i'm in this situation where we were close friends that fell hard for each other (decided not to rush) but alot of "life" things happened and he pushed me away and it hurt me. Rumors/assumptions, people's ideas got the best of us and the last we spoke, we misunderstood each other and we haven't talked in a month. I want to clarify things and reassure him and hope things are okay so i wrote him a letter. I felt that w. the letter, i had a good chance of putting it out there b/c if we were to talk we would get our emotions to get the best of us, esp. since we haven't talked/seen in each other in months...
i'm the type of girl that feels that if we need to talk about it, then we should...when both side are COMPLETLY okay about it, then it's good and we should NEVER BRING IT UP AGAIN...
I told him the truth in the letter but didn't blame him or give excuses - i told him, "you hurt me when..." and told him the truth that i cared about him...I read the letter again tonight and i found some "misunderstanding errors" so i felt i had to talk to him about it before something else happens...it's been about 3-4 days so i txted him tonight to say, "what's up" and he never responded back...is he done with me and doesn't wanna be friends anymore?
2007-09-02 20:43:52 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
a few days before i gave him the letter, he randomly texted me "hi" and the day was an "official month" since we've talked...or had any contact
2007-09-02 20:44:08 · update #1
not all guys are into drama. well actually, most guys hate it. but there are those few attention whore drama queens. like this guy you keep talking about.
ive told you before, get over him. hes not worth it. youve wasted so much time and effort on this guy already, and obviously he still doesnt get it. let him go and stop being his friend. cut your losses already. real friends dont give each other such a hard time. let me beat him up already ;P
2007-09-03 08:47:24 · answer #1 · answered by JIGGLY 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stop obsessing already. Take a deep breath, let it out, there, he's gone from you. Let it go and get on with your life. The more you badger him the worse you make it. Guys don't communicate like we girls do. Give him his space and get back out there! He's just not that into you, at least not right now.
2007-09-03 04:49:09 · answer #2 · answered by gma 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't normally say this kind of thing, but you're an obsessive freak and you need to not engulf yourself in this situation. Write your letters, and then put them in a drawer somewhere. He is gone, and there's too much DRAMA there anyway.
You need closure and you won't get it from him; get it from within yourself.
2007-09-03 03:56:21 · answer #3 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Ade. It sounds like you need some closure on this relationship.
2007-09-03 07:26:41 · answer #4 · answered by malibustacey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone else, he obviously doesn't want you any more.
2007-09-03 03:52:14 · answer #5 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋