Family & Relationships - 6 September 2007

a short engagement?.
people said it would never last between my hubby and I
here we are 9 years and 3 boys later. and still madly in love.
so NOT everyone is right all the time.
we were engaged for 4 months.

2007-09-06 15:54:29 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My husband comes home with his pay and he doesn't take any money from it, but whenever he goes and gets his pay he always comes home with stuff that he buys but it's not the money from his pay. I asked him where he gets the money from, his response is...why you ask? did you loose any money or it's my money. I'm always angry because he's not honest with me. I'm curious to find out but he keeps on doinng it but never tells me where he gets the money from. Please help me i need for him to tell me the truth. Can you help me?. What should i do?.

2007-09-06 15:54:03 · 8 answers · asked by MADALENE C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been told that I need not to lie anymore to improve my life. I must tell my daughter the truth about me and my ex and why he is not home anymore after 1.5 years of lie that her father has been working all these times... How do I tell her and not to harm her too much? Thank you.

2007-09-06 15:53:45 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What in your definition is "a beautiful lady"?
thank you for your help! <3

2007-09-06 15:49:51 · 5 answers · asked by Anna G 1 in Singles & Dating

Hello all. I live with my GF and her 3 year old daughter. My GF works as a barmaid. We - me, her and her daughter geton well. Her daughter likes me. We talk about our future together - marriage etc. Before we moved in I agreed to look after her daughter for one of the evenings while she works. Im now being pressured into looking after her for a second night. I dont mind doing it too much but dont want to be used as a doormat. Do people think im being unreasonable.

2007-09-06 15:44:10 · 15 answers · asked by Pa J 1 in Singles & Dating

My man is 43 and I am 40...We are very much in love and we are healthy....How many times shold we be doing it in a week.....? I told you this is a serious question....

2007-09-06 15:42:39 · 1 answers · asked by karens lovinlife 6 in Singles & Dating

2nd marriage for both, we have have been married almost 13 years. She had sex with a large number of men before we married, I enjoy hearing details when she will give them

2007-09-06 15:38:36 · 13 answers · asked by boxthad 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My fiance and I got engaged in June. Before that we had dated for over 4 years. Things were really great until about three weeks ago. All of a sudden it is like he has become a different person. he's mean and doesn't seem to care or want to talk to me. For the next 8 months I live long-distance so talking on the phone is kind of important.

Before all of this he was one of the nicest guys you could ever meet. I don't understand what has changed in the last few weeks that has made him do such a dramatic change. Is he getting cold feet? Should I be worried?

I try to talk to him and he just gets defensive and even meanier. Any suggestions or advice is greatly appreciated!

2007-09-06 15:33:57 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Here's the situation. I was with someone for over 2 years, lived together for almost 2 years, and we broke up. Not on awful terms but it was sad. So now I'm 23 and living with my parents. I got a job here, until they closed down. So I almost got back with my ex because we still love each other. But it didn't work. So I came back to my parents, depressed and lonely. Then I decided I was getting a job on Monday (It was Thursday when I came back all depressed). Monday came around and I was SICK. Like had a fever sick. While I'm sick my mom takes my car and it breaks down. Now over a week later we get a new battery in it and assume it will fix the problem. So when our other car dies, I go to get my mom. Then my car died again. So now I have No means of transportation, I'm pretty much heartbroken, I have no job, I live with my parents, and I haven't talked to my best and only friend since my car broke down last week. Who has any ideas as to how I can stop crying? Because I'm just at a loss

2007-09-06 15:30:58 · 10 answers · asked by memememe!! 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

i have this friend that I known for 6 years. I liked him since we saw each other at this new years eve party. 5 years ago. but wouldnt it be wierd to be going out? i dont know anymore.

2007-09-06 15:27:23 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm 24&in Grad school. For the past few months I have been looking for a car because I am about to start working with a company and need reliable transportation to get there. I haven't had a vehicle up until now because it's just an extra expense I didn't need. My dad found out from my mom (they are divorced), that I was looking for a car. He knows that because of school, I only work part time. So, he offered to GIVE me a car he bought that he doesn't drive because he has two vehicles. The car is fairly new and very nice! He says he will continue to pay the notes on it and the only thing I will be responsible for is the insurance. He really wants to help me out and I accepted. I am VERY thankful for this& see it as a major blessing. HOWEVER, a small part of me also feels bad because he has to give up his car for me. I also feel bad because at 24, my parents are still having to foot my bills. I mean I pay for everything like credit cards, phone bills, & stuff but that's

2007-09-06 15:25:45 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My husband and I have been together for almost 7 years. We have a 9 month old son and he has and 11 year old daughter from a previous marriage. From the beginning of our relationship his ex-wife has been really flirty with him. When we are together she always brings up some story about the time the were married. I don't say anything to her because their daughter is around when it happens. My husband never returns her advances and usually ignores her. Recently she has started asking him to get back together and he ingores her. I asked my husband to just tell her that they are never getting back together. He says that he doesn't not want to interact with her when it doesn't pertain to their child. I also asked him to tell her just that. He won't do it because he said it will create conflict in his relationship with is daughter and I totally understand...but I am fed up and it is creating conflict in our relationship. I think I deserve more respect. Am I out of line?

2007-09-06 15:22:34 · 13 answers · asked by Ashley W 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Im 5"6 brown hair, hazel eye's ummm....Im average body size ,14,I play v-ball .Funny....sometime's odd LOL!!! nice ;0 so what do u think
PS:Im bord and hve nothin 2 do :)
thx,
volley-ball

2007-09-06 15:21:58 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My parents went through a nasty divorce when i was 5 and i blocked everything out so i really dont remember to much. But growing up i always heard my mom talk about what happend but never ever my dad. The other day i asked my dad what happend and he told me his side of the story. My moms side of the story was that my dad bought another mans wife a car and not her, this other mans wife just happens to be my moms brothers wife. And apparently thats why my mom left my dad. My dad told me that he found my step dads card in her purse and around the time he found that he said my mom used to get all ready to go to work and she would come home and be in a bitchy mood and one day my dad offered to take my mom down and buy her a car and my mom said she didnt want anything from him well he than took that money and just bought his brother in law's wife the car and thats when my mom left him. I didnt tell my mom what my dad said but i wonder if it was my mom all along ?

2007-09-06 15:21:20 · 9 answers · asked by mommyandbaby 4 in Marriage & Divorce

OK - Am I the bad guy or the fool? - just not sure. About 1x per week my wife will start picking at me - you didn't do this, you are bad at this, you never finished this, you need to do this, why have you not done this, when are you going to get to this. Seriously, there is barley a breath in between the questions sometimes. Mostly she is great! About 3 weeks ago I fixed her computer that was consistently crashing - she had 4 different MY PICTURES folders on 2 drives? I consolidated them - tonight she couldn't find some pictures. "This thing hasn't worked right since you "fixed it . . .it was so organized before you touched it." About 30 min. into the constant barrage (with only a calm please settle down from me) - I shouted - STOP - PLEASE - STOP - I CANNOT TAKE IT ANYMORE - which only fired her up "stop being a baby"- then I screamed "Shut the F-UP" and violently rolled my office chair across the room . Of course, I lose. Now she is in her office "afraid" of me. At a loss..

2007-09-06 15:16:34 · 21 answers · asked by David W 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 15. My friend did it many times , like 13 . And I don't want to do it becasue of her, but the fact that I want to. Does it matter what type?

2007-09-06 15:13:00 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we've been together for 5 years, he communicates with me 24/7, he tells me where he goes and who he is with, he sees me exactly after he goes off from work, he visits me like 6 days a week, we go to church together, we're in the church band together... and then just one day... he doesn't show... won't answer my calls, etc... just left a message that he's breaking up with me.... and later a found out it's because he's with a new girl......

tell me how you cope with it? help me.... and pray for me....

no rude answers please..

2007-09-06 15:12:27 · 16 answers · asked by terra 4 in Friends

My friend is really sick and very young, I am not saying her age though over the internet, anyway she is having seizures and has a brain tumor, please think about her in your prayers she needs all the help she can get, thank you, and God Bless You

2007-09-06 15:12:02 · 8 answers · asked by Em. 6 in Friends

are u in middle school or high school or maybe in college

2007-09-06 15:06:37 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How far in advance of the wedding
are wedding showers given???

2007-09-06 15:03:28 · 7 answers · asked by Cher 6 in Weddings

They also fixed an electrical problem in the airplane as an afterthought, but sacificing goats or buffaloes is considered more important!

Reminds one of Christians sacrificing Jesus, doesn't it?

2007-09-06 15:03:19 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

What would you do if you went to work and you were actually missing your clothes?

2007-09-06 14:54:57 · 66 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have a friend who thinks i should get back with my exs bf she said if he did not care he would have not called that night or talked to me last friday see my family heats him has i have said befor but what i am asking is it to late what if he has a new gf and my family heats him i am 30 years old he is also in his 3o"s with a 9 year old son i miss him alot but scared to call and ask him i think it may be to late for use even throw i miss him and his son alot but my friend keeps talking to me about it she said her family heats her bf but she is still with him she is 25 years old not sure how old her bf is anyways what should i do please help please she even wants me to go to his house. should i ask him if he would take me back if he dose not have a gf he asked me to take him back and we were trying to work things out but my family called and told him to stay away from me and not to call this was sometimes back in june but he called one night i told him he could call when ever he wanted

2007-09-06 14:54:48 · 5 answers · asked by betty m 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-06 14:54:38 · 19 answers · asked by da govna 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-06 14:54:08 · 8 answers · asked by James 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I took 6 cds from a friend because he owed me the cds and I didn't think he would give them to me or he would forget. he didn't forget and he gave me 4 cds and said he would give me 2 more soon. I didn't take the original cds as I was leaving his house I put them in a shoe box and in his tv room in the basement. I told him about it but I don't think he understood what I meant. I feel terrible for taking them in the first place. I have done a lot for him however I buy ciggarrets for his girlfriend, I always drive when we hang out, I invited him to a baseball game because I had an extra ticket, etc. What should I do? like I said I didn't take the orginal six cds with me, but I don't think he will find some of the cds because I put some in a shoe box, I don't know what I was thinking. BTW he is 17 years old and I'm 19 years old. I don't want to say sorry like a million times because I don't want him and my other friends to think I'm a pansy or anything.

thanks

2007-09-06 14:54:04 · 1 answers · asked by BAS 2 in Friends

i like a guy but i dont think he notices me wat should i do?

2007-09-06 14:53:10 · 1 answers · asked by HOT_GURL22 1 in Singles & Dating

I am an adult daughter of an alcohlic. Lately I have been feeling tremendous guilt about not speaking to my mother. I have put up with years of verbal abuse when she is drunk, when she is sober she is the nicest person in the world. It's been a long time coming I finally told her I was done w/ all the drama in my life, after repeatedly trying to get her to seek help. I have tried to find a ACA meeting in my area but have had no luck. My question is has anyone gone through a similar experiance w/ a parent and if you felt guilt how did you cope? (I think the guilt I'm mostly feeling is for my daughter if that makes sense, we don't really have family on either side. I feel pain for her that she doesn't have any grandmothers.)

Thanks in advance for anyone who respondes, I appreciate it.

2007-09-06 14:52:32 · 9 answers · asked by Leigh Lee 5 in Family

i have been friends with this guy for 3 years and i have liked him for 5 butt he says he doesnt like me. butt we are like bffs. wat whould i do bcz i cant stop thinkin about him?

2007-09-06 14:49:27 · 1 answers · asked by HOT_GURL22 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-06 14:48:59 · 52 answers · asked by Bullsfan1 2 in Singles & Dating