What the hell should I do?

Question

I worked with this girl who flirted with me a lot at work, assumed she liked me, even my parents (own the company) commented she had crush on me. I rejected, I felt bad a few months after I went to college and tried to apologize. I apparently scared her or pissed her off. She blocked me from facebook, and instant messanger and I still blocked. One co worker who knew about this basically told me to stop contacting her. When i worked with her again months later she said nothing about it.
I came back for the summer, she came in my store, stopped and stared at me. Was startled by my mom ordered something and left. Next her and her friend came in, I said Hi to the friend and she responded, the this girl didnt say anything, she kept her head down. Next thing I know a few days later she comes into my store talks to my parents about her and school and I hear at dinner all about her. Should I try and talk to her? I think she might be afraid of me, mad at me or might not believe I like her.

I would like to clairfy I rejected her advances, she asked me to date her, always would try to hug me etc etc. She was younger than me. I really do like her a lot, had fun workign with her, at the time I didnt want to have a relationship with her as she wanted it. I wanted to be friends, I rejected her cause I felt creeped out with her hitting on me so much.

I already did that dumb note thing thinking she was mad or afraid after I did it. I want to talk to her, I haven't talked to her in eight months. I was a complete moron and a jerk to her, but not intentionally. If there is any indication that she may not be mad at me she was kind enough to work my graduation so my parents could get away and she never worked for us ever again.

I will be a rich bastard, our company is valued at over 5 million. I don't know what is stopping me from going up to her and talking to her, fear or restraining order or fear that she may actually realize that I like her and we will have a relationship. She has been hitting on me pretty bad and I felt absolutely horrible like nothing I have ever felt when I thought I broke her heart in December.

Answer 1

lol you approached it in a completely wrong manner instead of rejecting her you should have came out and told her the situation on how you would have liked to just be friends, but know you just need to wait if she is ever around try to make her feel comfortable,try talking about subjects she can relate to, but while pursuing this make sure you let her know the boundaries of just being friends and make sure understands this. hope i could help

Answer 2

It seems you have already tried to talk to her. If things are meant to be they will happen. Maybe she doesnt want a relationship right now just like you didnt want one when she was hitting on you. Give her some space and maybe she will come around.

Answer 3

I think the two of you already have too much baggage in your past with each other. I'd forget about her and move on, unless your parents or one of your friends tell you that she wants you to ask her out. Until and if that happens, just chalk it up to experience.

Answer 4

There is nothing wrong if you keep trying but dont go too far. Women can be very unforgiving and will slap it on hard. So give it one or two more tries, if that doesnt work move on.

Answer 5

Tell her your parents own a company and you'll be a rich bastard later. She will get turn-on.

Answer 6

sometimes writing a note is good to clarify things as when you write it down and re-read it, you will probably edit it and get closer to what you want to say. I think you should write to her and tell her exactly what you told us.

Answer 7

if shes not ugly why not do it. sheesh, when is it my turn LORD, MY TURN!

lol to renz m's comment, right on brother.