Family & Relationships - 2 September 2007

2007-09-02 23:43:29 · 4 answers · asked by janifer d 1 in Marriage & Divorce

iam 16 years old and i have sex with my mothers best friend..... she is 36 years old and she told not to say anything and keep f**k her ...... i like it so much .... but he is married with 2 children and her son is a friend of mine....... should i keep doing this ????????
thanku very much

2007-09-02 23:42:06 · 11 answers · asked by angus young 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm gonna be 20 next year & I still haven't had a girlfriend, still a virgin(obviously), prostitutes don't count for me so don't even go there. I'm a college sophmore already, am I one of very few people like this?, should I just kill myself since I'm never gonna get a girlfriend?, I feel I missed out on too much fun already, I sometimes don't see the point of having a girlfriend now since I didn't have one earlier, how many people do you know out there 20 or older & have never had a boyfriend/girlfriend?, all I've done is kiss a girl, like tongue to tongue, which was through truth or dare. I've never asked a girl out before & I don't bother because I know girls will flat-out reject me, I don't bother asking for girls numbers because I know they will say "I have a boyfriend, blah blah blah", which pisses me off because that shows I wasted my breath talking to them. As for the suicide part, I take Anti-Depressants & I already have a Psychologist, anyway, I feel worthless & pathetic

2007-09-02 23:41:01 · 26 answers · asked by introvertedguy06 6 in Singles & Dating

do you wait for her or seek it else where in the meantime?

2007-09-02 23:37:56 · 13 answers · asked by Queen 3 in Singles & Dating

Crap! I just let a guy use me and totally fell into a trap. This all happend like in August..I liked this guy that was taken and I know him real well but so anyway one night, we both happend to be up really late(we live in the same neighborhood) and I was outside listening to music while he drove by in his pickup, but saw me and pulled over right out front my house. We talked for a while and then he asked me if I wanted to come over to his house, I told him yeah sure. So when I went over there he said u wanna watch a movie? I said ok, so we both were just sitting on his bed about to watch a movie. Then he turns off the lights and gets close to me. And eventually we fooled around but didnt have sex. I feel horrible that I let it go that far. What should I do now? It was my first experience with a guy but now I regret it. And I also feel like I just gave him a freakin ego boost! Is there a possible way to make myself feel better?

2007-09-02 23:22:49 · 15 answers · asked by *Livin the life* 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay So I'm going out with this guy and like we REALLY like eachother. The only thing is, I haven't known him too long and it feels weird (cuhz i'm not a slut like some people) I've known him since february [[ its september now ]] and it doesnt feel like a long time cuhz i dont see him that much. He asked me out I'd say on May 5th I think and uh...I said yes...no duh. I just can't say I love him though. He's the nicest guy in the world and treats me like a princess but I juss don't feel the click. I dont want you to answer like "OH DUMP HIM" cuhz thats what everyone says and if you really think thats the true answer can you tell me why...please help im desperate

2007-09-02 23:18:35 · 12 answers · asked by ? 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My uncle is getting married for the 2nd time to his girlfriend of 10 years, (bit of background for more info) we are a small family (only him and my mum and i'm one of four cousins) we xmas together every year and get together for birthdays etc.

Anyway the dilemma, hes getting married in a registry office and I have received the invite with only my name on it (not my boyf of 2 years whom I live with) so I rang up my unc to ask if it was ok for him to come and he said no, partners were not invited as was a small occasion (the only thing i'm the only cousin with a partner and feel that I am being singled out and I feel really mean leaving him out of a family event when he is a huge part of my life)

What would you do?!!?

2007-09-02 23:12:04 · 28 answers · asked by Katie 5 in Weddings

yes i havent met his family yet BUT
i have met his sister and we are on good terms and then the only one left i havent met is his dad who is apparently a alcoholic so perhaps hes ashamed or something and thats why?
his mother and other sister do not live in this country so i understand why there also and do you think the fact hes indain might count for something?

2007-09-02 23:10:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok lets say that u dated a girl, weren't together for a long time but broke up on good terms and stayed "friends with benefits". Neither u or her really like commitment u would rather just mess around and have fun. What would make u all of a sudden change ur mind and want to get back together with her?

2007-09-02 23:10:33 · 21 answers · asked by Kristy 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-02 22:58:06 · 12 answers · asked by mobarik morsa 1 in Singles & Dating

It seems to be commonly thought that guys are not completely honest with girls if they feel they must end a relationship. Is it true? If so, other than supposedly trying not to hurt our feelings, (mind you, nothing could be worse than breaking our hearts ) why can't you just tell it like it is??

2007-09-02 22:54:54 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this always confuses me

does this turn u on?

2007-09-02 22:49:30 · 8 answers · asked by sushigal818 1 in Singles & Dating

Guys, is the following true?

--Guys hate sluts even though they have sex with them!

--Guys may be flirting around all day but before they go to sleep, they always think about the girl they truly care about.

--Guys will do anything just to get you to notice him.

--Don't talk about your guy friends to your boyfriend.

--Guys get jealous easily.

--Guys are good flatterers when courting but they usually stammer when they talk to a girl they really like.

--Guys are very open about themselves.

--A usual act that proves that the guy likes you is when he teases you.

--Guys will brag about anything.

--Guys use words like hot or cute to describe girls. We rarely use beautiful. If a guy uses that, he likes you a whole hell of a lot.

--No matter how much guys talk about asses and boobs, personality is key.

--Guys worry about the thin line between being compassionate and being whipped.

--Guys seek for advice from girls not other guys. Because most guys think alike, so if one guy's confused, then we're all confused.

--If the guy does something stupid in front of the girl, he will think about it for the next couple days or until the next time he spends time with the girl.

--If a guy looks unusually calm and laid back, he's probably faking it and is spazzing inside.

--If a guy starts to talk seriously, listen to him. It doesn't happen that often, so when it does, you know something's up.

--If a best guy friend seems to avoid you or is never around when you're with your boyfriend, he's probably jealous and likes you.

--When a guy looks at you for longer than a second, he's definitely thinking something.

--Guys like femininity not feebleness.

--Everything in moderation. Put on makeup, wear perfume. Just not too much.

--If you are going to reject a guy, just do it. Don't say they are like a brother or just good friends, it just hurts even more. Tell them that you aren't interested in a relationship and they will respect you.

--A guy would give his left nut to be able to read a girl's mind for a day.

--Not all guys are assholes. Just because ONE is a jackass doesnt mean he represents ALL of us.

--We don't like girls who are too skinny.

--We love it when girls talk about there boobs.

--When a guy hits your butt it means that he wants you sexually

--Guys love neck rubs and if he lets you keep doing it ..it means that he really likes you or his neck really hurts...

--When a guy sacrifices his sleep and health just to be with you, he really likes you and wants to be with you as much as possible.

2007-09-02 22:37:49 · 13 answers · asked by Mintygoodness1 4 in Singles & Dating

I'm 23, fiance is 24. This past summer I have been going out more (I need to socialize more since my best friends ditched me).. and he hates it. If I go out with my other friends, the "silent treatment" when I get home is worse than when I go out with him and his friends.

It's like I can only drink when it is convenient with him, never if I decide to drink on my own and with some friends. Tonight he said my "drinking is splitting us apart"..wtf? I NEVER get drunk.. and I only have a few beers to get "tipsy" and that's it.

It's odd though because last night I thought the same thing. If I weren't with him.. I could drink in moderation and not care about what he thinks. In reality, I could move back in w/mom.. finish school.. save more $ and have a healthier diet.. as well as just living with my dogs (that don't $hit and pi$$ everywhere like his dogs).

I'm just so mad everything. What do you think our problem is? Is it my drinking or his insecurities?

2007-09-02 22:34:17 · 25 answers · asked by PlasticTrees 2 in Weddings

I have been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years now, and have been living together for 2 of them. We even bought a condo and a cat together. Whenever I ask him if we're going to get married, he says yes someday, but implies that someday won't be any day soon. He did take me to look at rings a couple months ago which made me think it would happen soon, but then nothing happened. He told me today that "it's nothing personal," but he "just doesn't care about marriage" the way I do. He claims that marriage is just a contract and that we basically already are married. What should I think of this? We're in our 20s, with no previous bad experiences with exes.

I guess what I'm asking is this: is he going to propose to me someday soon, or am I supposed to be his girlfriend my whole life? Should I be offended that he only thinks of marriage as a contract?

2007-09-02 22:11:04 · 17 answers · asked by Browneyed Girl 2 in Weddings

WHO THINKS MUSTANGS ARE REALLY UGLY AND OLD AND THAT PEOPLE SHOULD GET OVER THEM?!
I HATE THEM WITH A PASSION!!!

=) well?!

2007-09-02 22:02:40 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

And when she saw me standing there after 15 min. She wasnt even shocked. Concerned....

2007-09-02 21:59:47 · 40 answers · asked by MaRiAh D 3 in Friends

2007-09-02 21:59:24 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-09-02 21:57:33 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 39 going grey and still single. Girls say i am cute so why am i still single and cant find love? All my friends are married or getting married, they all say they are happy, i am the only one now who cant find love. It is depressing me, feel so lonley and fed up now. Its natural to love someone so why cant i find someone to love? IS 39 too old to find someone now? will girls be put off by my grey hair??

2007-09-02 21:57:04 · 20 answers · asked by sean O 1 in Singles & Dating

Can he get his first marraige dissolved and get his second marraige a valid status. Then please let me know how fast can he get his first marriage dissolved and also the rights of the child born out of second marriage.

2007-09-02 21:56:50 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ive been paranoid that something is going on between my partner and a lady who works in our building for several months now.She calls him on his mobile and acts flirty with him and I was suspicious that when im not a at work they have lunch toegther and he encourages her, but he assured my that it was all one sisded. Last week i found that he had set up an email address for her and had been emailing her. Parts of the emails were sexual and very flirty and proved that he was communicating with her when he told me it was all in my head.
I dont think anything physical has happened between them because he never goes anywhere and we are trying to work through this but i feel so hurt and decieved that I dont know if i can be with him.

2007-09-02 21:55:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-02 21:51:19 · 33 answers · asked by Faith Walker 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I am a 19 year old male, from the Uk. I have a previous history of bad relationships, with women leaving me for other guys.
My family came to visit me with a friend, and after just a few days we started to fall in love (the friend of family). She and my family stayed in England for 3 weeks, and the girl said she loved me. Then when they left my heart was broken, So i decided to visit my family and girlfriend in Norway 4 3 months(crazy I know :). But the girl was begging me to come and stay with her. So I got to Norway, and spent only 4 days with her, and then she had a party and ignored me all night, so i confronted her about it, and she was angry that i was angry. Then she said she didnt think she could be in relationship and wanted to be alone. But when i left she said she thinks she also has feelings for another guy. My heart is broken, and I would do anything to have her back, We are just going to be friends for now....but I need to figure out a plan to get her back. Please help?

2007-09-02 21:50:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm involved with two men and I feel insecure about them both. The first is my husband of 5 years who I love and he loves me but he never pays me enough attention and always puts everyone before me I feel, also he doesn't earn enough and my money supports us most of the time. I feel like hanging around and waiting to see what will change with his career as he just earned a diploma in engineering and so has yet to go further in that field but I'm also scared I'll end up supporting the two of us for the rest of our lives. Is this wrong? The second guy is a 60 year old man who I just met and I suppose I don't really know as much but he wants to lavish me with gifts and is taking me away on a surpise weekend and always pays me attention and seems to worship the ground I walk on. But he says he hates older women and is with young women because they make him feel exciting...so I'm thinking what happens to me when I get a little bit older even though he promises that he will treat me right?

2007-09-02 21:49:25 · 19 answers · asked by snewell2222 1 in Singles & Dating

I have recently formed a strong relationship with a potato who sits next to me on my computer desk.
The thing is I am running out of things to say to trevor (the potato)
Any good conversation topics for me please?
I have exhausted fields, food and potato diseases but he doesnt seem interested in anything else

2007-09-02 21:48:10 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

been together about 3 months. we spend a lot of time together. he is scared that i will leave him. but i dont think i can give him any committment. but he is pressurising me to give him reassurance

2007-09-02 21:45:33 · 13 answers · asked by jay dee 1 in Singles & Dating

Why do you think you're still single? What is it about you or your lifestyle that may be keeping you from meeting 'the one'?

2007-09-02 21:45:32 · 3 answers · asked by nikkismiles7 2 in Singles & Dating

Do you accept it and live without it and be unhappy in that area? Do you cheat? Do you go gay? I have high sex drive and she doesnt anymore, she used to but now very little. She doesn't even express it with touching or kissing. It seems like I'm a roommate lately with some benefits. I still love her and everything else is great but cant take the no sex / affection. And no there is not a thought or need for a divorce

2007-09-02 21:44:39 · 16 answers · asked by Rammer 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

What would you call someone or rather two people who have no feelings for each other. Or rather say they have no feelings for each other but yet they suck on each others lips, and ear lubes, bite each others lips and nose, spit in each others mouths, and lick each others tongues? And they also cuddle, and interwine there legs and arms while talking, and put their lips over and one breathes in while the other breaths out... It's like they don't realize they are kissing but they are. And they ALWAYS hang out together. That's what couples do right? Is there such a term called for this kind of behaviour? Cause I'm freaking out here. Who does that but a couple? Right?

2007-09-02 21:38:44 · 6 answers · asked by thefearlesstraveler 1 in Other - Family & Relationships