Family & Relationships - 6 September 2007

2007-09-06 23:53:29 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm sorry if the question is wrong. (I'm not an english user. It is so hard to learning new languages.)

I'm gay and lately I made some new friends. I met them at the park While we were traing for a marathon. They brings their girl friends over to my house and haning out this weekend.


I heard from my other friends that sometimes straight guys uncomfortable with gay guys and I'm afraid I make a mistake.

Can you guys have any advice?

2007-09-06 23:53:27 · 5 answers · asked by esprit967 1 in Singles & Dating

A girl who is a close friend of mine for almost a year now and I have fallen in love with one another. Not the typical boyfriend/girlfriend bit, it is rather incredibly deep and very passionate.

The issues is this, when I first met her I was with someone and as time went on I went out of my way to introduce her to a friend of mine. They ended up going out and then breaking up a while after (close to the end, she actually stumbled onto my hidden feelings though I dont' believe it had bearing onto their breakup). Anyway, the friend comes back, confesses love for her, and we were forced to explain what has happened.

She told me once that in the short time shes been with me, it has been monumentally more significant than whatever they shared. But now she is unsure because she doesnt' want to hurt either of us and cause us to fight with one another. I have made my decision to break my friendship if it meant to be with her. I feel that I truly love her with every bit of my being.

2007-09-06 23:52:45 · 2 answers · asked by Dragoon 1 in Singles & Dating

im 17 my bf is28 i dont lk his mum. im wouried in case i fall ot with him i might never get my life back weve been togerther 4 over a year now n im still not shour on how i feel about him?

2007-09-06 23:47:25 · 2 answers · asked by fuzzy suger 1 in Friends

2007-09-06 23:46:48 · 16 answers · asked by V. Manohar 1 in Family

2007-09-06 23:44:47 · 2 answers · asked by invisiblekaryee 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Alright, as you already know, I'm 19, almost 20, never had a girlfriend, not even a non-serious one, not even for dating, all i've done is kiss. I'm still sort of shy but I'm overcoming it, anyway, any males & females who are 19 or 20 & older that have never had a boyfriend/girlfriend & are still virgins please let me know, cause it makes me feel better when I have people I can relate to, cause I feel pathetic & worthless since I haven't had a girlfriend yet, I'm straight. I feel as I'm the one of very few people like this, but some people & my conscience tell me there are more people in my situation than I realize. So am I the one of very few people that has never had a girlfriend yet?, if know you people who have never had a boyfriend/girlfriend & are still virgins let me know please, it will really make me feel better & more confident, it will make me feel not so alone.

2007-09-06 23:41:10 · 12 answers · asked by introvertedguy06 6 in Singles & Dating

I have 3 options this group of freaks I know from middle school!
The library at school (lol)...or sitting by myself for the first couple of days lol what do I do!?

Oh and umm I drink Slimfast hahahhah I know what a loser I am but yeah should I still hahahah lol im in highschool by the way

2007-09-06 23:35:52 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im a tomboy, so im really matey with the guys as their my best friends, but how do you stop plastics taking the p i s s outta you and saying untrue stuff about you?

2007-09-06 23:25:07 · 8 answers · asked by Sarah x 1 in Friends

What should my punishment be?

2007-09-06 23:23:28 · 10 answers · asked by The Whistler 2 in Singles & Dating

What would you do?
What would you do if the other man was your father?
What if the baby that you thought was your son really turned out to be your brother because your wife slept with your dad and he was the Father.

What would you do?

2007-09-06 23:18:07 · 14 answers · asked by threecraws 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My friend gets child abused, she has showed me her cuts on her back, arms, and legs. She tells me not to tell anyone because she still loves her parents no matter what they do to her. :(( what do I do??

2007-09-06 23:15:11 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Well I have been married for almost 7 years to this man. I pratically never used a single cent from him. He used to abuse me pretty badly for the first 5 years but stopped completely these 2 years since my daughter was born. I am finacially independent and even have to pay off his credit cards bills tostart a new life. He is working but not enough to cover his debt. However he behaves like a kid. He wANTS THINGs that is not practical. He mixed with teenagers. Responsibilities that are entrusted to him will never be fulfilled for example like taking care of our girl and feed her properly when he is not working. I have to work everyday but he only work on shift. He has ample of time to teach or enrol our 3 years old girl in a school but he cant be bother to do it. he will sleeps n watches TV when he is free. Whenever we r out for food he will stop us from ordering food that we like claiming that it is expensive but he will order expensive meal for himself. what should I do?

2007-09-06 23:13:58 · 15 answers · asked by MummyGuess 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Is there anything wrong in discussing about sex to opposite sex? now a days it is all very common. What could be the reason behind if many men want to have sex with a particular woman? is it just a physical attraction or due to some liking towards her? Is she responsible for it ? if she happens to move freely among men? Does men feel like having sex any ?woman they see? Especially men pls answer this

2007-09-06 23:10:16 · 8 answers · asked by janu 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Looking for the wisdom of long-time married men, if possible who've already passed the 10 year mark and are happy with their marriage...

What are the key factors of your relationship with your wife that made (and keep) your marriage successful? (examples: family, career, hobbies, love, sex, etc). Are there any that you think are critical to support your couple for the long term?

...A single guy wondering about a successful married life :) Thank you.

2007-09-06 23:03:37 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

please help me

2007-09-06 23:01:09 · 12 answers · asked by Nikki 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-06 22:57:15 · 10 answers · asked by eragon_rehan 1 in Singles & Dating

i have been with my bf for the past 4 years, and we have had a normal relationship filled with ups and downs... we havent seen one another in 5 monthes, as its now a long distance realtionship.. he told me before that he wont listen to what people tell him... and he did though....its been 4 years, u think he could trust me! why does he think im lying?!!?!!!

2007-09-06 22:55:49 · 15 answers · asked by Tik-Tak 2 in Singles & Dating

my husband had quit drinking when we got married, we have been together for 5 yrs and he is starting again hitting the bars, lieing to me, and hiding whiskey around the house, I found him the other evening and girl that is a friend, not to close just know her was running her fingers through his hair, I dont get sex hardy at all, and he never touches me , I am so hurt, confused,I hate this , I need advice

2007-09-06 22:54:47 · 19 answers · asked by Warm_Hearted 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I mean, parents are suppose to be there to love you and to be there for you. But they always seem to be the ones, who i feel most distant from, who yell at me, who are over controlling, who make me miss out on good times with my friends because they are selfish, and who won't accept the fact that im growing up to be a good young lady. I dont understand why, they want me feeling this way towards them. I love them, but i don't like them no longer.

2007-09-06 22:52:57 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

There is one girl that I am attracted to, I met the other day, and I really wanted to get to know her. She's very pretty. However, I began talking to another girl today at a shop, and she mentioned that she talked about me before with the owner of the store. I only met her once before, so it seems she must have interest enough. I have a few problems though. I'm not afraid or anything. I almost called the girl I talked to today to ask out, but I really wanted to get to know the other girl, who is a sweetheart. They are 2 different personalities it seems, but I'm attracted to both. The other one is more feminine, and I like that, whereas this one cusses and stuff, which is okay, but a little viril. I like the whole charming, sweet thing. I really haven't talked much with the other girl, but I want to. The other girl is a little prettier too, and from another Country. This one is the typical pretty American. The other looks almost like Carmen Elektra, but sweet, and thinner.

2007-09-06 22:49:27 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-06 22:49:13 · 13 answers · asked by HaqVoice 2 in Friends

We ended up breaking up, thing is i am still in love with him. There are plenty of things wrong with the relationship, he can be rude and selfish but there are times he makes me feel like a princess. I think that in the long run we would not work out but i am absolutely miserable right now and i have no idea what to do with myself. I feel lost, can anyone give me some advice?

2007-09-06 22:46:31 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-06 22:43:36 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-09-06 22:36:06 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My mother passed away in Dec 05. I was 16 & my sis was 13. Well I now live with my bf & she lives with my dad. My dad did drugs my whole life. He is now clean again He has a decent job, goes to NA, owns a house & has a great gf. The problem is that my sister & I get SSI because of my moms death. Well my dad asks for $200 a month for bills around the house. I have no problem giving it to him. My sister gets upset & claims my father uses it on other things than the bills. I thought she was just being greedy with her money but I gave him $200(put in his bank account) because he called saying the water was was turned off, I believed him. But my sister & my brother's gf say the water never got turned off. I went & checked & it was on! I found a bill for the water & it wasn't even due yet! I have no idea what to do. I'm only 17! I mean if I don't give him the money he will be mad at me if I do give it to him my sis will be mad. What should I do? I don't know if I can confront him Please help

2007-09-06 22:35:32 · 12 answers · asked by S S 4 in Family

My man whom I am engaged to be married is in a habit of watching too much ****.I have requested him to stop as of now and he may do so when we are together.I am a true and possessive person,I dont care about his past but I do about his present.And at this point of time when I am ushering him into my life as a very dear person, I want him to be true to me too.I feel seeing such hot and smoky things may give way to fantacies,which will be cheating on me mentally if not physically.I did assure him that we will see together,but it seems that he is addicted to it .Now i really have doubts about my own train of thoughts,was I right,keeping in view I come from culturally developed conservative family and mens' wandering mind.I want both males and especially females to answer my dilemma.

2007-09-06 22:35:32 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I’ve been with my husband for 7 years, married for 1. He runs his own business and literally works 7 days a week. I told him before we got married I couldn’t deal with having no time together and he either needed to make time for us or let me go and he promised to make time for us. 15 months later nothing has changed. I have told him how I feel over and over and there is nothing more I can say or do to change anything. I have worked my hours and social life around his working life and can’t do any more. If he was a horrible person it would be easier because I would leave but he is the man I want to spend the rest of my life with, but it’s making me so unhappy. I honestly believe he does love me and wants to spend time with me but it seems to be just the pressure of work getting in the way. We had a big conversation (again) about this last week and again he has made promises, how long do I leave it this time before I have to have the conversation again though. What would you do?

2007-09-06 22:33:56 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

"eh, whatever" seems to be their mantra. Are they ever passionate about anything?

2007-09-06 22:31:07 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I need to phone a relative who has recently lost a son under very sad circumstances, what do I say to them? How do I start the conversation.

2007-09-06 22:29:24 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family