Family & Relationships - 6 September 2007

I'm 19, I'm a virgin, and I just gotta know what the ladies are looking for. Please let me know!

2007-09-06 17:16:28 · 2 answers · asked by HockeyKrazy 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been married for 6 years. Up until recently I have had 2 instances where I drank too much and said mean things and don't remember anything.. Both times we agreed I would work on it. Last weekend was my 30th b-day and my husband could not be with me he had too work so I was up north with my kids and sister.. I got really drunk again, did not intend too and I feel awful..this time I just acted like a goofy drunk but the kids saw and my husband is really upset and is giving me one more chance? I feel like I don't know where to start I am hurt because nothing was done for by birthday but that is no excuse for what I did.. I feel terrible and I don't like that I have one more chance it feels like I am on trial(I plan to never drink again) I just need some advice on how to feel better about myself and for my husband to support me more

2007-09-06 17:16:03 · 27 answers · asked by sonya 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My girlfriends older brother wants me to meet him.?

and theres a chance there might be a few friends w/ him.
is this just gonna be a "talk" or am i gonna have to fight him and his friends?


and to clearify the question me and his younger sister have being going out for 2 months with no problems at all.
so i didnt do anything wrong.
he just wants to meet me cuz im with his sister.
but she told me that he would get really mad when she would tell him stuff like
she hugged a couple of boys and kissed some1 that day so thats why i think i he might wanna fight me.

but he has no REAL reason to wanna fight and im not gonna say anything that would make him want to.but at the same time anything can happen right? and i dont even really know him so i donht know what hes gonna be thinkin at the time we will be talking

2007-09-06 17:15:46 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I been marryed for 9 months and its falling apart. I love him but he doset belive it. He dosent care anymore. To be honest i dont think he really truly ever did. I want to be with him and happy with him but if you ask him thats not what i want what do you do when one has givin up but you didnt?

2007-09-06 17:14:40 · 15 answers · asked by bacardi 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am in a pickle, i need advice in all this, it would be much appreciated, thank you!
Okay, so my guy is in the Marines (let's nickname him "M"), if you have read my past posted questions, you will know who i am talking about. So anyway, he's gone. I miss him a lot and he misses me too. He's been gone for a month and i got with someone during that month. The guy was a great guy (Let's call him "D"), i liked him, he treated me very well... in the end, M called me and told me he loves me. (We weren't together when he left)
He tells me he wants to get back together and so i break up with the other guy and told him the whole story of why i was breaking up with him; that i couldn't love him--that i'm in love with M. I had met a great deal of his family and liked being with everyone. But i'd continue to find EXCUSES why it wouldn't work out and i'd think about HIM. Whenever M would call me, i'd get butterflies in my stomach and everything! M is in the same pickle as me

2007-09-06 17:14:21 · 8 answers · asked by ♥ Lil love lady ♥ 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-06 17:13:35 · 6 answers · asked by mbovictory2010 1 in Singles & Dating

me and this guy was talkin about to date and one night he came and picked me up and we madeout and stuff. but then him and his best friend went to some girls house one night and after that he didnt like me anymore he liked her. cuz his friend was tellin him he needs to get him some and when he figured out she wouldnt give him none he stoped likin her and he went to this other girl, and she wouldnt give him none neither so he doesnt like her anymore neither, and he startin to talk to me again. but he didnt stop likin me cuz i wouldnt give him none cuz he told me that not all he wanted.. but thats all he wanted from them? im so confused! and i get this feelin like he likes me again but im not sure. and he was always nice and sweet to me but them two girls say he dont talk to them that much anymore and he was only sweet to them for a week but hes always sweet to me, what do yall think? please try to help im so confused!

2007-09-06 17:11:53 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i live and were married in the united states what i want to know is there a way he could have started the divorce in kuwait or will it has to be done in the usa.

2007-09-06 17:10:49 · 12 answers · asked by sty 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a boyfriend and my friends want us to make out but I don't know if I should or if I should just dump him?Also could you please tell me the steps on how to make out?
THANK YOU AND LOVE YA ALL!!!

2007-09-06 17:09:56 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I started 8th grade about 3 days ago wich was like september 4th. Anyway I don't have really any friends execpet one who is extreamly nagitive she came up to me yesterday and said that new girl is a b!itch! I was like why? What did she do to you? She said because she said she didn't like the high school my brother and sister went to and the one I'm going to she said all the prepps gp there (wich is true but I didn't wanna pis her off) So today I was thinking it would be nice to be friends with the new girl, Me and the nagitve friend were walking my lokers, and Isaw her with her little sister and she wispered walk away from that b!itch, but I wanted to be nice so I stoped and sayed hi and started talking to her. Then my other friend looked at me rude, so she gave me the cold shoulder all day today. So in l \aunage arts class I decied to sit with somone new, and that girl was her x friend becuase she didn't like her boyfrind. So she gave me the cold shoulder all day. Should I irgore

2007-09-06 17:09:26 · 4 answers · asked by ? 5 in Friends

If so why they already have money?
Just wondering

2007-09-06 17:06:45 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

good night every one

2007-09-06 17:05:37 · 4 answers · asked by ღOMGღ 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

My nature and my attitude become a problem for me. I am 27 unmarried girl. I have my dad and my younger sister. she is 13 year old(down syndrome child).Mother expaired in 2006. 3 years left in dad's retirement.I want to look after my sister after my marriage.I am running tution centre in my house.small business is also there.
Other relative said:-My sister should send to the mental retardation home.But from 8 years she is a regular student of special school.The view of her principal and other teacher's are 'why'? they said she is a calm nature innocent child.She also have right in my father's and other ancestral property.They are apsolutely right.Relative's have their own personel intrests.
By my nature two orphan kids also stayed with us.Brother & sister now they both are in 10th standerd.
Is the Ghar jamai become the solution of my problem? How can I get that type of person, arrange marriage or love marriage not happen in arrange marriage.what should I do?
because after my marriage i can take any bold legal action towards them otherwise they will chew my share. How I get that type of person for me?
Thankyou.

2007-09-06 17:01:01 · 3 answers · asked by pari 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

okay so i have a big house and designer clothes all of that stuff my dad owns 10 cars 12 cell phones i have the chocolate and my 3 yr old brother has a cell phone and yes he knows how to use it he calls me all the time and well i travel alot and stay at resorts and have alot of friends and stuff i am not gonna brag annway why are they sooo jealous and then they are mean to mean the people that arent my freinds are mean and give me dirty looks ? why ???

2007-09-06 16:56:59 · 16 answers · asked by xxDolce-Girlxx 1 in Friends

I don't want to include anything about the registry in the invitation....and people have said that it might not be appropriate to have a shower...so what do we do?? how will people know where we registered??

2007-09-06 16:54:12 · 19 answers · asked by breeze 2 in Weddings

What do you think are some of the greatest obstacles?

2007-09-06 16:50:31 · 13 answers · asked by Dominus 5 in Marriage & Divorce

He is an alcoholic and is verbally abusive to all of us. He comes home from work, changes and goes outside to get drunk. If he comes in before the kids go to bed, he's yelling at one or all of us. He keeps a very good steady job and I'm able to stay home with my kids, but I don't know if that is the best thing or should I leave and stop walking on egg shells? He used to be very good with the kids, but now it seems he doesn't want to be around any of us. What to do?

2007-09-06 16:44:05 · 70 answers · asked by kidzrme 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am a 19 year old college freshman and my girlfriend is a high school senior. We have been dating for a year know and I really see myself ending up being married to her.

The only problem that I see is getting married while we are still in college. What are some of your opinions about married couples who are both in college?

2007-09-06 16:35:52 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

If the person is nice to you because they expect something in return or not?

2007-09-06 16:35:15 · 10 answers · asked by @NGEL B@BY 7 in Friends

My brother got engaged a couple months ago. He's only been with her for about a year and he's still in the "whipped" phase. He's 28 and he's never had a girlfriend before his current fiance and nobody in the family is a fan of her for many legitimate reasons. Whats the best way for us to accept what is going to happen and learn to like her?

2007-09-06 16:33:45 · 25 answers · asked by runofthemill 4 in Family

We lived in Ohio and were married for 11 years. Am I entiteled to any part of his pension? There was nothing in the divorce papers to specify whether or not I would get part of his pension. I did remarry one more time for 3 years but had no children with the second husband.

2007-09-06 16:33:23 · 23 answers · asked by driftydaisy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

butt into a conversation, without, butting in, its confusing, but if i want to get in on a conversation, maybe 2 strangers (peers of mine) are talking amongst themselves, maybe a little louder than a whisper, like normal talking, and i want to get in on the conversation for whatever reason, HOW DO I MAKE IT MORE POLITE?

2007-09-06 16:29:40 · 4 answers · asked by Sabrina Devareoux 4 in Friends

we have a 6 month old together and i have FULL custody. I have put down rules about where she can go and who she can be around, he constantly agrees but then i catch him with that wrong person or in the wrong place. what can i do about this. he is a compulsive liar!

2007-09-06 16:26:10 · 34 answers · asked by I♥Karma 4 in Marriage & Divorce

A wise old lady told me this and she said it applies for women more than guys...

she said nowadays women will want to be with the guy "they love" but she said the man that loves YOU, is the perfect one for you because he will never take you for granted, he adores you, does everything, etc...you don't have to do a thing...and if you don't have feelings for him at first, you will eventually fall in love with him

w. women who pick the "man they love", she said it usually ends up no working because that hook the guy never had was gone...there was never that attention he gave to you in the first place and once he's gone, he's gone

TRUE OR FALSE - good old fashioned advice?

2007-09-06 16:25:45 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm a married stay at home mom of a 1yr old. Since the baby, I've stayed home. I've been asked to come back to work on a part time basis, I always said I'd go back in a "heartbeat" if I could do it part time. And so my delimia is, will this greatly affect our child if Mommy's gone maybe 3 nights a week? Short 4hr shifts. Im a nurse and the hubby's an engineer during the day and a firefighter/paramedic at night. He makes more to pull a straight 12hr shift at the station, but I bounce back and forth as to what's best for us.... I'm definately praying about it, but would like some advice too. THANKS!!!

2007-09-06 16:24:26 · 9 answers · asked by marcie1997 3 in Marriage & Divorce

how long should i wait until i have sex with my bf? ive been with him for 4 months but i dont wanna seem easy. so how long should i wait? what do u guys suggest?

2007-09-06 16:03:12 · 6 answers · asked by cookeez55 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-06 16:01:30 · 6 answers · asked by JennyLee26 1 in Singles & Dating

Since a while, it seems like my husband wants to spend a lot of time with his friends. I am not sure if he was just like that since he was too busy the first 3 years of marriage. Now the forth year of marriage and he wants to be with other guys friends. He goes 2-3 days a week. If he can't go, he makes it seem like its because of me he doesn't go. I stay at home and take care of our 2 year old. He has nothing to worry about at home. last two month, he had to leave away from home due to his job change. We had some financial crisis, so, this month I am working. For work, I have to go to my mom's house. But it doesn't matter to him how long I am gone. 2-3 weeks and that's fine, although I need to be there no more then 1 week and we have already stayed away from each other for 2months in last 3 months!! Is there a logical explanation for this? or am I being too emotional about him? When I talk to him regarding this, he says 'he doesn't care if i go'. I feel worthless no matter what i do.

2007-09-06 15:59:39 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i am tall but a little overweight i want to do a streptease for my husband but i am afraid he may not like it so i am asking should i do it or is it only for skinny girls?

2007-09-06 15:59:03 · 29 answers · asked by rebecca h 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm talking to some guy on msn and I'm on webcam and ever since I got on he's been really quiet? Am I like, ugly , pretty or WHAT?

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2007-09-06 15:55:05 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating