Family & Relationships - 2 September 2007

Someone told me if I drink (I'm 16) and pretend someone else gave it to me. . .that someone else will get in trouble and not me?? The beer belongs to this annoying guy I live with and he's an alcoholic who leaves the booze accessible to me. . .

2007-09-02 21:37:43 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

like why they always play with our feelings...is their heart a stone or what..always breaking girl's heart.!! and some can't get enought of one girlfriend they want two..DAMN!!

2007-09-02 21:37:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

do you still care for the girl in some way or what?

2007-09-02 21:35:43 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

do u trust step mom ? how do she behave , , because i dont know about the really moms love from my birth still my death

2007-09-02 21:35:41 · 5 answers · asked by sami w 1 in Family

This friend of mine whom i have told few days back that i m falling for her insists on keeping friendship. She says that she knew that i have something of that sort in my mind but she does not wanna lose a good friend thats why she never tried to avoid me. When ever i called her she responded very well. Though some times offended when i got little serious. Calls me whenever i need her for any help. and is a gem of a friend. But its being very tough for me to take her as just a friend. She had told me once that she does not want to have boy friend even though i had not proposed her that time. But i often end up venting up my feelings to her in some form or other as i m seeing her my future partner. My problem is that i never get a clear answer from myself what to do?
I never have any answer what exactly might be goin in her mind. How exactly to behave???
I m puzzled friends

2007-09-02 21:35:30 · 6 answers · asked by Aryan K 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-02 21:30:51 · 8 answers · asked by bhumi 2 in Friends

2007-09-02 21:28:35 · 10 answers · asked by MARIZ 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-02 21:27:45 · 15 answers · asked by lostworldforever 1 in Singles & Dating

Most of the times i just don't find enough to say to my friends on their birthday except to simply wish them......any ideas??

2007-09-02 21:24:24 · 2 answers · asked by codee 1 in Friends

i'm in this situation where we were close friends that fell hard for each other (decided not to rush) but alot of "life" things happened and he pushed me away and it hurt me. Rumors/assumptions, people's ideas got the best of us and the last we spoke, we misunderstood each other and we haven't talked in a month. I want to clarify things and reassure him and hope things are okay so i wrote him a letter. I felt that w. the letter, i had a good chance of putting it out there b/c if we were to talk we would get our emotions to get the best of us, esp. since we haven't talked/seen in each other in months...
i'm the type of girl that feels that if we need to talk about it, then we should...when both side are COMPLETLY okay about it, then it's good and we should NEVER BRING IT UP AGAIN...

I told him the truth in the letter but didn't blame him or give excuses - i told him, "you hurt me when..." and told him the truth that i cared about him...I read the letter again tonight and i found some "misunderstanding errors" so i felt i had to talk to him about it before something else happens...it's been about 3-4 days so i txted him tonight to say, "what's up" and he never responded back...is he done with me and doesn't wanna be friends anymore?

2007-09-02 21:22:31 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

why do women always complain about double standards? let's start by the biggest complaint of all...."why is it ok for men to sleep around but if we do it we are sluts? First of all and this goes for the guys out there... what ever girl you are with and asks that, get rid of her cause 100% she's a slut...cause she's already complaining about it...mad cause they can't do it...Is like two people working at the same job but the other gets pay more then the other...why would the other one complaint??? think about it.....WE MEN have the biggest double standards in the world and you dont hear us complaining about it...how about a high school male teacher sleeps with 15 year old and gets 25 to life and a FEMALE teacher sleeps with a 12 year old she be out in 6 months ....LETS not even get to the murder situation because any body that objects will lose...explainn that and stop complaining women you have it easy damnn

2007-09-02 21:21:45 · 10 answers · asked by sinning2472 1 in Singles & Dating

Lately i happened to gain a bit of weight and I felt conscious abt it coz my bf have been quite negative abt it. (I didn't say anything when he gained weight)...

i understand this thing called the relationship weight, where you are so happy in the relationship that you eat a lot. I am aware that i gained weight but the way he's saying it, makes me wonder a lot abt our relationship.

And i've already mentioned to him that his remarks hurt me. Is that how you define love? I am getting my body back, not for him, but for myself.

Isn't love abt accepting the other for who they are? I am petite, i love my curvy body and i'm only 50-ish kg.

2007-09-02 21:21:18 · 12 answers · asked by NOTurBFF!! 3 in Singles & Dating

Well, this year I would like to go out with a bang. This may be my last year at my school because I may be transferring to a new High School. I was wondering how can my friends and I become more popular this year? We are all thinking about trying out for cheerleading this year so we're going to see how that goes. I talk to some of the popular kids but not that major ones... It's not that I'm a loser or anything it's just that I want to be respected my last year here and I want to take all my friends with me :)

Any ideas and tips will help big timee..
Thanks! <3

2007-09-02 21:15:35 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Since my return from Seville where I've lived a little over 2 years, I've stayed at my old schoolmate's house in Ann Arbor, Michigan. I arrived here at the beginning of August.
My parents live in Troy Michigan, but I've not gone to see them, because when I left the States they were very angry with me for leaving. Since then we've had no correspondence with each other. When I left they felt betrayed I hadn't discussed it with them. You see, I was becoming stagnant, a zombie of some sort just existing, not living, not happy at all.
In Spain I've re-discovered an aliveness, I'd lost in Michigan. Now, this is the problem; I'd like to see my parents NOW, and seek peace with them, and show them how the move has made me a happy and very productive at what I do.
I'd like to just go "HOME", ring the bell, say hello, I've missed you, but I'm afraid I'll be rejected for having followed my own heart. Please, would you advice me what to do? Every day my heart feels heavier with sorrow!
Olivia
Thanx

2007-09-02 21:15:32 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Recently i lykd this guy nd we did "it" every1 found out nd now i get sh*t at school lyk everyday... Y don't they care? He just walks away nd doesnt talk to me anymore

2007-09-02 21:13:19 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

the guy keeps punching in and out of the girl continuosly, satisfies the guy or the girl??

2007-09-02 21:12:01 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

as i said i want to forget all my bad thigs what i did in the past because i hurted my parents very much and i want keep them happy so what do i do plz help me

2007-09-02 21:11:25 · 13 answers · asked by rajesh s 1 in Friends

such as decorations, invitations, food, music, clothing, and more please. Thank you. I want this to be remembered for as long as I live!!!! =)

2007-09-02 21:04:27 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my daughter has ADD and will not take any type of responsibility at all. it as if things said go in one ear and out the other. @ one time she was supposed to be on meds, but that couldn't even be gotten down her throat! she'd hide it or cheek it. any suggestions? i'm about at the end of my rope

2007-09-02 20:59:43 · 7 answers · asked by vicki m 2 in Family

Honestly, both of us already married, but one time, unexpectedly we met again, and he saying that he still loved me and he wants us to meet sometimes, i admit i still loved him too, but i decided not to communicate with him, i told him that is not good to us for us to still have communication even as friends communication, because i do believe and we cannot deny that we still love each other, but he told me we may communicate even as friends but i still decided not to get in touch with him, because im afraid to fall so much to him, do you think my decision was right? please help me guys out there, ur answer will really help me to decide..thanks and godbless..

2007-09-02 20:49:47 · 14 answers · asked by misscongeniality042000 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i'm in this situation where we were close friends that fell hard for each other (decided not to rush) but alot of "life" things happened and he pushed me away and it hurt me. Rumors/assumptions, people's ideas got the best of us and the last we spoke, we misunderstood each other and we haven't talked in a month. I want to clarify things and reassure him and hope things are okay so i wrote him a letter. I felt that w. the letter, i had a good chance of putting it out there b/c if we were to talk we would get our emotions to get the best of us, esp. since we haven't talked/seen in each other in months...
i'm the type of girl that feels that if we need to talk about it, then we should...when both side are COMPLETLY okay about it, then it's good and we should NEVER BRING IT UP AGAIN...

I told him the truth in the letter but didn't blame him or give excuses - i told him, "you hurt me when..." and told him the truth that i cared about him...I read the letter again tonight and i found some "misunderstanding errors" so i felt i had to talk to him about it before something else happens...it's been about 3-4 days so i txted him tonight to say, "what's up" and he never responded back...is he done with me and doesn't wanna be friends anymore?

2007-09-02 20:43:52 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

when i say "drugs" i mean prescriptions, alcohol, and illegal drugs.

if you have please list in order starting from the most enjoyable to the least ejnoyable.

the reason i would like to know the most enjoyable to the least is so that i can see which of those drugs seem to be the most popular and then research what part of the brain and neurotransmitter it effects.

thank you.

2007-09-02 20:27:39 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My Bf and I once talked about children. I asked if he even liked Kids, he said no, he never wants kids, but he has a feeling he would anyways. I want children,when im older but it dosent have to be with him. Im just saying is the reason why he doesn't want children is because he's afraid of what will happen to them, like they wont get along with there parents or because something happened to him very personally that he would never tell anyone about. Do you think someone did something to him, and there is a reason why he doesn't want children because he doesn't want that to happen to them?

2007-09-02 20:27:13 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-09-02 20:20:08 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-02 20:10:57 · 27 answers · asked by Rakas 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My in-laws want carte blanch on having my son spend the night. The problem is, no one tells ME until effing 10-11PM if that. I think my husband is going to get our son and he's spending the night. I told my husband how I feel and he just keep quiet. This is really making me mad because my mother in law also keeps her other grandson who she expects ME to baby sit one day. I don't want to do that. I want to keep MY OWN CHILDREN! Is there something wrong with me? Any suggestions? BTW, my son is only 18 months old!

2007-09-02 20:09:04 · 8 answers · asked by Sky Fire 2 in Marriage & Divorce

say, you are very sure a guy is into you. like looking at you alot, smiling when he talks, changing his bus route for you, holding doors etc.but you hardly get a chance to speak to him in person in class. and you see each other once a week.

you managed to get his no but only messaged him 2 months later asking him about exams. though he's busy, he replies, always with a question, like whether she's watching sth on tv, or if she asks him how's his day, he will ask about hers. the texting goes on for four days.

then three weeks later, with your exams round the corner and cos youve not got a chance to ask him how his exams went in person, you messaged him asking him that.

would it seem like you are doing it cos you are bored? or needy? or would the guy see it as ok? he's a nice sort of person:)

would he see it as a good sign she could be interested?

2007-09-02 20:06:02 · 6 answers · asked by Nat 2 in Singles & Dating

I really want to have a good and caring female friend that must be honest and be of good attitude. She must be of good ideological perspectives and who will be ready to render assistant when the need arises.

If you are there, kindly mail me through and lets talk. It may sound funny but am really sincere and plain.

Your response and advice are both necessary.

2007-09-02 20:05:03 · 7 answers · asked by felix4aho 1 in Singles & Dating

i started high school last month right and i hit it off with this girl shariel and it was getting to a point where she was gunna be my girlfriend. but one day one of her friends came up 2 me and her and asked if i was martell but no i wasnt so i knew she was talking to other guys. another friend asked shariel if i was her boyfriend. i was going to say not yet but shariel said we were just friends. i always see shariel with other guys and i ask who they are she says oh just friends. I don't believe just friends. But one day there was this gurl i had my eye on since the first day of school finally talked to me. her name is ashanti. we hit off 2. Later on i find out shariel and ashanti are friends. now shariel is mad bcuz i started talking to ashanti so shariel can talk to boys but i cant talk to girls thats messed up so now shariel told ashanti i tried 2 be her boyfriend and ashanti told me wat she sed and i told her the truth i was but she sed we were juss friends. ashanti vs. shariel.

2007-09-02 20:02:43 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When I was with my ex..I think I was in love with him..I bought him this necklace for him to remember me by....after we broke up I see the same necklace around his new girlfriend neck ..i wa so hurt that day..idk wat to do about it

2007-09-02 20:02:05 · 3 answers · asked by Live.Love.Laugh 2 in Singles & Dating