I have never found this before and we have only been engaged for a very short time. I am not the kind of girl that is usually bothered by this but it is driving me crazy! The site was break.com under the NSFW( not suitable for work) pictures. The girls are dressed and it is not porn. But I also think there are some pictures he had made comments about. He forget to take the stuff out of the history and it was done last thurs. and then today the history is deleted. So he is obviously hiding something...I dont know what to think. I want to say something but I don't want him to start lying and hiding it. Is it a normal guy thing??
2007-09-03 14:46:38 · 20 answers · asked by loulou82 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Oh guys are guys after all...as long as u don't find him cheated u...i think u shouldn't border too much...!!
why not joint in the fun...comment about it and show him some sexy guys picture too..!! since u gonna married him why not trust him...and joint in with his hobby...(as long as its is not too much.. like having a group sex etc.)
even if he is hiding its from u..that is because he love u too much to up sad u...he is scare to hurt u..but at the same time he still got the urge to see these type of picture...maybe this have becomes a habit that are hard to kick..even before he met u..!!
if u don't wants him to hid things from u..then the best way is to joint him...no point making yourself miserable with those suspect thinking...don't u think so?
i think u should be glad that he don't look at sexy guys picture..
haa....haa....!!
2007-09-03 14:56:57 · answer #1 · answered by nightowls 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its normal for guys to look at pretty girls. It sounds like he is hiding it because he doesn't want to upset you. If it doesn't bother you and you want him to be more open about it then why don't you look up some pretty girls on the net and show them to him, ask him what he likes about them. Ask him if he'd like you to dress that way for him or pose like that. it will help him to open up to you about those things and maybe it will jump-start a new area of sexual activity for you both.
2007-09-03 21:59:00 · answer #2 · answered by sumfin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal for a guy to look because guys are more physical whereas girls are more emotional. Guys think about sex every what 5 seconds and this is inate that can not be changed. However, when your guy stops appreciating, being attentive, respecting you, trusting you and stop loving you unconditionally than you should worry. Don't be too insecure because this will drive your fiancee to worry about how you don't trust him. Trust is one of the keys to expressing unconditional love. God Bless
2007-09-03 21:57:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yeah, it's quite normal and so is porn...just because a your partner looks at pics or flicks with other people in them, doesn't have anything to do with how he feels about you. Guys are visual creatures...they like to look.
If this bugs you, talk to him about it...but don't try to forbid it. Just let him know it took you aback and ask him if everything is kewl or is there something he wishes you two were doing differently and he's been unable to express it to you? If he says it's all groovy, then trust that.
2007-09-03 21:51:39 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I hope you are not sneaking around but found this by accident. Break.com is a website with videos as it says "free videos, pictures, and comedy for guys".
You are over-reacting. If you still worry, just ask him openly.
2007-09-03 21:54:04 · answer #5 · answered by terliuke 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, I already told you it's normal for men and women to look!! He's probably just not so proud of his looking because, well listen to yourself! You're freakin' out over nothing. Besides, some men are just a bit embarassed about talking to their partners about masturbation. He deleted it later because he knows you're a snoop and doesn't want to bother with your nagging. This website is really none of your business. He's entitled to his personal time.
2007-09-03 21:50:50 · answer #6 · answered by skunk pie 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm not a guy but I wouldn't worry about it~
He loves YOU and is engaged to YOU but guys DO look at other girls. As long as he doesn't touch which he cannot do with pics on the computer than everything is fine.
Good Luck to You~
2007-09-03 21:51:25 · answer #7 · answered by HotJewels 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
he is not yet married. to look is human . as long as he has his vision he will be looking at other women. the important thing is that he remain faithful to the woman he asked to be his wife. you have a problem if you are afraid to talk to him about this . it is clearly a problem in your eyes. give him the benefit of the doubt. assume he will be willing to discuss his internet habits honestly with you. going into a marriage you are afraid to work/talk things out honestly would be a big disservice to both of you.
2007-09-03 21:54:59 · answer #8 · answered by busted 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He's hiding it to avoid a fight with you. If you are understanding that all men look at pretty women, then he'll feel less inclined to be secretive.
2007-09-03 21:49:41 · answer #9 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Chill out. He is a guy. I would say he was not normal if he didn't look.
Don't worry about this behavior and it is nothing against you. Do not make a big deal out this, and do not destroy your relationship over something so insignificant.
2007-09-03 21:54:27 · answer #10 · answered by madcat 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋