My Bf and I once talked about children. I asked if he even liked Kids, he said no, he never wants kids, but he has a feeling he would anyways. I want children,when im older but it dosent have to be with him. Im just saying is the reason why he doesn't want children is because he's afraid of what will happen to them, like they wont get along with there parents or because something happened to him very personally that he would never tell anyone about. Do you think someone did something to him, and there is a reason why he doesn't want children because he doesn't want that to happen to them?
2007-09-02 20:27:13 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I doubt very much that is what he meant.
He is young and doesnt want to be bothered with children.
He knows that he wants to live his life as a young man before settling down and having kids.
Most guys will say they dont want kids at younger ages.
They want to enjoy dating and having fun..
(Of course, I am not saying something has never happened to your B/F. I am just saying for you to not read to much into what he is saying)
~faith
2007-09-02 20:41:36 · answer #1 · answered by faith♥missouri 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
First and most important thing in a relationship is communication so ask him why he doesn't. And I wouldn't sit around and worry about it theres nothing you can do about it anyways. I wouldn't worry about it until it was a problem, like you got pregnant. Even then If he runs off you wont miss him. you'll be happy youll have a wonderful child that will make you forget about him. And someone will come along that does love children and help you out. And even if they don't i know lots of strong women that I look up to everyday that raise perfect children on thier own. strong woemn like my mom and girlfriend. Dont spend time worrying about things you can not change.
2007-09-03 03:52:27 · answer #2 · answered by CarlessY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. I think you're probably thinking too deeply into this. A lot of guys don't want kids, and I mean A LOT of guys don't want them. Some guys say they want them, but they don't mean it. Why? Because raising kids is a lot of work. If a guy just wants a woman in his life, having kids would get in the way of that one-on-one time that he craves. Maybe he just needs to feel more warmth and affection so he won't be so insecure about adding people to his family who compete for his wife's love and attention.
Also, some people say they don't want kids because they physically can't have them. He could be trying to soften the blow for you by getting the idea of kids with him out of your head now before you set your heart of the idea.
2007-09-03 03:50:12 · answer #3 · answered by artsy_lovely_lady 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe he's wacked
2007-09-03 04:16:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋