Family & Relationships - 6 September 2007

my x and i have been divorced for over 4 years and we have a doughter together, when i'm trying to arange pick up and drop off times for his weekends his new girlfriend can't controll herself, she ends up cousing me out and threatning me and it would be easier if i could just talk to him but she won't allow it.she insist that all arangements be made threw her. i'm trying to be nice and just make the arangements ang go our seperate ways but it seems she just loves to fight. i'd love to put her in her place but i just don't think she's that important.

2007-09-06 19:21:17 · 8 answers · asked by girlie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

well im in a long distance relationship and um weve been together for a month and i think hes lost interest what should i do?

2007-09-06 19:20:21 · 18 answers · asked by courtney 1 in Singles & Dating

showered b/c the smell agitates my upchuck reflex. What can I tell him w/o being mean?

2007-09-06 19:16:55 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

ok the thing is that i liked this girl and she rejected me. So i tried to put it down and moved on. The thing is that she and one of my friends are kinda dating now, so what so i behave or react in front of them to tell them that im alrite with that. because sometimes they might feel uncomforable in front of me (or not) but the thing is how do i tell them to be themselves and im ok. how can i do that with my body language?

2007-09-06 19:16:53 · 7 answers · asked by Rio T 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok here is the deal... people don't be freaked out please. I am 18 years old and i have a girlfriend. We do try to have sex only i seem like its hard for me to get it up. when i do get it up and we start it seems like i only last about 20 seconds. Any tips?

2007-09-06 19:08:55 · 11 answers · asked by bbow4life 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-06 19:08:47 · 5 answers · asked by silver wings 4 in Marriage & Divorce

how romanitic can a widower be after 6 years of not having any 1 but his children?

2007-09-06 19:07:50 · 5 answers · asked by widower52with3 1 in Singles & Dating

i cant live without him. i dont know how i can understand this situation. last night callled him his cell was on waiting from 8;00 pm till 11:30 pm and i think onwards because last i tried to 11:30 then i dont know .
he did not call back me.

my situation is going worst...............

2007-09-06 18:53:49 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-06 18:48:16 · 25 answers · asked by roma 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a bff and i luv her to death (not in that kind of way :P) but, i dont have conversation that are serious even though she is the person i should and want to talk to what should i do?

2007-09-06 18:46:51 · 2 answers · asked by *Gold is Glam* 1 in Friends

My husband has a fantasy of me being with other men sexually while he watches. What is that all about?

2007-09-06 18:46:18 · 10 answers · asked by Shelly S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I live in LA but don't know any good places.

2007-09-06 18:44:51 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we went out together had sex which was great.i have not had from him for one month & tempted to call him and i am not sure whether he will take my call or tell me he is busy or hanging out with his friends.i realized how much am in love since i cant get over him & want to be together with him forever.what do i do?and i have all his contacts including his address.

2007-09-06 18:41:51 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-06 18:38:11 · 7 answers · asked by N.T. 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-06 18:37:59 · 3 answers · asked by lucyann 1 in Singles & Dating

Would you rather see the girl in a cute fitted dress or a nice top and a pair of jeans? We would be going to dinner.

I need girls opinions too.

Thanks :)

2007-09-06 18:37:58 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Here's the deal. I proposed to my girlfriend about a year ago. I told her we had to wait to set a date until I found employment...Meanwhile not long after I proposed she started changing. Setting down the ground rules and showing her true self. I told her to start treating me like she used to. She says that she will when I set a date. We are at a standstill now. What direction should I take?

2007-09-06 18:37:27 · 14 answers · asked by rudedude 1 in Weddings

My hubby oneday said, i don't want to be married, I want my freedom, I want no responsiblity of taking care of you are anybody else. He wants to be free and live his life. He moved out of the bedroom 3 weeks ago, out cell phone bill came higher then normal, so i checked our minutes, we were ok, but, then i looked at the text message and he had 20/30 text a day from two woman, he said "oh they are friends from work who like to send jokes. Well, one of the phone numbers was on there in the middle of the night.......friends hu, when i confronted him, he got pissed and said i was "sic" and hasn't came home since then. I don't want him back, i just want the pain to go away.......If you only knew me, I am a good woman and thought are marriage was the best ever. Never did we have major problems.....i feel there is another woman...why would he do this to us, broken heart in Las Vegas........

2007-09-06 18:34:27 · 19 answers · asked by Gonzo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

for a person that i think that there is a 99% of chance that wont never like me...but i am like really really in love with her?...

2007-09-06 18:33:43 · 11 answers · asked by 32characters 1 in Singles & Dating

I met my wife when she was working as a call girl and I was a frequent customer of hers. Naturally people frequently ask how we met and we aren't entirely comfortable with the true story for obvious reasons.

2007-09-06 18:30:44 · 20 answers · asked by nmsu00 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I know of a case where a husband was secretly viewing his stepdaughter body while his wife and other family members slept! This happenend on three occasions each occasion seemed to escalate, the father felt he should be forgiven since he came to my friend and told her. Right now my friend and her husband are legally separated and have an impending divorce but many of her other girlfriends have told her to take him back, I have been firm with her and told her NO! you have other children and he the husband tells her that he won't do that again and never to his daughters, but as her friend I have told her she can't take that chance! Divorce him! Do you think am I wrong for advising her to Divorce him? Or are her other friends right?

2007-09-06 18:27:22 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

When we were young, I got all the attentions because I worked hard in school and always got first and second grades.
I was told by people and parent that I am beautiful and got all the attentions as well.Then our mother suffered chronic depression and our father was working away from home. As a result, I had to look after my 3 brother and sisters. I was just 9 years old when I start cooking, washing them and taking them to schools etc.
During teenage years, again I got all the attentions and receive good things first as I was first girl in the family.
When I was young I used to call her names, when she made me angry but I never planned for that.
Now, I am in my early forty's, my sister is holding grudge against me, and she deliberately puts me down in front of my man and she tries to win him by putting me down. She even date my date that was arranged by our mutual friend.
She is completely different when we are alone, but when we are in public, she acts like a stranger. I need closer

2007-09-06 18:22:34 · 7 answers · asked by sk t 1 in Family

I met this good guy, he's not that handsome or attractive, but a very interesting, smart, hard working, and sweet person, who can be any girl's dream husband. I am kind of picky about looks and don't know how am i going to get over with this but there is bigger problem. He wants serious things and all ready to get married and the things is that he just built his house and he lives with parents so there is no chance for us to live seperate. The thing with me i am kind of independent person and want to be free in my house and away from everybody. And also my work is dealing with clients, so my whole day is coming and going. I am thinking once we live with his parents it's goanna be so akward to deal with responsibilities and follow the traditions that his family has. So i don't know what to do. Should i give up the relationship since i don't want to face the situation. I spoke to him a few time about that and he's confused as much as i am because we both got connected somehow.

2007-09-06 18:22:32 · 5 answers · asked by blue5349 1 in Family

I must have been through about a million girls
I'd love 'em then I'd leave 'em alone
I didn't care how much they cried, no sir
Their tears left me cold as a stone

But then I fooled around and fell in love
I fooled around and fell in love, yes I did

It used to be when I'd see a girl that I liked
I'd get out my book and write down her name
Ah, but when the, the grass got a little greener over on the other
side
I'd just tear out that page

I fooled around and fell in love
I fooled around and fell in love, since I met you baby

so what do i do now?

2007-09-06 18:18:00 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She thinks that turning 18 automatically made her an adult. I know legally this is true but she is not equipped with even her H.S.diploma. She is a senior and now is not even going to school. She also has no income.

2007-09-06 18:15:13 · 18 answers · asked by wanozi 1 in Family

my girl friend is constently texting about 5 people when im with her i told her it feels like she would rather be doing something else with one of them but she says that not true.... i get frustrated because it seems like i get almost no time with her with out her phone in the way............HELP

2007-09-06 18:09:30 · 24 answers · asked by kyle 2 in Singles & Dating

I am 19 and hate physical contact other then boxing, which I love and am damn good at. I have not probably hugged some one since about 8th grade when a girl hugged me which was uncomfortable for me. Since then I have not had any physical contact with anyone other then knocking people out in the ring. I just dont like to be touched, so stay out of my invisible bubble. I dont understand why people cant get that I just dont like any physical affection what so ever, never kissed a girl or anything cuz I just dont like all that touchy feely crap. I am built like crazy and girls always want to touch my six pack, but when I dont let them they get the impression that I am gay or something, no just dont like to be touched. By the way I cant stand the thought of gay people, but as long as they stay away from me who cares what they do. Why cant people get this and why do they think I am gay???????? I am not gay and dont have a problem so quit with that not my question

2007-09-06 18:09:30 · 22 answers · asked by Me,Myself, and I 1 in Singles & Dating

A high school student of mine named Alma poses this question. Could you please address your answers to her? Thank you. They really enjoy seeing their questions answered by people from all over.

2007-09-06 18:07:05 · 46 answers · asked by red baron 2 in Marriage & Divorce

WHat was it?

2007-09-06 18:05:36 · 13 answers · asked by the d 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

What does it mean to be married? Doesn't everyone get divorced and cheat nowadays? How's married life different from dating life? I just don't believe in marriage or see the big point in it. Is that wierd...? I'm 23 and never been in love or thought of being married in the future. What's it like??

2007-09-06 18:05:36 · 19 answers · asked by grace 2 in Singles & Dating