Family & Relationships - 3 September 2007

2007-09-03 05:01:50 · 1 answers · asked by tare o 1 in Singles & Dating

He is married, I am divorced, we both realize we can't be more than friends. He said he is my friend for life and even if he got a new job, he'd still meet for coffee and stay in contact because true friendship lasts forever no matter the circumstance. I don't understand why he is suddenly saying it has to be a work friendship. In the past when he gets really busy he has blown me off, but then a week or two goes by and everything is cool again. Wondering if this is just a repeat of past events and he'll still be my good friend despite what he said in a not so nice manner the other day... I never even did anything wrong!!

2007-09-03 05:00:44 · 9 answers · asked by blondie 1 in Friends

My boyfriends family picks his child up from school everyday, he then takes him home to feed and bathe him when he finishes work. He then drops him off to the mum. Between him and his family they pay for the food and clothes. And she is now asking for csa because ive moved in. We can just about to afford to likve now let alone having another outgoing.

Where do we stand?

2007-09-03 04:57:50 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

he keeps asking me who has phoned me and am i seeing someone else. and i give him the same answer evry time, like NO-ONE has phoned me, and i am NOT seeing someone else. why does he need to ask me the same question over and over again and how do i stop this illogical behaviour?

2007-09-03 04:57:16 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She's a real girly girl. She likes The Jonas Brothers,shopping,taking pictures, going to the nail salon,dancing,baking, ect. She has an ipod and a cell phone already. She loves the tv show Friends on TBS. But I don't want to give her a gift card or money though. She's not really into playing video games or being outside too much.

2007-09-03 04:55:07 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I've been going out with my boyfriend for just over a month and were have been going great, i was spose to go out with him on sunday but he didnt reply to my texts and he hasn't phoned or texted me since, should i call or text him??

2007-09-03 04:53:01 · 20 answers · asked by Lauren K 1 in Singles & Dating

I am nearly 27 and am still a virgin and I wonder what it actually feels like to have sex with someone. Please help me by either answering on here or you can email me at stardu5t7@yahoo.co.uk.thanks

2007-09-03 04:49:34 · 18 answers · asked by stardu5t7 3 in Singles & Dating

OK Im from the north and my bf is from the south and his sister tells him to break up with me becuz she says all northerners are contaminated with STDS.. wtf.. she keeps going on calling me a yankee... wtf im from the WEST not Newyork.. Why is she doing this..?

2007-09-03 04:48:41 · 18 answers · asked by omg rain is wet 2 in Family

What does it mean?

2007-09-03 04:46:00 · 8 answers · asked by Jodie 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I asked my bf why his mom and his dad divorced. He said it was because of the fact that his dad cheated on his mom. I have noticed the same behavior in my bf. I dont know if he has actually cheated or not BUT the tendencies are there. Do you know what I am saying? Meaning I will catch him trying to cheat BUT not actually getting the job done. So, my question is, is my bf this way because his father was? I mean I have never heard of something such as cheating being hereditary.

2007-09-03 04:45:28 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Has the person having a child been the reason for you not getting in that relationship? & why

2007-09-03 04:45:09 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He say its over , that things would never work between us and that he doesnt love me anymore but he comes back a few months or even a year later..it has happened to me with almost all the guys ive been with, they have also come back and proved in many ways that they really want to give it another try n that he would do anythin to make it work. R all men like that??? N why do they do it?

2007-09-03 04:44:33 · 10 answers · asked by miss confused 1 in Singles & Dating

am i a lesbian? or am i denying that im one? im 18 already and it is still hard for me to find a guy to like but it's easy for me to fall for a girl. im confused.....

2007-09-03 04:43:23 · 7 answers · asked by relax_chill3005 1 in Friends

what looks attracts you?

2007-09-03 04:42:11 · 4 answers · asked by Julia 2 in Singles & Dating

isnt secondary uniform expensive its cost me 200ish pounds !

2007-09-03 04:41:59 · 29 answers · asked by suzie 3 in Family

2007-09-03 04:40:54 · 16 answers · asked by calliegirl93 1 in Singles & Dating

I live in south african any girlfriend is british we have been together for 2years 11months i went over on a 2 year working visa i met her in my last year but was not living with her iv been back to stay with her 3 months she have come to me and iv gone back to her so forth.i would like to stay with her and not have to come back she is 19 im 23 we love each other more than anything .is there any thing we can do the only proof we have of us been together is the airport checks us out befor letting me in dose any one know if i have a chance ?

2007-09-03 04:40:32 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met this girl about 9 years ago and she strongly believes we are distant relatives, I feel it's possible. Now here's the thing, we were among some people and I introduced her as my friend. She said, "no I'm not, I'm your cousin". I said to the people, "we are distant cousins"..because I didn't want it to seem like we were first cousins or soemthing because we are not. But, I feel more comfortable introducing her as "friend" and then when I get to know the person better, tell them our family connection. Anyways, she became really upset I didn't introduced her as cousin. I brought it up and apologized to her. However, I felt she was being a bit too sensitive and I felt embarrased when she stormed away and said to my friend that she was upset I called her "friend" instead of cousin, instead of privately coming to me. What do you guys thnk about this?

2007-09-03 04:39:04 · 7 answers · asked by califonialove 1 in Friends

i cant stop thinking that someone is trying to snatch all my happiness from me .........someone is playing rude game with me????
in my life.....some shocking incidents have taken place which forced me to think that........but every one told that i have an illusion..........am i mentally sick??
AM I MAD?

2007-09-03 04:38:30 · 1 answers · asked by blue_eyes_girl . 1 in Singles & Dating

He ran away into their yard, while they were having a swimming pool party. They started screaming and running away, and he thought it was a game, and happily chased them. He chased three guests into the swimming pool in evening wear (I think it was stupid of them dress up in evening wear for a swimming pool party anyway), and the neighbours do not speak to me anymore.
And it was not his fault. He just wanted to be more fit, and exercise more, and run large distances. Then, if they did not start running away, he'd never followed.
He just wanted to be friendly, and to cheer them all up. He is very sociable. He likes swimming pool parties, and meeting new people.
What is their problem?

2007-09-03 04:38:24 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

like you are trying your best to be friendly but no matter how hard you try all your efforts amount to nothing, nada, zilch!

2007-09-03 04:37:55 · 17 answers · asked by Jimmy Sarno 1 in Friends

It’s hard to find the right words,
To say what is in my heart

I don’t know where the end will lead,
But you are in the start

It all started when I saw you,
My heart it beat so fast

I knew deep down inside my soul,
That joyous moment it would last

Getting to know you only increased,
My hearts feelings of love

On a gloomy day of despair,
You shine like a morning dove

Your beauty is like a rose,
The second it begins to bloom

Your smile is luminescent,
Lighting up the darkest room

Your eyes are like stars,
Picked right from the night

They are like diamonds,
Shining O’ so bright

But the brightest thing about you,
It’s your personality

It is like my heart is a locked door,
And you are the key

And every time you laugh,
I swear an angel plays a note

The stunning sound which comes off that harp,
Cannot even be wrote

And now that you know my secret,
I am really beggin’

Would you like to spend some time with me?
I really love you, Megan

2007-09-03 04:37:42 · 17 answers · asked by Helloguy 1 in Singles & Dating

OK, why do people who loved eachother, when the relationship fails, need to walk away entirely, hate eachother, and cut all ties.

this excludes the initial seperatio, non-communication period after the relationship to heal.

If you loved eachother, there was a reason, compatability etc. Why not rebuild as friends, or at least acknowledge eachother?

It just doesn't make sense to me to throw away people whom you know so well and would make great friends. What are the reasons....is it just easier....most relationships fail eventually, why not continue to get something from them?

2007-09-03 04:37:22 · 8 answers · asked by someguy_in_halifax 3 in Singles & Dating

this friend is really down to eatrh but her and my other friends don't get allong very well and some of them talk bad about the others and i am trying to stay out of it but they drag me into it help me

2007-09-03 04:35:54 · 2 answers · asked by K.burke 3 in Friends

Were you close to your sisters in sharing "chats-to-chats" regarding your TRUE feelings about most anything?

2007-09-03 04:35:45 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i love my brother but he just had a son that in my opinion does not remotely look like him or any of us......his girlfriend is a druguser and so is he.....i want to confront them but ifeel it is not right to ask......but the thought keeps eating at me..what should i do ?

2007-09-03 04:34:02 · 10 answers · asked by Ray 2 in Family

she is really inoying most of the time but some times she is down to earth what do i say to her to calm her down

2007-09-03 04:32:43 · 5 answers · asked by K.burke 3 in Friends

How often do online love affairs workout in real life?

2007-09-03 04:31:47 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When a man and a woman get married, there should be a law on the books that says that each one of them needs to have an escrow account with $10,000 dollars for each of them, established in the bank before they can tie the knot. For the first ten years of marriage, the state government should be in charge of those accounts, and if the couple wants a divorce, they can have all the money back except for whatever number of years they didn't stay married.

For example: a couple who only stays married two years will get a rebate of $2000 dollars, three years - $3000 and so on. Whatever the balance is, the state should get to keep it and use it for school and road improvements, etc.

A couple who makes it past the ten-year mark should be rewarded, and the state should match their account dollar-for-dollar so that they get back $20,000 each. That's $40,000 for the kids' college fund, a new house, whatever they want.

Any couple who divorces in less than a year should lose it all.

2007-09-03 04:31:32 · 18 answers · asked by dreamchaser8860 6 in Marriage & Divorce

are they looking at my breast.I notice that women look at their breast whenever a man is looking at them

2007-09-03 04:28:49 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating