Family & Relationships - 8 September 2007

yes/no

2007-09-08 11:06:36 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

OKay , so i have been w/ my BF for 5 years... I am 21 years old now. We have 2 daughters together and just built out second house.... but i dont think where in love anymore. Hes very controlling and doesnt let me go out to see my friends, and if he does he has to come. He has never trusted me. And i cant help but to resent him, I feel like i missed out on alot of being a teenager, i moved out w/ him when i was 16, and have barley got to see my friends since. I so badly want to go out and see my friends. So i have started playing Second LIfe its a online game, but he is so mad about it and has talked about taking away the computer. But i need somthing!! I have my daughters and i love them but its hard. And he is always working and doesnt pay much attention to them... so what im trying to ask is should we stay together? I think about lkeaving all the time, but i feel so guilty for leaving him alone. And having kids makes the decsion even harder!Any advice at all is very appreciated

2007-09-08 11:06:18 · 18 answers · asked by becky m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i am 18 and i just moved to va beach and i am looking for a way to meet new people to hang out with. i dont really know anyone around here. what is the best way to meet people and make new friends. is there a website that i can meet people or what are some options?

2007-09-08 10:59:33 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-08 10:52:43 · 22 answers · asked by big daddy 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-08 10:48:55 · 42 answers · asked by Draconia 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-08 10:48:17 · 7 answers · asked by Thursday 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have just read the answers to what makes a relationship a success and I can honestly say my relationship fits most of those. I can be myself completly, trust, honesty(and thats been rough).we have many shared interests.best friend. used to be good sex but my hearts not init anymore. BUT he takes no responsibility.I manage the house , the finances, the little money he brings in, I make most desicions -work, social.and organise everything. I feel like I play the parent role? we go for a drink/meal he tells me his order,I carry all the money while travelling and it goes on......I want to go out into the world and adventure-hes happy where he is...
so what makes a relationship work...whats failure? are we allowed to move on to find new or stick it out . we got loads of plus's but I want to finish after 15 years and a child.....do you make do with the plus's or do you go for where your heart dreams.theres no other man in my life right now.

2007-09-08 10:38:04 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am 8 months pregnant and I just found out my hubby has been cheating on me for a couple of months. I do not now what to do, I have nowere to go and he is sorry and wants me to stay. he says he loves me and it was happened when he was drunk, has any woman ever had that happen to them and what did you do, did you leave him and where did you go? I am frightened of what will happen to me because I am going to have his baby in a few weeks. Should I stay until after the baby is born or should I leave now. I dont know what to do. How could he do this to me, I am lost and feel so alone.

2007-09-08 10:37:54 · 13 answers · asked by kimbtilly 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-08 10:36:45 · 9 answers · asked by pussycat 5 in Marriage & Divorce

when u dont respond to a guys text messages immediatly or at all, is he more likely to like u more and b more attracted towards u if ur harder to get? btw this guy does like me

2007-09-08 10:35:47 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-08 10:35:29 · 11 answers · asked by DunDee 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Esp. when it comes to a girl they like?

2007-09-08 10:31:50 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am very Extremely Curious About this question. A woman who smiles alot, even on her bad days, [she still smiles]... is a woman who is what????????? What exactly kind of woman is she?????

2007-09-08 10:28:43 · 13 answers · asked by pain_of_unhappiness 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Hi guys! thxs for stopping by! i am at crossroads, i am 28 married six months back , recently found out my wife has been cheating on me before and after marriage , i directly and indirectly hinted her to stop all this , but it doesnt.She lied to me on various occasions but now its beyond doubt.....Whenever we fight She threatens me with law , suicide and every way she can ...i am somewhere more worried bcoz of her being totally unpredictable and voilent.She has been pampered child and is supported by her family .......i dont know how to make her faithful to me and improve her behaviour Or should i leave her

2007-09-08 10:27:15 · 14 answers · asked by jhimpuk 1 in Marriage & Divorce

but he has a girl but he is soooooo sexy XD should i keep just going along with it or no?

2007-09-08 10:19:16 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was just watching a couple going down to the beach for their holy union. Do people think that it's more romantic?

I think the sand would be quite a bother...

2007-09-08 10:18:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I live in California but am moving to Florida. A college class that I want to get over there starts on October 3 but my mom doesnt understand that I need to be there at least one week before so that I can start my education...please someone help me. She is waiting for her job to finish, but I tell her for us just to leave. She doesnt listen to me. I really want to start college because I feel like a low-life since all my friends are already going to college. How can I make her understand?

2007-09-08 10:11:12 · 1 answers · asked by ~B~ 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I signed for my ex husband to take my 2 year old son out of state but in the paper it said that my son is to have no contact with two people in california who are on drugs. My ex completely disregarded this and had them pick him and my son up from the airport, then shut off his phone so I could not reach them to see if my son was alright.
Is there anything I can do short of flying out there like a psycho and taking my son from his drug addict friends house? I can't afford to do this at all, but I am really worried about my son. They are not supposed to come home until Tuesday and I am afraid I will not hear anything from them at all.

2007-09-08 10:09:45 · 25 answers · asked by princessin_bluejeans 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Two of my friends brought this lifestyle to my attention and although I have no interest in it, I am curious over it. How can one be sure the Head of Household is correct over an issue. Many times, I know I have been wrong and if I had disciplined my partner, I would have done her wrong. In the case of my friends, the woman presented her partner with a contract. Should not the man also be held to a standard?

2007-09-08 10:08:33 · 11 answers · asked by StatesideNow 1 in Marriage & Divorce

because im more attracted to white guys and im just wondering cause i dont want to waste my time flirting with a guy who wont even give me a chance.

2007-09-08 10:03:38 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Girl A - likes to play video games (she's almost 25), cute but not sexy, kind of immature and hasn't had a lot of sexual experience, not well educated and kind of low-self esteem. Not much motivation in life. Doesn't like other women, easily jealous.

Girl B - Intelligent, educated, very sexy, loves sex and tries everything, lots of motivation, and a bit crazy, a bit neurotic. A ton of fun. Laid back too...

LETS SAY YOU ARE MORE LIKE GIRL A AND GIRL B INTIMIDATES YOU!!!

2007-09-08 10:01:48 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

15 as of December 25th.
He just turned 19 a week ago.

I want to hear what you think.
Thanks.

2007-09-08 09:55:31 · 55 answers · asked by Alex 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-09-08 09:54:59 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-09-08 09:53:48 · 11 answers · asked by Autumn 1 in Friends

my ex-husband is on his third marriage now but he made this satement recently at our daughters wedding in front of people that knows me, family and friends. he and I are friends and christains now. he cheated on me with the second wife who cheated on him and then he married this lady a few years ago right away.

2007-09-08 09:52:43 · 11 answers · asked by dairylady982000 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Would you feel insulted(if thats the word)if he paid..a amount of $300.00 for the ring? Or less then what you thought he should pay.

2007-09-08 09:50:48 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i'd been going out w/ my boyfriend fr 4 yrs & was engaged, when i met this married man, 6 yrs older (he has 3 kids, oldest is 7). we hit it off at once -there was definitely a lot of chemistry.didnt help at all that he put me up at his place for a while when i relocated to his town fr work. i became REALLY good friends with his mom, sis etc. the time came for me to get married - i couldnt take it any longer and told this guy about my feelings...he felt the same way, he even asked me at that point if i wanted him to marry me, but i dint take it seriously - i thought id be fine n only needed it to get it outta my system - i hoped that this was a phase and my feelings would subside once i got married. but its been 2 yrs and i have NOT forgotten him. we meet up at times fr lunch etc, b/c we value the connection we have. but twice in 2 yrs we have broken down and told each other how much we miss each other. i cant think of anyone but him. my feelings for him r too strong. what should i do?

2007-09-08 09:50:28 · 12 answers · asked by Karine SwissArmy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

So...title says it all. My dad's a drunk, and has been since before I was born. Only recently (past few years) has he started drinking around the house. I don't really have the right to complain about him too much because he's not abusive and usually is just passed out on the couch. The thing is, I just get really angry with him. When I look at him, i get pissed off, i can't talk to him without getting angry, especially when I can smell it on his breath. And when he doesn't come home (he commutes) I end up doing all the housework that he usually does. He's outwardly admitted to all of us that he has a drinking problem but that was two years ago and he's not making any progress! The other week my mom said that I should congratulate him for going to two AA meetings, but I found beer cans in the way bottom of the recycling (he hid them) and when I opened the trunk of his car to get some groceries out he had a cooler full of ice and beer. It is just frustrating..anything i can do?

2007-09-08 09:47:55 · 8 answers · asked by SG22 3 in Family

She is about 5'5 and has a ring on marriage finger Please Help Me

2007-09-08 09:44:34 · 9 answers · asked by Who Gives a F*ck 2 in Marriage & Divorce

PLEASE give me your best ideas!

2007-09-08 09:44:18 · 18 answers · asked by mUsIcLoVeR 1 in Family