because im more attracted to white guys and im just wondering cause i dont want to waste my time flirting with a guy who wont even give me a chance.
2007-09-08 10:03:38 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yeah but then some parents don't reali like black people or white people. so it depends if u and yur parents like it.
2007-09-08 10:06:23 · answer #1 · answered by zhao_azn_tiffany 2 · 1⤊ 4⤋
I met a black girl in a club many years ago and we went out a few nights, got on well and enjoyed her company.
The first time i picked her up from her home i met her three brothers who pinned me to the wall by my neck, they told me they would cause me some serious damage if i came anywhere near her after that night.
(they couldn't do anything about that night because of a few reasons)
They were deadly serious, real hard ball guys and it was made 100% clear it was because i was white.
Did i see her again? No and not only did i not want to lose my teeth but it was a fun thing at the time, no huge spark and it just wasn't worth the hassle.
If there had been a spark between us then maybe i would have, i think she would have backed off then to keep me from it.
I hope things have changed from 20 yrs ago, honestly have they?
2007-09-08 10:13:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
There's no general answer to that question. Not for the entire race of white men or even for a single individual white person. Some white men are racist or simply aren't attracted to black girls for whatever reason. However for the most part most white men would date some black women but not others just like he'd date some white women or some asian women but not others. worry more about whether or not you think the person likes you and not so much about what he thinks about your skin color because in most instances your skin color won't matter if he likes you.
2007-09-08 10:10:59 · answer #3 · answered by Jason 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I really understand you as I am white girl who is attracted to black guy. To be honest with you forget of him. Even if he liked you too you will always have to stand him staring at white women passing. Believe me it is not nice feeling. And it is not only about colour of skin, it is about all other differences that stem from the way both of you were brought up. I have been dating white and black guys and i know they are very different.Obviously when you fall in love you are lost. You can not see any of his bad behaviour toward you. So the best way to prevent suffering is to stop it before it's too serious. Unfortunately I was not able to stop it and I am still suffering as I know we will never be together. I bet that if you start going out, the oftener you will see him the more you get convinced that your characters do not suit. If he will fall in love too than you ve got him! If not he will be playing around with you. The choice is yours. You'd better start looking for some really good caring black guy instead of trying to be with this guy.Do not let nice,differnt appearance to blind you. I was not wise enough to stop it. Result- me unable to start new relationship, he still using me as a teddy bear when he is down. As i said choice is yours.Good luck
2007-09-08 10:25:23 · answer #4 · answered by lovely 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes they do, I Have plenty of white male friends, that are dating black females Be classy, be formal, and be natural.
Color isn't really that much of a matter these days, it's a huge issue with parents, that's about it.
To break the ice to a white guy's parent's it's probably best, to show them first that you work, that you are classy and that you're a good woman, Because older people are generally sterotypical and dont understand interacial relationships, but once they realize there's no differance, besides skin, i'm sure they will give in, and love you.
Another issue, He may be jealous that you may age better, Black women and men age more like wine, while white people age like dust ;) lol,
Anyways, it's worth trying. It's the HEART that matters to most. *hugs* good luck <3
2007-09-08 10:20:26 · answer #5 · answered by anjui63 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its a shame that in this day and age people still focus far too much on colour and what other people think and do. If you like someone regardless of their colour there should be nothing stopping you getting to know them or flirting. If you worry about the fact they may not be attracted to you because of your colour then you have the problem. Dating come with some rejection for everyone.
Gain some confidence, and you outlook may change.
2007-09-08 10:13:42 · answer #6 · answered by loreali22 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Girls are girls, and guys are guys. Attractions are not usually a matter of skin colour, though there are exceptions to that rule. It doesn't matter who, what, when, or where anymore. I like to think that we live in a much better place than we did 20-30-most def. 40- years ago. The short answer is yes, give it what you got girl, and if it's meant to be, it will happen. Don't listen to the haters.
2007-09-08 10:10:56 · answer #7 · answered by science G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I wondered that too lol. All i have to say is that I haven't seen it often where I live. Mostly its white girls and black guys. But you never know - it depends on the guy really. Just because he's white doesn't really mean anything. You should give him hints! =P
2007-09-08 10:09:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes they do and I have done and she was ten times nicer than some of the white girls I have dated either before or since.
It all depends though on the girl and bloke concerned if you get knocked back it might not because of your colour but simply that he doesn't fancy you. Just give a go and see you've got nothing to lose.
2007-09-08 10:16:07 · answer #9 · answered by steve 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes they do, I'm also attracted to white guys. A lot of them like black girls...
2007-09-08 10:06:54 · answer #10 · answered by Nooonameee 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
yes im a white guy n i find black girls attractive just the same as other girls
2007-09-08 10:07:10 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋