I signed for my ex husband to take my 2 year old son out of state but in the paper it said that my son is to have no contact with two people in california who are on drugs. My ex completely disregarded this and had them pick him and my son up from the airport, then shut off his phone so I could not reach them to see if my son was alright.
Is there anything I can do short of flying out there like a psycho and taking my son from his drug addict friends house? I can't afford to do this at all, but I am really worried about my son. They are not supposed to come home until Tuesday and I am afraid I will not hear anything from them at all.
2007-09-08 10:09:45 · 25 answers · asked by princessin_bluejeans 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If it is a legal document that they are not to be around the two druggies, call the local police department, explain the situation and have them intervene and get your son out of there. Also ask them to have your son call you to let you know he is alright.
2007-09-08 10:15:07 · answer #1 · answered by Ms Always Right 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Contact an attorney, if possible use the one that you used when you got divorced. Take a copy of your divorce agreement, your custody papers, and the paper you signed to allow your ex to take your son out of state. Let them know that the agreement was violated. They will be able to advise you on your rights and they will help you take any possible action to make sure this doesn't happen again.
Did you have your attorney look over the papers before you signed and agreed to let your ex take your son out of state? You should never sign such an agreement without legal advice, no matter how friendly or casual your relationship is with your ex.
2007-09-08 10:18:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call me psycho all day long, I would be in California so fast it'd make your head spin. I would do nothing "short" of that. I have 3 sons, and there is no way in you-know-where I'd be sitting at home, expensive or not, while my child is in the hands of people on drugs. Nope. Uh-uh. Not my child. And if for no other reason than to pop my ex's head, I'd fly out before the day was out...that's just me. You don't mess with my child. father or not. I birthed 'em. Their mine. I make the decisions. I'd go get him.
2007-09-08 10:23:14 · answer #3 · answered by TwyztedChyck 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the sherrifs office in the county where they live. They will go there and demand your son be returned as long as you can fax them a copy of the court paperwork. If you dont have actual court paperwork, Im not sure if they will do anything but its worth a try of calling the sherrifs. Do it for your sons sake. Good luck
2007-09-08 10:15:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In all honesty this sounds like redemption... "I hate my husbands ex spouse" deal. that's to no longer say that this isnt a extreme difficulty. in case you fairly have self assurance that the mummy is attempting to maintain this newborn from the father regardless of the judges orders then that's kidnapping. on the comparable time, in case you call the police, the police will positioned out a warrant for her arrest on a large number of expenditures. as quickly as the warrant is out, the subsequent time that lady is geared up in touch with police she would be taken into custody. the problem with calling the police and getting a warrant positioned out is that the newborn will positively be affected. If the mummy is won before returning abode, she would be incarcerated, and the newborn will could be picked up. The criminal themes which will stick to are long and taxing on the newborn. watching the newborn's age, he can be forced to alter into in contact. stability is Fragile haha
2016-10-10 05:16:33 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should report this if you got the papers that said your son shouldn't have any contact with those peps you should be consern he's only 2 years old i don't think they going to harm him but to make sure he's ok contact the mother of you ex to see if your ex could pick up the phone or something just don't go out there following him because u have to think he's the dad and i don't think he's goin to let nothing to happen to u're son.
2007-09-08 10:20:44 · answer #6 · answered by morena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call your lawyer(and his) or the judge in the case. Let them know he violated his custody order. However u prolly wont be able to get in touch with them until Monday. I would call the sheriff in that town and tell him my fears and concerns. Hopefully you have an address and they can go out there and make sure your son is alright. Wish you the best of luck
2007-09-08 10:17:20 · answer #7 · answered by kokoqt74 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call your lawyer. You signed the papers for your child to go to California, so in order to have any recourse about your son being with those two people you need to contact your lawyer. If you go after them in California you could find yourself in major trouble.
2007-09-08 10:33:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Basically, all you can do now is wait and see if he returns. If not notify the police immediately and let them know so theyll notify the FBI and California authorities. Now you nee to get any names and last known addresses for anyone they may be staying at or visiting. Itll save alot of time. Good luck
2007-09-08 10:22:40 · answer #9 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he violates the papers, which are legally binding, you can take him back to court to have the papers switched again.
I suggest not signing for him to take your son out of state again. Obviously he has no respect for you or your son to do such a thing.
Good luck and I hope things get better.
2007-09-08 10:16:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋