well im in a long distance relationship and um weve been together for a month and i think hes lost interest what should i do?
2007-09-06 19:20:21 · 18 answers · asked by courtney 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think they can work but eventually you will have to spend significant time together. Either extended visits or moving closer.
2007-09-06 19:26:21 · answer #1 · answered by John L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really dont think long distance relationships work, its not even possible to really have a relationship in my mind if you cant physically be with the person. The way I see it is, I heard that almost 90% of communication is non-verbal, so, if that is true, then you really cant have a relationship if all you can do is talk or chat with a webcam er whatever. If I were you, i'd break it off and find someone I could touch.
2007-09-06 19:25:41 · answer #2 · answered by Onii Chan! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A long distance relationship is easy to keep when both of you love and trust each other so much. Others can be successful, others don't but if he lost interest in you then he better let you know.
2007-09-06 19:29:06 · answer #3 · answered by sheila l 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was on a long distance relationship before, and it just never works if you are going to be away for more than a year.
2007-09-06 19:24:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me and my bf have been together for 6 monthes and have been in a long distant relationship. It really depends on the ppl. For us it works. Some ppls dont and some do. It depends on how strong the love connection and the trust is.
2007-09-06 19:28:02 · answer #5 · answered by Jessica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think long distance is a great idea...why would you want a relationship with someone who you can never see unless its like a special occassion!? i dont know how a relationship can develop if you're just talking on the phone or over the internet, def not my kinda thing, btw how old are you?
i would keep my options open and look into people around my area!
2007-09-06 19:27:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It'll never work, especially if you met exclusively online or something of that sort. It might work for a while either way, but chances are it won't last in the long run for obvious reasons. If it seems like he lost interest, well, he probably has. Good luck.
2007-09-06 19:27:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm still laughing too hard to answer this, but here goes.
You said, "I WANT ALL GUYS INPUT.?" Freud would have a ball with this (no pun intended).
Just a guess, you're not ready to stick it out and you want to move on. It is doubtful you were ready for this kind of relationship to begin with.
2007-09-06 19:41:00 · answer #8 · answered by GENE 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok i'm only going to say it once: talk to him......tell him that u think hes lost interest or say u'be noticed it or whatever.....talk to im....i was in a relationship where i was kinda there too much and the girl didn't even tell me.......she just broke up with me and i was confused and had to figure out why she broke us up.........please don't make that mistake just talk with him!!!!!!!! um actually i just realized u said its a long distance......ya u should prob stop it they never work......u'd have to be together for years or months then be far apart for it to work........but use my advice for future relaionships please!!!! good luck
2007-09-06 19:29:13 · answer #9 · answered by Spence 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL AS PER MY RELATIONSHIP IS CONSULT I LOST MY LOVE BECAUSE I WAS NOT THERE IN A RELATIONSHIP EACH & EVERY PERSON NEEDS OTHER PERSONS time so they can understand the other person they need them to be near by so whenever they r in trouble they can lean on this\her partner
so as far as i know this kind of relationships doesen't work
2007-09-06 19:40:20 · answer #10 · answered by Amit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋