. I cant stand to be around my husband, I love him but have never been inlove with him and despise the thought of sex with him. This man I met I have never met in r/l, but he loves me, I love him and I would do anything to be with him. I recently wrote him and he is very hurt at my disappearance from speaking to him, I dont even think he wants to talk to me anymore. would you continue in a hate relationship with your husband? Or would you go with your heart, and be with the man you hurt each day to be with? I married my husband because I really didn't have a choice, he loves me unconditionally but is a horrible husband. I cant seem to get past how much I can't stand him.

2007-09-08 07:48:00 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-08 07:45:06 · 10 answers · asked by Nature Freak 2 in Singles & Dating

dressing like biker chicks. My main thing is I want to do something too. Not playing cards, I have no girlfriends or family. I want attention....... again, not going to movies. He is there googling women and maybe more....why are women expected to be MaDonna? (Not the singer/actress)

2007-09-08 07:44:35 · 11 answers · asked by lrlseuell 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I need to find a corset/bodyshaper type undergarment to wear at my wedding. I'd like it to be similar to a leotard (no legs on it). I'd prefer nude color, since my gown is ivory and my reception dress is white (and the reception dress is thin enough that white lacy stuff would show through). It needs to have good upward lift and support for the chest (my main reason for getting one) but also slim the pudge in the stomach. And..to throw something else in the mix..my gown has a low back, where the zipper stops is sort of a V shape. So, good chest support, nude color, strapless, and as low of a back as possible. Any good websites to look at? I will go to some local stores this week and look as well. I am normally about a 36C size but I've been told for a corset, a 38B might work better since I have a stomach on me and just need more lift in the chest. Thanks for your help!

2007-09-08 07:43:58 · 9 answers · asked by dancingmel02 2 in Weddings

I'm going to ask a lawyer next week, but they don't always know everything so I want to see if any of you Yahoos know the answer. Remember this is for Texas. Before you ask why would I want to do that, my wife is a very bad girl, but she doesn't want to leave and she's still a good piece of a**. Plus she's had her tubes tied.

2007-09-08 07:43:35 · 5 answers · asked by blue_prince_of_dallas 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my baby passed away 2 years ago just b4 her first birthday ., i have recently broken up with my babys mother , if i or her go on 2 have kids in our next relationship , who will we be with when we pass over . the thought of not seen my baby again rips my heart out . or do we all be one big happy family . no mucking about please

2007-09-08 07:42:30 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-09-08 07:38:09 · 21 answers · asked by CHRISTOPHER H 2 in Marriage & Divorce

What is the general opinion about risque' clothing and females? Your honest and open minded comments are crucial...in fact, the future of a marriage may depend upon it...This Opinon Poll and a couple of other sources of research are being looked into before a final decision is made...so your help is desperately needed. Thank You

2007-09-08 07:32:20 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-08 07:32:18 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend told me he did because i really care for him. We had only been together for 2 weeks tho. I feel that he does cause he is always saying how good i make him feel and that none of his other girlfriends have done nearly as much as I have. Even tho i do little things he says they mean alot to him.

He does not say it regularly and he has not had a really long relationship yet so what should i think? He says he wants to be with me for the prom which is months away? could he be serious about me?

2007-09-08 07:31:53 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i makeout with this boy but were not going out..i makeout with him once in a while lol idk why but he kinda likeee droolssss?? or like slobbers yea slobbers..how do i make it so he doesnt? i probly cant tho right

2007-09-08 07:29:04 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We started off as friends and then we fell in love. I am turning 18 in April and after that I fully intend to marry him. He truly loves me and never pressures me to do anything that I dont want to do. To me the age is not a factor in our relationship I dont even notice it because he makes me so happy and I really do want to spend the rest of my life with him. I dont see anything wrong with our relationship does anyone else see anything wrong with it?

2007-09-08 07:29:01 · 12 answers · asked by nevaehrosemarie 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-08 07:28:25 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

previous marriage, and I have 2 of my own. He did not aquire this bike until after we were married. I am stuck here with the children all of the time. (He works, too) I know he needs to do something, but I am getting to the point that I need a companion in my life that is not a child. How do I deal with this kind of feeling. I want to get a babysitter and go out or something (wihtout him) so that I have a "hobby" too. Am I bad????

2007-09-08 07:25:18 · 10 answers · asked by lrlseuell 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I lost my child at 14.5 weeks a few months ago. After a few weeks I kinda went back to normal, mentally. I think I just did'nt deal with it. Now, for about a month, all hell has broke loose. I think about it 24/7. I have nightmares almost every night. I feel guilty and unworthy of happiness. I get my feelings hurt very easily, because iam fragile. And I spend 95% of the time iam home, in the bed crying. I have no one to talk to. My husband is unable to communicate about it, which makes me think he blames me. But I did everything right. I quit smoking the day I concieved, and still have been quit. I havent drank in years. I was good to my body, slept right, ate right. I know iam my worst enemie. But when I try to talk to my husband he tells me I need to talk to "someone". I dont guess he realizes I am trying to talk to him. He will listen to me about it, but not talk back. I live 18 hours away from my family. I don't talk to anyone in his family because they are disfunctional. I'm alone

2007-09-08 07:25:02 · 3 answers · asked by August 3 in Family

I broke up with my girlfriend last night. It is a long story, but basically she told me after being together for about 4 months , and after we just got intimate, she tells me she had had sex with over 50 guys before me. I can't live with that. I kept a low profile for about two weeks, then felt like the manly thing to do is to just break it off...let her find someone more open to that, and I could find someone more compatible with me.
She was the first girl I ever loved ( I am 26)..and she says I was her first love. She told me this info on her own...I would never ask it. Knowing she was promiscuous changed my feelings..it made me fall our of love.I see no future with hernow.
In the last 20 hours or so, she keeps leaving messages on my phone, saying she is going to hurt herself, and a bunch of crazy things. I am staying at a bud's house, because she won't leave me alone. I am worried she might hurt herself..should I call the police/other?

2007-09-08 07:24:54 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-09-08 07:24:36 · 13 answers · asked by Sparkles 2 in Singles & Dating

the sexist thing that a woman has ever done for you or ladies what is the sexist thing you have done for your man??

2007-09-08 07:24:18 · 1 answers · asked by deb b 3 in Singles & Dating

basicly my mum is making my wedding dress bridesmaids dress nand loads of other things for my wedding the wedding is in less than 4 weeks and today we had a massive bust up and she is blaming me for everything when it wasnt me. she is now saying that shes not doing anymore i cant afford to go out and buy the things and to make it worse i told her that if she didnt make it she wasnt welcome to come to the wedding i no that i shouldnt have done but now shes saying that her her husbund and my 2yr old brother who is also a page boy are not comeing. and now im taking it out on my partner.
what i want to no is what would you do would you get married without her? how would you get the dress because we have no more money and i cant do it? or would you let her win and move the date to anotherday so you could get everything and not invite her? i just dont know what to do!!!!!

2007-09-08 07:21:40 · 23 answers · asked by mummy to 3 miracles 5 in Weddings

My father is starting to annoying too much now, he is one of those motherish father. He says anything that is so annoying I'd pull my hair off and he won't stop but I am not the kind of a person that wants to stop him.
I've heard about the teenage mind changing thing maybe it's that. That starts me to ignore him and give him faces but wow he is unbelievably annoying and not just that he is retarded. And when i say something he have to follow up my sentence with something "useless". Also when i try to reason with something, he always try to talk back some thing that is nothing related to the topic or talk senselessly to the topic, i do not want to hurt his feelings but just too hard to deal with him.
Do you think i have mental illness of some sort or is that just my life with him? He is not a bad guy or at all, he is too nice to argue with but he does not understand anything i say and he talks back senselessly. please show a way to out talk him to not being "STUPID"

2007-09-08 07:20:23 · 2 answers · asked by FagBag :( 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

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1. my husband does not answer any questions about where he was, who he was busy talking to ..etc etc wen he himself needs all answers
2. does not miss any official get togethers wen expects me to attend none
3. does not find me attractive anymore
4. expects me to help his house wife mother with chores even wen i have longer working hors
5. criticises EVERYTHING about me
6. says he's critical but only doing it for my own good?

2007-09-08 07:19:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i've had sex the other night with a guy for the first time and now i want to have it with this girl i know. we both want to but dont no how can i have some serious answers please

2007-09-08 07:18:04 · 12 answers · asked by reema h 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-08 07:17:34 · 11 answers · asked by crazynlad 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm considering getting into a relationship with a Cancer Man. I'm already seeing the withdrawing and non communication, not answering my phone calls or text messages. Are there any Cancer Men out there that can give me some advice on how to handle a Cancer man? If you are dating or married to a Sagittarius woman how is it working for you? For the Sagittarius woman how do you handle your Cancer man?

2007-09-08 07:16:53 · 1 answers · asked by toodayumbaad 2 in Singles & Dating

only who have a myspace can be my friend

2007-09-08 07:14:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

for ex. of i have 3 bridesmaids do i need to have 3 groomsmen or whatever they are called.?

2007-09-08 07:11:50 · 22 answers · asked by Me :) 2 in Weddings