Family & Relationships - 2 September 2007

I'll be providing a meal option card with my invites, and was going to send only the healthy options to the bigger people. This way they do something healthy for themselves at my wedding, and the rest of us don't have to watch them suck down pork loins.

2007-09-02 17:25:18 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

thats the question

2007-09-02 17:24:01 · 9 answers · asked by chewyshewy 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I recently left my husband of 7 years because I heard him talking intimately to another woman over his phone. He claims that they have only been flirting but won't let me talk to her. I just think that if he was innocent he would do anything to regain my trust, but he is still being very secretive. We have a 6 year old son together, and I just don't want to be making the biggest mistake of our lives. Should I call her? Please help.

2007-09-02 17:23:55 · 27 answers · asked by Monique 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband used to beat me. He stopped doing that one year ago, when I decided to tell my dad what he was doing to me. Now we are moving further away from my family, and they keep saying he might do that again... Should I be scared?

2007-09-02 17:23:08 · 12 answers · asked by LLN Babe 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Hi, everyone. It's been six months and I feel better, but I'm just really not ready to date anyone. I don't feel that my $hit is together yet, and I'm OK by myself for now. My friends think I should be dating whether I like it or not. What do you think? I'm not one to lead someone on or use anyone. My friends say that I should tell whatever lies I must. Apparrently, there's a 'mental barrier' that I must vault before my life can be normal again. Should I date just to date? It seems hollow to me.

2007-09-02 17:17:22 · 3 answers · asked by aquaman2964 3 in Singles & Dating

My wife seems to have put on some weight rather rapidly over the last few months (maybe +20 lbs) and it really kind of worries me. I know any kind of rapid weight change, up or down, is not good. I also know for sure there's almost no polite way to tell a woman she's getting big, learned that the hard way. Not sure what to do about this. She seems healthy enough otherwise. I just don't know how to tell her I'm concerned. I would greatly appreciate some incite with this. Thanks.

2007-09-02 17:11:09 · 22 answers · asked by Nathan M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

33 years old and my wife is 35. No kids and not interested. Married 4 years in November, been together/cohabitating for closer to 10. I've been struggling of thoughts that we are in a marriage of convenience. Sex life is virtually nonexistent, and not for lack of my trying. I am a very caring and attentive lover and ensure she is blessed with an orgasm during each intimate encounter. I have not cheated, but based on the quality of life I am living as a man that status is subject to change.
Many things have changed since we got married. I was always fat, hitting rock bottom on our wedding day. I've went from 6'0 260lbs to 175lbs and am in the best shape of my life. She is 5'5 185 and has opted not to improve herself since we got married, although she has all the tools to do so including my support. I think we got married for wrong reasons. I get looks/vibes from women now I never have before. It's not fair to trade my future happiness for the "sanctity" of marriage.

2007-09-02 17:09:15 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

like how can i make you and all of your friends want me?
but then make everyone know that i want you then make them jealous and think you're the man?

2007-09-02 17:07:59 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Every since I had my son, everyone has been coming out of their mouth telling me what I should do and how I should do things. But what really pisses me off is these were the exact people who were telling me not to have my son, but now they think they know everything. They go out and blow money on him, but as soon as I get ready to buy him something in their words, "That's a waste don't buy that." And then everyone feels like they can take care of him better than me, when I take care of him, as soon as anyone comes around (especially MIL and Dad) they want him ASAP and if he cries they feel they can remedy it better than me. So I had enough and I went off on my dad today b/c as soon as my son started crying, he came running to take him from me saying, I've raised more kids than you. I repeatedly told him I could handle it, but he wouldn't back off, so I just straight out said NO and he went away saying well I was just trying to help.Was I too harsh?
More info below......

2007-09-02 17:01:19 · 18 answers · asked by jzmom327 2 in Family

Ok.
Im in the process of a divorce - we were married 7 years - and have a 6 1/2 year old son.
The reasons for the breakup were financial difficulties, poor communication - but mainly her infidelity.
For a while things were pretty bad between us - but I decided to just try to remain as civil as possible with her for the sake of our son. So far its been ok.
When I deal with her face to face - in regards to our son - I just get this very uncomfortable feeling inside me . She's friendly but very business-like, in terms of "ok this week you will have him, this is your share of the school expense for our son etc.. "
Its like she's become a completely different person. The fact that she cheated on me and lied about it - still really eats me up inside .
But I try my best to just let it go - to avoid an argument. Not easy.
I hate how her actions has destroyed our marriage - and denied our son a stable family unit.
Has anyone else felt the same way as I do?

2007-09-02 16:59:08 · 10 answers · asked by Cardinal64 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-02 16:59:02 · 10 answers · asked by sweetheart_27 1 in Marriage & Divorce

shes 3 years older than me..im courting her..she admits she likes me..just because of my age..she just want to be my friend..

2007-09-02 16:55:44 · 6 answers · asked by mr.8 1 in Singles & Dating

ANY HELP, how to take it to the next level

2007-09-02 16:54:49 · 53 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I've been seeing this girl for a couple of months now off and on. Things seemed like they are going great. I do like this girl a lot but now its becoming more of a pain to get a hold of her. It seems like she only gets in contact with me when I'm the last thing on her list. and lately she has been blowing me off too. so I'm not really sure wtf is going on. I guess I'm getting to a point where I'm about to say screw it and look somewhere else. I guess I'm asking should I stick it out with her or just say screw it?

2007-09-02 16:54:37 · 19 answers · asked by kmitchell1006 1 in Singles & Dating

i believe thet when our loved ones have left us.ther e were things not said and i am trying to find some one to HELP ME SAY GOOD BYE TO MY mom

2007-09-02 16:50:01 · 1 answers · asked by seendeelou@sbcglobal.net 1 in Singles & Dating

she has her own point off vew when it comes to age gap matters

2007-09-02 16:48:39 · 19 answers · asked by mr.8 1 in Singles & Dating

My baby's father acts like nothing doesn't matter to him at all. He is really caring. He likes to cuddle and kiss me, but he beats around the bush when ever we talk. I can tell he wants to say something to me, but he just doesn't know how to say it. He tries to come off as the hard type. He always told me he was hurt in this relationship in the past and he can't trust anyone now. I think that has something to do with it. How can I get him to be himself and say what he wants to me? Please no crazy answers...

2007-09-02 16:48:06 · 1 answers · asked by blackdiamond2425 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

9 years ago my husband and I got married. I was 17 he was 18. We couldn't afford rings so my mother-in-law bought us some cheap rings to wear at the wedding. For the past 2 years or so I have developed an allergy to my ring. I can't wear anything but 14 caret gold or better. I've told my husband that I would like to have a new wedding ring. Nothing expensive but something I can wear without my finger hurting. He is refusing to buy me one. It makes me mad because he never bought me one in the first place, he didn't even go to help pick them out. I picked out his and paid for it 9 years ago. But he thinks because he doesn't wear his ( due to his job ) that I shouldn't have one either. Am I being unfair by wanting one that I can wear or should I just not wear one?

2007-09-02 16:41:51 · 21 answers · asked by tenthriteen 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my Gf brok up with me two days ago cause i found out she was datin another guy and she had sex with him i cant let her go and when we met we were good friends and that was when we were happy...but i still want to be more than that with her and i cant im depressed please help i dotn know what to do (We Met on a Video Game World of Warcraft and im 13 She is 15 we had been dateing for a year)

2007-09-02 16:39:45 · 10 answers · asked by tym c 2 in Singles & Dating

He is always telling me how shy he is around
women and he can never talk to them.

Then why does he talk to me so much and
about everything going on in his life? Is it
because he does not see me as dating
potential?

All the girls he talks about are slender and
"hot" as he says and I am overweight, is that
it?

2007-09-02 16:34:19 · 2 answers · asked by Okay Hero 2 in Singles & Dating

How many white men wouldn't mind dating black women?

2007-09-02 16:23:47 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Will my boyfriend always act like a little boy. he is 23 and when he wants to clip his nails he's like mommy i got a hang nail. now i know my brother is still immature and he is 28 he cant put his socks on by himself. its just i dont want to marry a boy i want to marry a man. and dont get me wrong i love him very much.

2007-09-02 16:23:23 · 9 answers · asked by focus_e_us360 1 in Singles & Dating

Im not, but a lot of people i know are very upset it their bf looks up porn when he's h0rny.
Is this a bad thing?

2007-09-02 16:19:44 · 45 answers · asked by jeska102 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm a nice guy, what's wrong with that? I mean
I'm no gangsta, my father from what I hear
Used to be one, if I wanted to, could I inherit
That gene too? I get no ladies, I'm not Brad Pitt. I've been searching far and wide for the
Girl I'm from America, you know the women
Here are just evil, they like no one unless they
Can push them around, then when they can't
Do that, they won't let you in for no uncertain
Reasons, they no negotiate at all, I hate that.

They are constant headaches coming with that, how do I study women here in America,
I've just came from New Zealand, nobody
cares of course, I'm better being by myself
Because if I had to be in the presence of an
Supermodel, I would probably faint and no
Telling if I would ever get over it.

2007-09-02 16:17:26 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-02 16:11:28 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

it was so cute ,it also had diddley,diddley dumpskins ,your my sweety pie and the apple of my eye.i would love to send it for her birthday

2007-09-02 16:07:44 · 1 answers · asked by masie 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Im currently twenty years old, and I talked to my girlfriend what she thinks about marriage. She basically told me she wants to hold a full time job, and that getting pregnant is not something she wants to do. She is pursuing a law degree, and she says she wants to be the best lawyer, and if her husband can't understand that she might leave him. To be honest my jaw kind of fell down. I want exactly the opposite of what she is looking for. I do like women who can hold on their own financially, but I want a wife that also wants to have a child, raise that child with me, and not put work over family. My mom is a stay at home woman, and my dad is the one that supports the family. So, I haven't exactly seen my plan in action. Anybody have inputs about full time working women?

2007-09-02 16:04:34 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm Andrea Andrés from Buenos Aires, Argentina, I'm 40 years old and i'm a single mother.
My son call's Robert and he's 17 years old.
I want to be a this website member..... and to enjoing with all you.
Love and hugs
Andrea

2007-09-02 16:04:28 · 1 answers · asked by andrea a 1 in Friends

My husband and I will be celebrating our first wedding anniversary next weekend, and we're broke. Any cheap ideas????? Thanks for any help you can give =) God Bless!

2007-09-02 16:04:07 · 8 answers · asked by mandie 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-02 15:55:56 · 22 answers · asked by Page 4 in Marriage & Divorce