he keeps asking me who has phoned me and am i seeing someone else. and i give him the same answer evry time, like NO-ONE has phoned me, and i am NOT seeing someone else. why does he need to ask me the same question over and over again and how do i stop this illogical behaviour?
2007-09-03 04:57:16 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do like I do ..... tell him to shut up
2007-09-03 05:03:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The second time he asks remind him you already answered that question...after that, simply quit answering. If he presses the issue have a talk with him about trust and that if he doesn't trust you then perhaps you two should part ways. Otherwise, he needs to stop asking for reassurance every little while that you are being faithful.
2007-09-03 12:05:41 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriends behavior, is a manifestation of his insecurity. He needs your reassurance, and affection. You need to communicate to him; he is primary in you life. However, I am not excusing his behavior. Rather than chastise him directly, you may comment on similar behavior, in a third party. He will get the message, without being offended.
2007-09-05 07:17:24 · answer #3 · answered by Larry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust is the most important thing in a relationship besides....love if he doesnt trust you than the relationship wont work....tell him he has to trust you and if he still doesnt trust you break up with him....
2007-09-03 12:06:19 · answer #4 · answered by G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him if he has a guilty conscience & who he is seeing on the side...tell him that if he keeps it up U will find sum1else 2 kick w/ that is not insecure...it is a control thing....
2007-09-03 12:37:04 · answer #5 · answered by katwaxr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋