guys,would you find such a girl needy/bored if she messages you say,not often? would you see it as interest?

Question

say, you are very sure a guy is into you. like looking at you alot, smiling when he talks, changing his bus route for you, holding doors etc.but you hardly get a chance to speak to him in person in class. and you see each other once a week.

you managed to get his no but only messaged him 2 months later asking him about exams. though he's busy, he replies, always with a question, like whether she's watching sth on tv, or if she asks him how's his day, he will ask about hers. the texting goes on for four days.

then three weeks later, with your exams round the corner and cos youve not got a chance to ask him how his exams went in person, you messaged him asking him that.

would it seem like you are doing it cos you are bored? or needy? or would the guy see it as ok? he's a nice sort of person:)

would he see it as a good sign she could be interested?

haha. we are friends in real life. just that we havent got much opportunities to talk in class :)

Answer 1

I have a good friend (female) who asks me questions like this all the time. Here's the best advice I can give you as an older guy: worry not about these things! If you want to text, go ahead and text. If you are wondering what he thinks, ask. If you want to say something, say it.

Though the chase is fun, I must say that once it's fairly established that there's a mutual attraction, there isn't much need for the mystery. We men aren't the smartest animals on the planet... so just go ahead and ask. :)

Answer 2

If you want to show your interest, your going to have to step it up a bit.

Don't be afraid to just say what is on your mind. It's the best way to not have misunderstandings.

Best Wishes

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Answer 3

Sounds like you need to make more of an effort to spend time with him. Why not ask him to hang out?

Answer 4

the guy would know that you like him. he's interested in you, but he's playing it safe, letting you do all the work. but be are that some guys are just nice to all girls for the hell of it.

Answer 5

for sure! your on the right track alrdy if you have his phone number. now surprise text himn

Answer 6

i would say.. that you would seem not ineterested if your rarely talk to him.. i would say a distant friednship is what it seems like.. are you interested in him or what