i started high school last month right and i hit it off with this girl shariel and it was getting to a point where she was gunna be my girlfriend. but one day one of her friends came up 2 me and her and asked if i was martell but no i wasnt so i knew she was talking to other guys. another friend asked shariel if i was her boyfriend. i was going to say not yet but shariel said we were just friends. i always see shariel with other guys and i ask who they are she says oh just friends. I don't believe just friends. But one day there was this gurl i had my eye on since the first day of school finally talked to me. her name is ashanti. we hit off 2. Later on i find out shariel and ashanti are friends. now shariel is mad bcuz i started talking to ashanti so shariel can talk to boys but i cant talk to girls thats messed up so now shariel told ashanti i tried 2 be her boyfriend and ashanti told me wat she sed and i told her the truth i was but she sed we were juss friends. ashanti vs. shariel.
2007-09-02 20:02:43 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's hard being young and full of lust.
Take some advice from someone who has been around the block a few times.
Meet as many girls as you can, get to know them. Take a chance or two. Blow off any negative response. Play the field. Have fun on dates. Perhaps you will find the right one. Other than that, you are young enough to have fun and just enjoy it. Too young to get serious about stuff like what you described above.
HAVE FUN! Be a lady's man. Date them all. (Be safe too)
2007-09-02 20:12:06 · answer #1 · answered by Chef 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No offense, bro, but why would you let a girl that is not your girlfriend decide who you will and will not talk to? Shariel sounds like trouble and Ashanti, well, you didn't give out too much detail so it's not possible to get any sort of impression on her.
My best advice- keep them both as friends. Nothing more, nothing less. You're really young and you'll meet other girls that don't bring too much baggage with them like these two seem to do.
2007-09-03 03:12:08 · answer #2 · answered by Optimisticone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok first off you can talk to anyone you want to, you guys aren't a couple and even if you were your gonna have friends. But the thing that popped out more than anything in your entire rant is "In School" this means your a young adult. Don't spend so much time worrying about girls, have fun with them. But don't take it all so serious, You have all the time in the world for women. Right now you need to be focused on your education, and things young adults like to do. Your still young so have your fun. Sports, games, movies, friends all these things are more important, soon enough you'll be adult and have a wife, and then you worry about women, cause you'll have one you have to think of before yourself.
2007-09-03 03:08:38 · answer #3 · answered by CarlessY 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ashanti for sure. Shariel sounds like she'll create more problems in the future and Ashanti actually came to you and told you the truth about what happened. Plus her name sounds cute...She's probably cuter too!!
2007-09-03 03:09:19 · answer #4 · answered by jbahhh 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Shariel is playing games with you. She likes your attention but she wants to deal with other guys. If you like Ashanti, go for it. Don't let Shariel control you.
2007-09-03 03:09:14 · answer #5 · answered by stax 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wait that shariel get upset...um Who do you feel right with cause Shariel have alot of guys she talk to(as so it seems)and she shouldnt get upset cause you talking to ashanti(for the record yall not datin)and still there's nuthin wrong with talking.And shariel did say yall were just friends...she needs to figure out where she want to be
2007-09-03 03:10:16 · answer #6 · answered by Live.Love.Laugh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OH THE DRAMA OF BEING IN HIGH SCHOOL!
I wish I could help you, but your spelling and grammar are so bad I have a hard time figuring out what you just said. My advice..........forget about the girls, and concentrate on school.
2007-09-03 03:07:09 · answer #7 · answered by hrcarr 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first off your only in high school! keep it casual. sheriel is not your girlfriend so it shouldnt matter who you talk to...she cant have it both ways..she cant tell you that you cant talk to other girls while she chats it up with other guys. you should feel free to talk to whoever you want and whenever you want. have fun, you only get one high school career!
2007-09-03 03:08:33 · answer #8 · answered by made it to the top 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need 2 slow down,dont fall for someone so quickly,try 2 take youre time,get to know the person,believe me your one true love will come along when u least expect it,meantime enjoy life!
2007-09-03 03:26:12 · answer #9 · answered by BARBIE M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me, if this is the extent of your life problems, count yourself lucky.
Ignore them both, girls hate that, they'll probably both start vying for your attention.
2007-09-03 03:07:53 · answer #10 · answered by Rachella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋