Recently i lykd this guy nd we did "it" every1 found out nd now i get sh*t at school lyk everyday... Y don't they care? He just walks away nd doesnt talk to me anymore
2007-09-02 21:13:19 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and then he claimed he was "drunk" which he wasnt!!
2007-09-02 21:20:34 · update #1
babe hes an ********! totally spread a rumour about him - tell everyone how small his diick is!!! :D . babe guys dont care . theyre all immature and stupid until you leave schoo l . your SO much better than him .
now you MUST tell everyone he has a small peenis and had noo idea what he was doing!!!!
babe love you xx
2007-09-02 21:17:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say it but most young guys have onley one thing they plan to do with the girls that will let them. They tend to take the momit that you have given them with all the feelings you have in side and want to share with someone. they us it as thier own little toy and you pay the price.
The thing to remember is you are better than that and them. the people that give you all that sh*t have so many things that they are hiding in their own backward and are afraid that people will look they hind it by saying sh*t to the ones that are just trying to be human (like you) and share true feeling with someone. Don't lose sight that you are a wonderful feeling person and you will never be the sum of what others have to say. Be true to you and don't let the users out there take that away from you. I am a guy, I care, and beleive it or not it happened to me once. I am true to me. That is why I can share with you. real Love rules
2007-09-02 21:43:48 · answer #2 · answered by nad32h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this guy confused or something? Maybe he doesn't understand what's happened? Is he embarassed? Obvoiusly there are feelings at play here. I guess it would be hard to tell. If you still like him, just try and be his friend, if he doesn't budge, try and forget it all. I reckon that being mates with someone is pretty good, (some will disagree, but better than the sex at times!). All the attention you guys are getting will be all over before you know it. Something else will happen that will make everyone forget about what you guys did.
2007-09-02 21:26:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry you had an experience with an asshole. He only liked you for sex. Only some guys are like this. If you were mine, you'd mean the world and if you're unhappy, I'd be there to cheer you up. Move on. Leave this guy behind and just believe in the fact that there are good natured guys that won't take you for granted. Don't let this guy get the satisfaction of scarring you for being the jerk he is.
2007-09-02 21:22:01 · answer #4 · answered by Dave 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't listen to these people blaming you for sleeping with him to easily. This guy just sounds like a jerk. What attracted you to him? There are plenty of decent guys, and plenty of jerks.
Perhaps you should re-evaluate the kinds of men you are dating, the bad boy types are always going to hurt you. Pay attention to how a guy treats others, not just how he treats you. If he treats other people poorly, eventually he is going to do the same to you no matter how nice he may seem toward you at the moment
2007-09-02 21:25:09 · answer #5 · answered by gadfly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are no longer of interest to him, unfortunately. He is probably feasting his eyes on someone new. Fresh meat I should say. Not to sound cruel or anything but messing around with a high school boy sounds like crap. They are not thinking like mature minded men. They just plain aren't thinking. That is why in high school I stayed as far away as possible. I was not going to let some bed wetting 17 yr old make me feel bad about myself. Take my advise stay away from boys whom you are attracted to. It will only benefit you later on in life.
2007-09-02 21:22:07 · answer #6 · answered by besitos111 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe becoz you just met him and then jumped in to bed with him! Thats gives the guy a sign that ur easy and obviously all he wantd was to get laid!
Dont be so easy next time or the same thing will repest itself..
Get to know that person before getting busy in the room! Otherwise once its all over and done with he will uo and leave because all he wanted was a f*ck and that should have been obvious to you becoz he didnt seem to want to know you before you did the deed huh?
2007-09-02 21:20:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
when a girl gives it up too easily, guys think it's just "hooking up". Next time, save sex for someone you love rather than "lyk" and preferrably, adulthood. I know it's an unpopular popint of view but some people don't even realize they have a choice. You don't have to have sex with every guy you like.
2007-09-02 21:22:56 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he prolly feels uncomfortable talking to you or being seen wid you cause everyone at scool knows. or hes jus the type of guy thats a jerk an jus goes to bed wid girls then doesnt even try to start a relationship wid em. either way if the guy actually did it wid you before getting to know you well, hes not a keeper. real guys earn a relationship before they go in bed wid someone.
2007-09-02 21:19:02 · answer #9 · answered by Msjenniee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy used you. He is a jerk. It's a shame that you had to find it out this way, but this is one of those times that you just have to chalk down to experience. How you learn from this incident is the important thing now.
2007-09-02 21:19:17 · answer #10 · answered by Stu147 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like you are too young to be "doing it". Young guys just want to get in to your pants. Like you say they don't care.... It's the hormones.
Don't worry, it does not last for ever... So hang on ....
By the way... Don't waste you time thinking on someone who is definitely not worth it. You deserve much much better than that.
2007-09-02 21:19:27 · answer #11 · answered by RT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋