Family & Relationships - 3 September 2007

in that marriage or not?

2007-09-03 23:56:44 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I've already had sex but I've decided that I want to wait to be married. It's so hard to say no when it's right there in front of you, how can I resist temptation?

2007-09-03 23:47:19 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

with drugs and alcohol.
hes fifteen, and i doubt if i knew he was into drugs i would have become so close to him [wow, that sounded horrible.]
i recently found out that he smokes, takes wight loss pills, drinks alot, and a few other drugs. and he just thinks it so funny. he texted me saying 'i just got pills that make you lose weight and make your muscles bigger. lol' uhm, isnt that basically steriods? anyway, hes almost anorexic as it is. he smokes three packs of cigerettes a weekend[aparently he doesnt smoke durning the week...?] and its not only killing himself slowly, but its killing ME, because i would be hurt if i ever lost him. i have told him i really dont like seeing him like this many many times, told him how skinny he is, and that if anything he should eat more, and told him to stop smoking. i mean, if he gave up one of these things id be slightly happier. is there anything else i can do, at all to help him?

2007-09-03 23:30:13 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Do all mothers feel what their children do is wrong? My mom never speeks in my favour, she is continously telling me that every thing i do is wrong, n she is constantly pointing out my mistakes. Just the other day i was telling her about this friend of mine who had trouble n the other friend,who managed to stay out of it. I dont know from where in this did i come into picture but then the entire conversation turned to how i do things wrong...Is this with all moms? r they constantly correcting us like teachers or can they ever listen to us like a mother or a friend keeping advises at a distance?

2007-09-03 23:25:23 · 2 answers · asked by smilex 2 in Family

should i tell my boyfriend im upset that he doesnt call me anymore?

but i dont want him to feel like he HAS to call me now, because i've bought it up

its like, i'd like him to bring me flowers, but i dont want them if i've had to request them...

what should i do?

2007-09-03 23:23:20 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If the guys have a sense of humor, do most of them like the girl have the sense of humor too ?

2007-09-03 22:52:48 · 15 answers · asked by Sinatha 2 in Singles & Dating

Why my husband complained if I go to the store or with my friends for 4 hours. He complained coz I set infront of the computer when I wake up. Anything that he can find to complain and get mad at. He's not working he completely retired because of his back surgery. Why get mad at me for just these. I clean the house except when we've barbecue he'll cook then he'll get mad at me too because he's the one doing the cooking. Why he get mad at just for these? Anyone can explain to me why some husband is like this?

2007-09-03 22:26:15 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-09-03 22:23:47 · 1 answers · asked by chelley 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

There are very few relationships that are mixed compared to real life

2007-09-03 22:23:26 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay, I'm going to be truthfully honest in this question cuz I desperately really need to find an answer to myself. what the h3ll is wrong with me?

I'm an attractive 25 years old female. I got tons of male and female friends. I can almost attract any males I met. They like me and adore me. I have a nice heart and a shiny personality. I have a sparkling smile and good sense of humour. Every one tells me that I am sexy and gorgeous. Girls think I am a men-killer. However, I treat everyone equally, I am nice with all of them.

I've met two men and the same damn thing happened

At first, they were so into me, they really liked me and I liked them too. As I wasn't ready for a serious relationship, I always love to start things lightly. we started as a romantic friends.

Just any other lovers, we held hands, dated and made love. Things were great. however, eventually, I found them drawing themselves away from me. They kinda avoiding me.

2007-09-03 22:20:50 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I don't mind if they think one-night-stands is wrong, I only get offended when they start insulting and pass hurtful close-minded remarks at those who believe differently.

If our society is really modern and free, then why can't people be more open-minded and stop judging & insulting those who have casual sex?

2007-09-03 22:17:50 · 8 answers · asked by jazzman 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-03 22:17:22 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I came to a point in my life where i dont know what to do anymore. Life used be so easy i had everything going for me. I was a good student, i had friends n family that i loved. But the few month has been hell for me. I drop out of high school. I got kick out of my parents house ( i drop out of HS after i got kicked out). But getting kick out of my parents house wasnt the worst think that could happen to me. Yes i had my ups n downs but i always made it. I mean i wasnt complted alone i had my two greatest friends ever who i lived with till last month. We help each other in every were we could. But last month thought it would be better for us to move back with our parents since we all didnt have jobs and no money. But i think that was the big mistake i more missrable here then i was living on my own. Idk actually where i'm going with this. I guess I think to much about the what "if's" if i should have it done stuff different how would have my life been then.

2007-09-03 22:10:52 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-09-03 21:59:38 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have a guy friend and he's really close to his cousin which my friend dates and my guy friend said that he saw one of my email sayin dat I was makin out wit this guy in my country and that I cheated on him which I never did and he doesn't believe me he also called me a liar which really hurt cuz he used to be really sweet but til he saw one of my email, wat I wrote in da email was I like this guy and wen we first met we kissed on the cheek to say hello sooooo should I forgive him or not and if yes why

2007-09-03 21:57:31 · 7 answers · asked by u have da pieces of my heart 2 in Singles & Dating

On the third date, I started touching her. She was not responsive at first but later on she was touching me back. we hugged but kissed only on the cheek after the date. then she said let's just be friends.

2007-09-03 21:56:49 · 8 answers · asked by pajamaman 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-03 21:54:57 · 19 answers · asked by Beautiful - 6 in Singles & Dating

should i teach her wookie?

2007-09-03 21:53:50 · 5 answers · asked by ibentmywo0kie 1 in Singles & Dating

i like this guy. I mean i really like him. I can't explain but he makes me feel really good about myself. he lives in my apartment complex and i like him and i htink he knows because were always like smiling at eachother whenever like wide smiling. And then the down fall, i found out he asked one of my best friends in the building out. She told me she said she didn't know to him because I liked him, so i lied and said "oh i don't like him" (even though i did and still do) so the next day I came to throw out my trash and he was with all his friends and walked all the way over to help me and we kept smiling and saying hi back and forth and thank you so i tmade me even more confused. What was worse is that right after that i came out with my best friend and our two other firneds and it was me and her and he kept staring and i honestly didn't know which one he was staring at?? i haven't talked to him since but im pretty sure i will soon. what do i do then? i really like him like no other

2007-09-03 21:51:28 · 13 answers · asked by so_mabe 1 in Singles & Dating

Gentlemen who are like I am, decent, honest, and high in morality values.
I don't want pick up bars, or to jump into bed either.
Are there any gentlemen out there who remember what a date is? Dinner, movie, a walk around the park, a kiss on the cheek..
Not jumping into bed, this is for marriage, or has everyone forgotten this value in this day and age ?
Help..

2007-09-03 21:50:57 · 15 answers · asked by paula b 2 in Singles & Dating

now how can i pump a girl to fall love with me?and is it possibe.

2007-09-03 21:49:35 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-03 21:49:32 · 5 answers · asked by Cristiana T 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My brother went to college last Thursday and I really miss him. I don't know if he's happy... he keeps telling us he is, but I don't think he is. He's three hours away, so it's not like I can up and visit him. I don't know what I'm asking for... just needed to post it somewhere.

2007-09-03 21:45:34 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I'm a GRANDMOTHER now and only 35 years old!
I had my Daughter at 14, and she got pregnant and had her son at 14. I have had custody of him scene we got home from hospital he's now 8 and the one TRUE JOY of my life!

T work 2 jobs SAFEWAY, scenes I was 13 and COSTCO for last 12 years and sometimes I have to work 17 or 18 hour a day at least 2 days a week.

This past Friday I worked from 3am noon at Safeway, then 12:30 pm till 8 pm, when I got home 10 minutes later my grandson had not been feed, but that was okay because my grandson made dinner for me, what wrong with this picture?

He used the Toaster oven and made me a BLT, Perfectly he then pulled out a plastic pan and put my feet in it and got hot water for them to soak! Again I ask whats wrong with this picture?

My Mother who lives with me free of charge brought home a guy walked by and took the wonderful sandwich my GRANDSON made for me and gave it to the guy of the night.
Again whats wrong with this picture?

2007-09-03 21:44:22 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-03 21:40:19 · 11 answers · asked by chelley 1 in Singles & Dating

the other family had one child. the husband, an alcoholic used to abuse the wife (domestic violence). the husband did not either love or support the wife and the child. the wife and the had to quit- to overseas. the husband had to use all the ways to humilliate the wife- he created the story that the wife has eloped with another man. was it wrong to quit from domestic violence?

5 years has passed, the husband does not bother to support his child though the child lives with the mum but the husband insist that the wife should go back and sort the issues.

in this situation, do you think the wife should go back to her husband?

will the husband change his unreasonable behaviour?

will the husband start taking his responsibilities in caring, loving and supporting his family- wife and the child?

please comment.

2007-09-03 21:39:34 · 19 answers · asked by cecilia m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

how can i show a guy signs that i like him? can i just like start tickling him and stufffs.. he does that to me..i wonder if he likes me.. will tickling him show him signs? i'm planning to hold his hands in the cinema..should i say i'm cold and ask him to lend me his hands so that i can hold it or just ask him "can i hold ur hands or i want to hold ur hands"? PLS HELP!
pls tell me what i should do to show him signs that i like him

2007-09-03 21:37:53 · 3 answers · asked by redskiesinthemorning 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I got married October 2005. I paid for the wedding, got no ring, and have been very dissatisfied and embarrassed by the entire event. We met each other online earlier in 2005 and in a spare whim got hitched. The sex we had in the beginning of the relationship created my son who is 12 months old who I love more than anything in this world. I only knew this man from his IMs and from 5 months of in person contact before the October marriage. He lied a lot about who he was, his past, etc... I can't stand his family either and have many issues with this. I feel really disconnected from him and I don't even find him attractive. I can't stand him. I try to for the sake of our son but I just can't do it. I basically fell out of love with him. I don't know what to do. Is there a way to reconnect with him? Asides from the lying and a few verbal outbursts he isn't a BAD person, just someone needing redirection. I just don't know what to do. I feel so old and ick and I'm only 24.

2007-09-03 21:37:38 · 6 answers · asked by mizrox@verizon.net 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 years. Living together for 3 of them. He says he wants to get married one minute and not the next. I really want to marry him so much, but I don't want to come across as being desperate or needy.

2007-09-03 21:34:27 · 32 answers · asked by erika h 4 in Weddings

I want it to be something that lasts! When is the appropriate time to give these gifts? Lots of points to the person who's answer I like the best. :)

2007-09-03 21:26:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings