Family & Relationships - 6 September 2007

I really want to do something special for her.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ybfLRFacF-c

2007-09-06 18:04:05 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been married for 2 years and the other week i kissed a girl while i was out at a club. Is it still cheating? even though if he was there he would have got us both, and enjoyed it??

2007-09-06 18:02:14 · 15 answers · asked by musicchic 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I go to work and tell myself I won't talk to her, but find myself chatting away. I don't know if she realizes I like her, but it's driving me crazy. Should I just stop talking to her or let her know how I feel? I feel bad becuase she's married, I can't stop my feelings though. I haven't acted on anything and probably won't because I respect marriage. Have you ever been in a situation like this? What did you do? I really think she flirts with me too.

2007-09-06 17:57:08 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I worked with this girl who flirted with me a lot at work, assumed she liked me, even my parents (own the company) commented she had crush on me. I rejected, I felt bad a few months after I went to college and tried to apologize. I apparently scared her or pissed her off. She blocked me from facebook, and instant messanger and I still blocked. One co worker who knew about this basically told me to stop contacting her. When i worked with her again months later she said nothing about it.
I came back for the summer, she came in my store, stopped and stared at me. Was startled by my mom ordered something and left. Next her and her friend came in, I said Hi to the friend and she responded, the this girl didnt say anything, she kept her head down. Next thing I know a few days later she comes into my store talks to my parents about her and school and I hear at dinner all about her. Should I try and talk to her? I think she might be afraid of me, mad at me or might not believe I like her.

2007-09-06 17:54:13 · 7 answers · asked by DMan 2 in Friends

Used the "pull out" method for an extended period of time and did not get pregnant?

2007-09-06 17:53:23 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what are your opinions of what emotional abuse is?

2007-09-06 17:52:26 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

well i was at this club last night for frosh week for university and i went with a group of people. so i started dancing by myself and like 2 min a smoking girl came to tap me on the shoulders and a gave me a sign she wanted to dance. so we started dancing, We started grinding, she was an amazing dancer and i started to get alittle aroused (what guy doesnt). At the time i wasnt thinking about trying to pursue her so i just left it at the dancing. we danced for about 2-3 min then she left and went with her friends. was this a sign i shoulda went after her or did she jus want to dance, cuz now i cant stop thinking about why i didnt ask for her number or anything. to me it wasnt obvious but what do you guys think? what does it mean when she just leaves after a song saying nothing to you but going wit her friends. I've been ridiculed ever since for not making a move what do yall think?

2007-09-06 17:52:12 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

a guy once told me that he could tell everything he needed to know about through my eyes. so i'm asking if its true?

2007-09-06 17:48:23 · 12 answers · asked by purple_goddess 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-06 17:47:59 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

example " many fish in the sea " line stuff like that ur help would be really appreciated

2007-09-06 17:47:40 · 14 answers · asked by big daddy kane 2 in Singles & Dating

Hi. I have been with my boyfriend for a year now and we are very much in Love. We live together and are very serious about our relationship - we have discussed the possibilty of marriage and he has suggested the idea of proposing at the end of the year. Whilst I am very excited about this and can see a very bright future for us both I am concerend about the way he deals with arguments. I know its normal to disagree sometimes, but he has a very bad habit of 'turning the tables' so to speak. he has never done anything seriously wrong, the arguments we have are mostly over silly things like when we are tired or in bad moods, but he has a bad habit of playing the blame game and cannot admit when he is wrong. If he is at fault then he really struggles to apologise and will try & find a way to turn the situation around so it is somehow my fault. It's very tiring & I find it very emotionally draining & have considered leaving purely because I find it so childish. What should I do?

2007-09-06 17:46:22 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My best friend's parents won't listen when she tells them that she thinks she is depressed.

They say she is just being overdramatic, but she really thinks she is going through some kind of depression. When she described how she felt, I agreed with her.

Her parents still won't listen and she can't seek medical advice because of that.

It's really affecting her and our friendship.

Can anyone help?

2007-09-06 17:45:48 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

What should I do?
It's because that when I tell them how I feel or criticize them... guess what? I get screamed at and brushed off by them. They would say things such as, "You ungrateful little brat, we raised you and this is how you repay us!"/"Why don't you find another family to go to if you say that!?". I think you get the idea now.
I know what you're thinking, I understand that they buy me things, raised me, give me advice, and teach me about life, but, however, they don't care about how I feel. The truth is that I don't really care much at all that they buy me so much things or give me money. All I just wanted them to do was listen and hear me out. That's why I'm not that close with my family. Trust me, I have tried to get them to understand, but I gave up a long time ago. I really do want to open up to them, but they don't want to hear me out or cooperate with me. I'm not done yet.

2007-09-06 17:42:01 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-09-06 17:41:15 · 14 answers · asked by laura j 1 in Family

help! im scared!

2007-09-06 17:39:22 · 13 answers · asked by Giggle Bear 3 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I get along really well most of the time, but here and there we seem to get on one another's nerves. However, rather than being able to rectify it in the moment, we tend to get super emotional and unable to communicate. Tonight we had a major meltdown, and when I finally got him to speak to me, he told me that I seem to direct my anger towards him more and more frequently. I do get frustrated and angry with work and life, however if I pull away and seek my own space apart he takes offense. He likes to take on my problems and try and solve them, only to create more stress. I ask him to let me handle my own problems, that I'll willingly take his advice but allow me to work it out myself. What ends up happening is we talk/share everything to the point I get down to my frustrations and I don't know what to do with them. I am so lost, I don't have anyone with experience that I can discuss this with. Any input is grand.

2007-09-06 17:39:13 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I still have a long way to go (lost 40, 50 more to go)

But I have noticed that more guys are interested in
me. Should I be angry? I feel like this is such a front.

I have not changed personality wise, I am equally as
outgoing and as nice. But now they are starting
to show me more attention.

SHOULD I BE MAD? I FEEL VERY WRONGED BY
THIS SOMEHOW?

2007-09-06 17:37:58 · 38 answers · asked by Okay Hero 2 in Singles & Dating

than a friend

2007-09-06 17:37:42 · 8 answers · asked by ames 3 in Singles & Dating

i absolutely cannot do this. I am a junior this year and my parents are basically saying that there is no way around me spending my senior year at a fancy preppy rich highschool six hours away somewhere in MO. I want to experience my highschool years with the people that I've grown up with. Help!

2007-09-06 17:35:41 · 24 answers · asked by yeahh! 1 in Family

First, a bit of history. My girlfriend and I have known each other for just about five years now but we've only been dating for about four months. We've already said those three scary words (and meant them), and just as importantly, we still really like one another. At least from my end.

So what is my problem? Well, in four months, we haven't progressed at all past kissing. I'm not a pushy guy by any means, and I don't really care about the physical much. But by kissing, I don't mean of the French variety. I mean pecking, and I'm the one that has to initiate that. I'm not sure that she's actually kissed me of her own accord yet. We hold hands and occasionally she'll sidle up beside me... but things just aren't moving.

It's just continued for so long now that I'm scared to rock the boat. I don't know that she wants it since she hasn't given me anything herself, and I'm equally scared to just come out and ask. I'm a wimp, I know.

But I love her. What do you think?

2007-09-06 17:33:29 · 13 answers · asked by Grae 2 in Singles & Dating

K....I like dis guy... hes 18 & im 14. da thing is dat i dnt wan2 go out wit him, jus b friends. IDK if he likes me but like I said in another of my questions; he started 2 talk 2 me & we talked 4 a lng time. i really really like him, but thats why i dnt want 2 go out wit him coz i dnt want him 2 go 2 jail coz my dad told me if he evr figures out dat im datin him he'll call da cops on him. some say dat hes only interested on my body, but i mean dats da first thing they look on a girl right? but hes also different from all da other guys. he dresses normal, he works ,hes intelligent and hes really funny which surprisingly dats da most important thing 2 me. Hmmm... so wat should i do?

2007-09-06 17:32:22 · 1 answers · asked by Yesenia L 1 in Singles & Dating

Is that going to be a good aphrodisiac? How much do i have to eat, and when does it start to take effect? Or is it only raw oysters that do the trick?

2007-09-06 17:31:10 · 3 answers · asked by jeska102 1 in Singles & Dating

Take something/someone for granted vs. Taking advantage of someone/something?

2007-09-06 17:30:07 · 6 answers · asked by Butterfly 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Made dinner and had Barry White playing when I got home..I forgave him for what he said (about ex) I melted and I couldn't be mad anymore.....should I still bring up what he had said..or just take what he did as a sign he is sorry?

2007-09-06 17:29:37 · 8 answers · asked by Aymee L 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-06 17:28:36 · 12 answers · asked by Giggle Bear 3 in Singles & Dating

There are many of you who are very young...But you do not communicate your feelings or ideas very well at all...The text msg method of spelling is such a nuisance and a deterent - for me at least - to reply to your inquiry.

I strongly recommend that you take the time and effort to present your words in proper format...It is good practice for when you finish school and have to do it for real...The programs here have spellcheck - use it

Take care & good luck

2007-09-06 17:27:36 · 3 answers · asked by thud.fan 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-06 17:24:57 · 8 answers · asked by Shell 1 in Singles & Dating

i can die for this girl, ive liked her for so long.
i just dont know what to do...help me please!

2007-09-06 17:24:52 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i feel really confused a while back i found out my sisters were molested by a person who used to work for my parents. I always knew something had happened because of their general hatred towards men, and very defensive and snappy behavior. Even though they are older they tend to act out a lot. I also have an older brother who doesn't seem to understand their behavior, he doesn't know about their childhood. He gives them a benefit of the doubt but a lot of times he disregards them with having rude or immature behavior.

I used to think the same until I found out. I feel like I should tell him but at the same time I'm scared he will be really sad and blame himself. After finding out I did that for a long time, although I know I had no control over the monster. But at the sametime I feel like he will understand the cause of their sometimes very defensive and snappy behavior.

What should I do. I feel bad that he is so hard on them because I was too until I found out yet finding out has

2007-09-06 17:18:47 · 7 answers · asked by talkingator 1 in Family

she likes to leave them open because she says it lets the cold air come in. well everytime she walks into her room with a towel she forgets to close them. she lives in an apartment complex with many windows facing her window only a few feet apart. it turns out a guy in our school lives right across. i don't know who but he emailed me wanting money. $300 otherwise he said he'll show pictures of her saggy boobs to the whole school. I didn't believe him but their was an attachment with her fully topless. What should I do? Should I tell her? just in case there are people that don't believe me here is the picture i was emailed:
http://good-times.webshots.com/photo/239...
i obviously covered her face and privates.

2007-09-06 17:18:17 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends