Family & Relationships - 3 September 2007

2007-09-03 04:28:04 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I realized that I haven't flirted with a guy in 2 years? Is something wrong with me? I'm 19.?

I've never dated nor have I ever been kissed. I no longer interested in flirting. I've lost the skill. I hate the feeling of embarrassment after the guy rejects me.
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Guys do try to initiate the flirting, but it doesn't come naturally to me anymore. I'm not interested. I just get horny from time to time. That's all. I use to flirt during my ugly duckling stages. Now that I am datable, attractive looking, I don't pay attention to those things. I'm just not into it anymore. I don't think guys like me flirting with them. In the past, they didn't mind. I was fat and had great confidence. Now I'm just quiet.
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3 minutes ago
I'm straight.

2007-09-03 04:23:57 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If a girl propose u but u dont want to love her and u dont want to hurt her bcause she is ur good friend and she has very emotionally thinking?

2007-09-03 04:20:48 · 10 answers · asked by goloo 1 in Friends

anyone know.. i always seem to be the only one wen i start at uni or college that doesnt know anybody

2007-09-03 04:13:07 · 8 answers · asked by b 1 in Friends

2007-09-03 04:12:35 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-09-03 04:08:34 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i was just bored and browsing ebay... i saw bridal (and baby) shower raffle invites/raffle tickets.
it said "funds for the bride and groom and a prize for the winner"
i think it's a cute idea. and i got to thinking it's not so bad... you have dollar dances and things like that... a raffle if you have a realllly cool prize (or prizes) is cool.

would you think it's tacky or would you buy in at a shower or reception?

2007-09-03 04:07:30 · 19 answers · asked by nataliexoxo 7 in Weddings

My children (boy age 8 and girl age 11) enjoy going to church with step mom and I, but ex said that I promised to raise the children catholic during baptism. I think their mom is just looking for excuses to be mad at me.

2007-09-03 03:58:14 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i still cant stand my roomate, whenever she is near me i get annoyed. when i came back in last night she said she was going out which i didnt care and i didnt care what tiime she came home either but when she did get home it was 1:30ish and she was acting weird i decided to go to bed. she was over by the door and kept unlocking and locking one of the locks a bunch times and was laughing about it. then she came and got something out of i think the fridge and went over by the bathroom and was doing something making noise then she was doing something else but i didnt know what. then she went to bed and left all the lights on. i want to switch roomates because she just always annoys me with her presence, shes 3 years older than me and i just overall dont like her. what should i do?

2007-09-03 03:56:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My peers can be quite uncommunicative. Dad's even worse - he doesn't talk to me normally and would usually shut himself off by watching TV or reading newspaper at home. And my peers - especially the ones who play lots of sport - usually don't communicate much and express their true feelings. As a sentimental, rather emotional guy I feel quite frustrated by this trend. What's wrong with guys nowadays?

2007-09-03 03:55:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

some men have so much ego in them . they think they r always right and they gave their ego the first priority than any thing else whether it may be an impt. relationship also.How can one stop a man to be so egoed nature?

2007-09-03 03:53:07 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

She says she will not change it because my x wife has not changed her name yet, am I ridiculous for feeling bad about this?

2007-09-03 03:51:04 · 20 answers · asked by Charlie2006 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We want all of the people who are really special to us at our wedding, of course. As we've been creating our guest list, we've been getting into, "well if we invite so and so then we have to invite so and so...." and we're up to 200 people. We'd like to cut our list back some, maybe to 150 or so. There are friends who we're closer to than some family, but a lot of family have to stay on the list. I can't just cut out a few people from my family and invite the rest. Should we just fork over the extra cash to have the extra guests and spare their feelings??
Please help...

2007-09-03 03:44:20 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

K I'm 15 and work at a fast food place. I know this is a stupid question but, who else am I gonna ask? Best answer gets 5 stars so please just tell me ->something<-. I noticed the following about her:
-when we first met, she didn't talk much or look at me much. Kind of shy. But then she started talking a bit more the second time.
-She doesn't allways smile when I talk to her, but she does seem slightly nervous. Can't tell if it's my imagination.
-Sometimes she just has to come in to get something, and usually she comes up to me and asks me something random like "was it busy" or something. Either that or she just looks at me a couple of times and looks kind of akward.
-Her eyes move around alot when she talks to me, but she also looks at me alot too when I'm talking to her.
-Thing is, I've seen her being friendly with other girls there, just not many guys.
-I told her she was "really cute" and she freaked out.
-Today I thought I heard her say "where's Mike?"
-She wore make-up the first day in a while that I was working the same shift thingy as her. Maybe it's just coincidence, but haven't really seen her wear make up before.

2007-09-03 03:38:51 · 1 answers · asked by Mike P 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-03 03:32:56 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how can i tell relatives that want me to go on a singles cruise or i can afford an apartment no. i live in the katrina zone where living has shot up dramatically. they say go on a singles cruise or you can afford an apartment but i make 9.25/hr and i dont think so but they say yes i can. any comments would be helpful

2007-09-03 03:32:14 · 3 answers · asked by Madmen22 1 in Singles & Dating

Also, we have already had the electricity cut off once and it is due to be cut off again if the bill is not paid. Yet they blow and go like there is no tomorrow! I don't think my daughter knows the seriousness of the situation, but I don't know if I should tell her or mind my own business.

2007-09-03 03:02:52 · 12 answers · asked by Gasbag 6 in Family

at this time now i am thinkin of ways to get outta work, now i'm actually that bored that i'm startin to fall asleep.

what a way to go eh....

If this is my job and it pays the bills and earn good money... why am i still here if i hate it. becoz of the cash, but i don't worry about cash, so why do it?

i'll never know, if this doesn't make sense, it's becoz i'm going to sleep and nearly brain dead sittin at my desk

2007-09-03 03:00:49 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I've always heard people give advice of, oh chemistry fades, you should never marry someone just for sex. Well what if sex is really just that important to the people. People marry for all sorts of reasons, esp these days. Love, Money, children, convenience, etc. What is so wrong with marrying someone who you have great sex with?

2007-09-03 02:59:37 · 20 answers · asked by gally g 1 in Marriage & Divorce

&& since that moment i have never been the same. this burden on my heart feels like tons of bricks crushing my soul into feelings that dont matter to anyone else. && all i can do is sit back and let this disaster take place and crush my entire life into billions of tiny peices that will never be bandaged up by that fake smile again.

&&Each tear that escapes from my eyes is a constant reminder that until that last tear drops, this pain will endure forever. Into eternity my heart will constantly burn, desperately trying to heal itself into a reckless torture of passion.

&& in the deepest parts of the night I wish this despair wouldnt hurt so damn much. If god would answer a single one of my prayers, I would go back in time to the moment our lips first met. Because in that single moment I had a reasurance that everything I ever wanted was right before me. It was as if no one else existed and that me and you were standing on a cloud, embracing eachother as if we will never embrace another soul again..

&& we both knew that in that very moment, that there was no one else that would never feel as right as this. No one else that would ever bare the embrace of this love, no one else that should ever touch these lips. I would stay in this moment forever. For this moment was true happiness that I haven't felt since. And i rather stay in that one moment with you forever, then live the rest of my life with a shattered heart.

&& until God answers my prayers, I will patiently wait with this thirsting heart. Because I know that the feelings awaiting me are worth the pain and sorrow. And right now my heart may be exploding with confusion and torture, but I keep my eyes focused on that one moment when we will be standing on that cloud again, embracing eachother as if it was our last will on earth..

2007-09-03 02:54:51 · 1 answers · asked by Tina 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend has an 8 yo daughter and has been completely involved in her life since birth. He has moved to 2 different states just trying to stay near her (ex is in military). His ex recently got married and he heard his daughter call the new husband "daddy" and was very hurt by this. He confronted the ex and she basically told him that she was not going to stop his daughter from calling the new husband that. The new husband had never even met her kids until after they were married (lets you know how much this woman is just concerned about herself and not her kids) and when his daughter did meet the new husband he was only around her one week before he had to go back overseas and she was already calling him daddy. Should this be happening? Is there any legal action that can be used to stop this? This is totally outrageous to me! He is very bothered by this doesn't want his daughter caught in the middle but on the other hand is this fair to him when he has been there since day one.

2007-09-03 02:53:39 · 22 answers · asked by arwen0775 1 in Marriage & Divorce

he txts me all the time and says stuff like nighty night before i go to sleep and he is always making me laugh and also he is my best friend but hes always so flirtish wut does this mean?

2007-09-03 02:50:28 · 8 answers · asked by nat 3 in Singles & Dating

what should i do, please guide me.

2007-09-03 02:46:52 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

what part of the body do you must liked 2 be caressed for the warm up to the embrace

2007-09-03 02:45:38 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I would like to clarify at the start that I have no negative feelings for her or anyone who dutifully adores or adored her, some even spent a night waiting in the queue to attend her memorial service. I can't understand why?
What has been her contribution to the world, let alone the UK, to deserve this adulation? Am I missing something? I only know her from the photos taken of her sitting at the bed side of dying Aids stricken African kids. I know of many other ladies who have done more for their society or family than Diana and no one cares about them.
Ok she had a bad marriage, bitter public divorce and very tragic death, even my Mum and many other Indians cried watching the news. I know of a single mom who has 3 boys from 3 different fathers of 3 different races, she has 2 jobs and she helps her kids with studies and is fully involved in their lives. So do you think Diana has done better than this lady or any one else that you know of?
Please give a short explanation.
Thanx

2007-09-03 02:45:20 · 18 answers · asked by ZZZZZZZZ 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My ex & I have joint custody & he has been paying me $350 a month. In June, my son approached me to me that he wanted to go & live with his dad & got to school there. He assured me that it was nothing that I did or didn't do - just that he wanted to spend more time with his dad & wanted to go to school there. The problem is that I was under this mistaken assumption that all I would have to do is give up the $350 that he had been paying me. That moeny had been going towards house payment that he left me with along with other expenses involved with our son. Now the ex is stating that I should be paying him. I look at my bills & right now I am scraping by without the $350 that he had been paying me and I don't see how I could come up with anything significant to pay him. The only thing that seems left for me to do is sell the house - but then how long will that take me with the economy the way that it is-what about the child support that he is expecting me to pay before it sells??

2007-09-03 02:35:50 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I left my husband in January of this year.I left because he is a alcoholic and I couldn't let my kids live that life anymore.When I left we agreed that I was leaving for him to change,and to sober up because he said he could not do it with me in the house.I left with no intentions of divorcing him.I just found out that he has been with this other girl,and now she is pregnant.He has totally ruined my life.I was wondering when I file for divorce can I hold it against him that he got another girl pregant while we were still legally married but seperated?He gives me $100 a week for 2 kids,and rarely calls them.Everything is left up to me.I still can't believe this is hapening to me.

2007-09-03 02:35:49 · 35 answers · asked by lvbrdy4vr 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-03 02:30:15 · 2 answers · asked by goardo5 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-03 02:28:18 · 16 answers · asked by goardo5 2 in Singles & Dating

I own a house in my name only. My wife and I own our own house outright. In the house that I own lives my step-daughter, her husband and 2 kids. My step daughter wants to buy the house. The house is valued between £105-115k. My asking price was £95k because they have lived in the house, paying a rent that covered the mortgage, for 7 years. I bought the house for £37k. They can only afford a mortgage of £75k, which is 3.5xhis salary.should I tell them they can have the house for £75k or should I stick to my £95k? There are other children and step children in the family. Should they be consulted as to the decision to sell or not to sell? HELP!

2007-09-03 02:27:08 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family