if u knew that the 2 of u would never end up together, but love each other now, should you still be dating?

Question

yes/no

Answer 1

Why are you sure that it won't end happily?

I would rather give it a shot! You eliminate any regrets that you would have if you didn't try! Also, think of all the great memories that you will have to look back on!

Answer 2

I have been in that situation before... I met this guy thru chat. We agreed to meet personally. Even from the start, I knew all along that he's married. But still, I accepted the friendship he offered. We talked on the phone everyday, and the dating became constant each week. I knew, I was falling for him. Eventhough I know that we would never end up together. When he finally confessed that his inlove with me, we became a couple. We've been dating secretly every week that lasted for four years. Eventhough I know that we're going nowhere and I know that it will be very painful when it's time for sweet goodbyes, I took the risk. The risk of us, getting caught by someone who know that he's married. I did prepared myself for whatever consequence that I may experience. He's the only man that I loved with all my heart. The only man who appreciate the real me. The one who always takes care of me. But as expected even from the start, it came to the point that we have to end everything. I know it will be very very hard. The four important years of my life finally came to an end. I was thankful for my friends who eagerly supported me on my most critical days of my life. It came to the point that I almost lost myself. I know I have to go through all those times... He did not promised me anything forever though... If I love him that much, I should learn to let go. And that is what I really worked hard for. Life must go on. Life is too short for petty problems. I've learned that you can always find another love, but not another self. After 2 years of not communicating, I finally get to talk to him again. And now, we're very good friends. From that experience, I've learned that even if the 2 of u would never end up together, there is still a way to show your love thru friendship. Without hatred or even bitterness. Only smiles and rainbows...

Answer 3

This addresses the question of how deliberate of a person you are? I have spent time with friendly dating. But dates are adult and socialized people. No I would not feel comfortable being immature and calling sex love for the sake of it. Some don't want to have grown up relationships and some choose to leave their christianity to the hour they spend on Sunday. If you believe your life is some silly tv show, your rudely going to find out the devestation left in your wake.I might add you'll only skim real satisfaction. Start by prioritizing God, ask him to help you.

Answer 4

This is a bit of yes and no. I mean yea, but you have to let him know its only casual now. As you know things won't really work out down the road. But its fun for now, even if you do care about him. And the no part is because usually we get so stuck in the here and now, that it gets to be later sooner than we realize and the desire to break things off gets harder and harder, even when you know things aren't going to work themselves out. But its really your call to make, either keep it casual and have fun or just end things regardless of how you feel.

Answer 5

yes! Love conquers all....id rather love and lost, than not loved at all

Love them while you can, itll hurt like hell if you cant be together in the long-run. But if you both really love each other, you'll make it work

Answer 6

Only God know for sure whats going to happen, if you love each other you should give it a try, you never know what may happen.

Answer 7

If it is true love and not just infatuation you life will be ruined if you don't figure out a way to always be togeather.

Answer 8

no because when u find it in your heart to leave it is going to be harder,run

Answer 9

If it's no possibility, then no. If there's a maybe then live it out.