Family & Relationships - 3 September 2007

I have never found this before and we have only been engaged for a very short time. I am not the kind of girl that is usually bothered by this but it is driving me crazy! The site was break.com under the NSFW( not suitable for work) pictures. The girls are dressed and it is not porn. But I also think there are some pictures he had made comments about. He forget to take the stuff out of the history and it was done last thurs. and then today the history is deleted. So he is obviously hiding something...I dont know what to think. I want to say something but I don't want him to start lying and hiding it. Is it a normal guy thing??

2007-09-03 14:46:38 · 20 answers · asked by loulou82 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I mean can't you think about something else or do other things to make yourself happy instead of sex. Sex is not everything ya know.

2007-09-03 14:46:34 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My brother is a college freshman who started a few days ago. I'd really like to send him some things that he would appreciate in a care package. He has 2 roommates, so he's living in close quarters. I don't want to send any packaged food, although I may bake something for him. What else can I send him and do you have any packaging tips?

2007-09-03 14:43:46 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

For example: Pictures of girls who are partly dressed on break.com. And then forget to delete it out of the history, but do it a few days later.

2007-09-03 14:38:21 · 15 answers · asked by loulou82 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My mom is verbally abusive. I don’t want to tell any one because she treats my younger siblings’ just fine. I have already decided I’m moving out at 18. But I wanted to know if there is anyway I can get out my house before I turn 18. I’m 16 now, but there is no way I can stay another two years in the house and put up with what she has to say to me each night.

2007-09-03 14:38:14 · 3 answers · asked by brttny 1 in Family

This is hard for me because I feel like I meet someone new and then we're at a soccer game or something and they just start talking to everyone and I'm shy so it's hard. I also don't drink so I feel like I'm instantly looked down on because of that.

2007-09-03 14:32:17 · 19 answers · asked by Tom from the Top 3 in Friends

I heard couples do this when they get married or something and doesn't it feel weird to do this. I'm just curious.Thanks.

2007-09-03 14:31:48 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Of the opposite sex classed as havinfg an affair?

2007-09-03 14:28:57 · 18 answers · asked by colin050659 6 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend is such a hypocrite.. he expects things from me that he wouldn't think of doing himself.
For example.. I HAVE to be in perfect shape all the time stay fit and keep my weight down. HE on the other hand is about 70 lbs overweight and has the eating habits of a 3 year old.
He feels its OK for HIM to flirt and talk with other girls however it's not OK for me to even be friends with another guy.
We always listen to HIS music and go do whatever it is HE wants to do.. Everything it seems like is on HIS terms and conditions.. and it never used to be this way. and its really starting to drive me crazy.. i feel very unappreciated - especially because in all honesty, i doubt he could get another girl especially acting the way he does.

any thoughts/advice on my situation?
thanks♥

2007-09-03 14:28:17 · 9 answers · asked by starryeyed 5 in Singles & Dating

how can a person tell the difference between real friends and fairweather friends. It seems that I have made so many fairweather friends over the course of my life, - so when things are going well everyone is there, and when times get hard - like when my wife died, then everyone vanishes. So if I have money then things are fine, and if I'm poor (and I'm not asking people for money) then they go away. it's like everyone just wants whatever they can get out of me. If I'm able to make all the effort and call people then they're there, but when I wasn't able to go and call everyone - then there wasn't people there who were concerned about me. I just can't believe how selfish people are. I just don't get it.
I know people that if I'm giving them stuff then they talk tom e, and if I don't they don't call at all. I pretty much quit giving to anyone who doesn't include me in their life. it used to be about anyone, but not anymore.not sure if I should do that though. thanks.

2007-09-03 14:28:14 · 1 answers · asked by art_flood 4 in Friends

I'm in a loveless marrage (18 yrs) we have two teenage boys both headed for college. Should I stay and suffer through for the sake of the children or cut my loses now?

2007-09-03 14:23:51 · 9 answers · asked by chowboss74 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been dating the most amazing guy in the world for a little over 5 months. And we have been through hell and back in our relationship. We've gone through ppl thinking we shuldn't be together because his ex is my friend (She honestly doesn't care cuz she is dating his friend) both of us havin feelings for exes, and my dad trying to get us apart + more. And we've always gotten through it together. But lately I've been feeling like he is waaaaaaaaay to good for me and he deserves someone better. One of his old friends is trying to go out w/ him, and I think she might deserve him more. I love him w/ all my heart and I just want him to be happy, when I told him all this he said that he loves me more than anything in the world and wuld never choose n e one over me. But I still have these feelings and often cry myself to sleep because of them. Are they normal? Will they go away? If not what shuld I do?

2007-09-03 14:20:57 · 14 answers · asked by Emma 1 in Singles & Dating

Should I just come out with it and tell her I like her and ask her on a date, or should I wait and try and figure out if she likes me. Oh and I'm a senior and she's a sophomore, in a year I'll be at college, is it worth it?

2007-09-03 14:19:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I broke up with my ex 6 months ago. But now i want him back. I think he's kind of over me though. How do I get him back?

2007-09-03 14:18:35 · 5 answers · asked by im always right 1 in Singles & Dating

I ask because I was always (and still am) one of those people who everyone hates. I kinda talk to much. I hate it about myself too.
but I want to be a shy person but just can't! I want to fit in with a crowd, even if it's (gonna go to hell for this but) the preps.

I am like the extra piece in the puzzle that doesn't fit in anywhere and no one wants.

what do I do? don't say "be yourself!" cause that's not exaclty helping

2007-09-03 14:17:31 · 12 answers · asked by Beatle-Juice 3 in Friends

Alone: Single, no companion, no room mate

Lonely: Married but feeling miserably alone, single and wishing you had a significant other, lost loved ones and miss them

2007-09-03 14:16:33 · 2 answers · asked by Manny 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm divorced, and for about the past year I have been dating a wonderful man. He is great but he is EXTREMELY frugal, although he does really well financially. I don't mind good money management. However, my best friend is spoiled rotten by her husband (yes, they can afford it) -- diamonds, a new really expensive car, a brand-new finished basement etc. I love my boyfriend a lot but it would be nice if I could find someone who would spoil me at least a little bit (within reason of course). Now that we are talking about getting married he is complaining about how much the engagement ring will cost! Should I adjust my boyfriend, adjust my friendships or adjust my attitude?

2007-09-03 14:14:06 · 14 answers · asked by writer272002 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I really like one of my guy friends, but he has no idea. I decided the only way for me to tell him is to make a move and just flat out kiss him. We drink together so I can easily be in that kind of situation with him, but how should I go about making the move without making it akward or losing him as a friend if he ends up not going for it?

And I'm talking about how to go about it physically, I really don't need to hear about how I need to be carefull about losing a perfectly good friendship...cuz honestly if I can't have him in that way eventually I don't think I can continue to be his friend and act normally.

He has no idea I like him, and I have no idea if he has EVER thought that way about me, but we have had convos about sex and his ex gf's, but nothing indicating to me he's super attracted. He's really hard to read, and kind of oblivious to girls (which he has told me a couple of times) and I have never seen him make a move on any girl while I've been around him at parties

2007-09-03 14:13:30 · 13 answers · asked by LostAdviseGiver 2 in Singles & Dating

My X-Wife is asking me to kick my daughter out of our bed because she thinks she is too old. How old do you think it is OK for a child to sleep in a family bed? Please indicate reasoning thoroughly. I am trying to understand why. (assuming I am not a pervert)

2007-09-03 14:13:04 · 6 answers · asked by Deanrwhite 2 in Family

2007-09-03 14:12:39 · 10 answers · asked by Frank V 3 in Singles & Dating

o.k. heres the situation, he is my older sisters friend, he is funny, good looking nice and interested in me ( I think?) I think he is cause he kissed me a few times and everytime im at her place he spends the night and apparntly he never does that cause he lives right close, the problem is i dont know if he is interested in me or just looking to get laid and i dont wanna just sleep with him and see how things go becasue he is my sisters friend also I only see him at her place and he hasnt asked for my number or anything does that mean anything like does that seem mor elike he just like the convinces of me being around or could it just be he deosnt wanna jump the gun ( we ahve only met a month or so ago

2007-09-03 14:12:35 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How old do you have to be to get married in Alabama? What do you have to sign and the details? I love this girl and if we can, we've both discussed it privately and with our parents.

2007-09-03 14:10:26 · 14 answers · asked by Big D 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've never had a problem with my boyfriend watching porn until I found out that he's watching it essentially everyday when he doesn't want anything to do with me. He's stated that masturbation is easier for him to climax than having sex with me. This obviously upsets me but he says that I'm overreacting and too sex driven. I feel that whenever we have sex, I'm forcing him into it. My self esteem has plumeted and he doesn't seem to understand why. So, am I overreacting to all this or is there really a problem?

2007-09-03 14:08:06 · 22 answers · asked by lissasdev 2 in Singles & Dating

I went out with this guy I have flirted with for over a year and we are really attracted to eachother. Well we went out because he lost his job, so I said to him at the end of the date, "It was nice going out with you and hope we can do it again soon", he said "Yes he would I love to go out with you again", but once I start working I wont be able to see you as much because I need to work," he said. Do you think that was a rude comment?

2007-09-03 14:06:53 · 38 answers · asked by Kemma 3 in Singles & Dating

i am sick of my so called friend who won't even bother to reply a simply 'hello how are you' email?

2007-09-03 14:06:52 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I just came back from a trip with a "friend". Her parents were wonderful and paid for my trip. My "friend" on the other hand was so selfish and mean the WHOLE trip and very jealous if I talked to her parents more then her or if we didn't do things her way. At one point, she said "we paid for her f**king trip, she can do what we want to do" She would say comments like that in front me. But since it was on a cruise ship, and I had no where to go, I held back my comments. Do I confront her now or is it too late? It had been over a year since I saw my friend and she wasn't like this before, that I know of.

2007-09-03 14:06:31 · 8 answers · asked by rusty49178 1 in Friends

2007-09-03 14:05:37 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Or do you each tend to like different types of people, ie one of you preferring more intellectual, more active and sporty, more artsy, etc. or are you perfectly in agreement the type of people you like to socialize with?

2007-09-03 14:04:47 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I personally have had a bad experience, just one but that was enough. I am tempted but don't dare. I don't have the trust.
I would like to hear what other people think??

2007-09-03 14:03:11 · 1 answers · asked by Fiesty Redhead 1 in Singles & Dating

If so have you told them?

2007-09-03 14:02:24 · 10 answers · asked by Cinderella 5 in Singles & Dating