Family & Relationships - 30 August 2007

I don't want him to give up on getting a date with me. I just want him to ask me in person, rather through text messages. He said he didn't like playing games. How can I show him that I'm not playing games, I'd just rather be asked face-to-face?

2007-08-30 23:57:15 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

yeah I've been up all night with the sledgehammer still lodged in my stomach unable to sleep.She says she is the problem not me.(I heard that bs line before).She went back to her boyfriend that left her 7 years ago.He came back and she was seeing him for the last few months behind my back.She asks to still be friends.She made me promise to call her.Damn it friggin hurts.My question is should I stay friends with her?

2007-08-30 23:47:54 · 11 answers · asked by p3solo 1 in Singles & Dating

I so want a casual wedding. An event where myself and guests can be comfortable. Plus the $500 I would spend on a dress could be used elsewhere.

So has anyone done an extremely casual wedding? Any tips?

2007-08-30 23:47:06 · 16 answers · asked by WinterBorn 5 in Weddings

I moved out of my mothers house a year ago to live with my bf. Ever since then she claims I have changed for the worse. She complains I don't call or visit as often as I should. Although she claims to hold nothing against Kevin (my bf), she believes my he is manipulative and controlling over me. She also suspects he has hit me. None of these things are true, but nothing I say will matter because she thinks I'm just defending him.

Now to give a little more feedback, this is my first real relationship. I moved in with him 5 months into our relationship. My mother never really approved of me moving out without warning. I don't like visiting with mother because she always has something negative to say to me. She acts like she holds nothing against him when we are there. But on the phone she's quick to judge. For the past year I have put school on hold because I've been working while Kevin finished up his BA in Organizational Psychology. She holds that against him too.

2007-08-30 23:45:15 · 8 answers · asked by ..:: Liz ::.. 3 in Family

When I say idiot I mean idiot...All the girls at my school literally trip over them selves to talk to this one football player, even though he does remedial maths and english.
Could some one explain?

2007-08-30 23:41:33 · 5 answers · asked by Skaggy says: 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-30 23:29:17 · 12 answers · asked by SuitableAutumn 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 25 never been in a relationship and I want to be. I just get so nervous and sometimes don't think I am good enough. I need help because I am soo lonely and don't want to live this way.

2007-08-30 23:21:35 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So many cool people here. But are we all anonymous to each other? Sometimes I think, wow, maybe this would be someone to meet. But I never do. Seldom would they even be in my own state!

2007-08-30 23:16:05 · 4 answers · asked by Robert B 5 in Singles & Dating

so is it necessary to be wedded before you can call yourself as a married man or woman? am asking this because am about to get married and I don't know what to do. Being wedded or engaged which is ok or excuse me to say better or best? please help me.

what of a big traditional marriage or wedding
Is it necessary for me to call the public for my wedding / marriage?

2007-08-30 23:10:16 · 4 answers · asked by abrewanana 1 in Weddings

It's a Friday night.. I'm home by myself. All my friends are either working, studying, broke, or have to work in the morning. My bf is at the pub but I'm seeing him all weekend anyway.
What things can I do to amuse myself? Just a night to myself.. I want to pamper myself. Any suggestions?

2007-08-30 23:08:27 · 7 answers · asked by jeska102 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-30 23:01:38 · 4 answers · asked by DeMz 1 in Singles & Dating

Why do I always get the low lifes that want to hurt me...
And don't call me a masochist. I surely, don't like this.

2007-08-30 22:44:47 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My partner is f*cking terrible. When he goes downtown it feels like a dog slobbering all over me.

Should I leave him?

We've been together 3 years and I don't think I can take it anymore!

2007-08-30 22:40:24 · 8 answers · asked by Trout Pout (Lollie) 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

Someone I know confided that he, a married man, has been constantly seduced by a married female boss, to the extent of sexually harrassing him ala Demi Moore on Michael Douglas in Full Disclosure. Should he be faulted if he gives in?

2007-08-30 22:34:23 · 21 answers · asked by Tita 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Someone I know confided that he, a married man, has been constantly seduced by a married female boss, to the extent of sexually harrassing him ala Demi Moore on Michael Douglas in Full Disclosure. Should he be faulted if he gives in?

2007-08-30 22:32:58 · 19 answers · asked by Tita 1 in Marriage & Divorce

and her ugly friend likes me. So the girl I like says that her ugly friend has had a crush on me since grade school and it would hurt her ugly friends feelings if she started to have sex with me. So I was wondering what can i do to get this ugly girl to stop liking me so I can be with the hot babe?

2007-08-30 22:32:49 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 16 and have been invited along with another friend to a bday party that a girl at school is having. Proabably about 35ish people are going to be there. I don't drink - havn't tried and don't really want to. I know for certain that everyone there will be drinking, and I also know that I will be more than likely to be pressured into having a drink. How do I deal with that? It's next week. I want to have a good time as it's my first "party" but want to do it without others asking...

2007-08-30 22:30:21 · 10 answers · asked by Curious Me 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-30 22:29:30 · 18 answers · asked by Grand 2 in Singles & Dating

Need advice regarding My Parents?
I am 37 years old and have been living with my Mother and Father for a while now since my father lost his ability to walk in 2006.
I Have been taking care of my father and mother and have done all i can. up until recently because both of my parents have showed me no appreciation they call me names, put me down ,and so forth which has left me very depressed, and hurt .this is not the first time either.i feel its time to leave.
Any Advice will be appreciated.Thanks

2007-08-30 22:28:51 · 3 answers · asked by ................ 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am having sex with my ex wife occasionally. is this correct? she is real hot & naughty.

2007-08-30 22:25:53 · 16 answers · asked by lincolnveto 1 in Marriage & Divorce

every time i have a meeting with an organization, my boyfriend is always asking if it's a guy i'm meeting with and does this every time. i am a very loyal girlfriend and would never allow the thought of cheating on him cross my mind.
the other day, i was hanging out with him and his friends. since i already had met the others, i introduced myself to the last one, who was a guy, and my boyfriend just walked ahead of the group faster like he was ticked off or something.
this is just bothering me. i love my boyfriend very much, and i don't want to lose him.
any suggestions on what i might be able to do to show him that he can trust me?

2007-08-30 22:25:24 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 16, my girlfriend of 3 months is 19. We were at a party the other night and she asked me if I would like to sleep with her tonight. I didn't exactly understand what she meant, as I assumed she meant actually going to sleep, lol. During our make-out session she removed her top and went for my belt buckle. Immediately I knew what she was after. I panic, I fake passing out from too many drinks. I like her alot but I'm still a virgin, plus I'm underage and worried about what may happen to her if someone found out we had sex. What should I do?:(

2007-08-30 22:24:18 · 20 answers · asked by Zakk Myles 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 14 and I started school a few days ago and theres only about 45 kids in my grade, small school...anyway, there's a girl that I kinda had my eye on because she seemed fun (i met her at open house, just a few words exchanged)...well the other day I started talking to her in a class and we played around with her eraser, when she threw it at me it would fall and I would ask the person who sat closest to it to get it back for me, then i gave it to her/threw it at her...so after that, she and her quiet friend asked someone whom I knew from a while ago(a girl)to ask me if i want to sit with them and have lunch cuz they wanna get to know me...So i say yes of course (this is all in one week, the lunch thing happened today) then i gowith 6 girls to sit. During lunch the girl I kinda like playsaround with me and stuff, i didn't bring a lunch so she gaveme half of her pb&j sandwhich..then after school she and her friend write a heart on my neck and she writes property of (hername)

2007-08-30 22:20:33 · 11 answers · asked by Andrew P 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi i got engaged recently with my parents concern and after engagement when i compare the photos of my fiance and the girl which i rejected. It looks like iam a fool coz i rejected a very good girl (Even my parents liked her but i dont know when i saw her photo for the first time i didnot liked it and rejected her but after selecting another girl and got engaged i compared the photos and now iam cursing myself why i rejected the previous girl Only God Knows).
Now iam not able to concentrate on any thing including my job. Idont know why iam thinking like breaking the engagement and trying to convince the first girl which i rejected. Please advice me correclty iam going thru some infatuation or ???. Also yes the girl i rejected is more beautiful, taller and more educated than the one i got engaged.

2007-08-30 22:20:18 · 10 answers · asked by asim 1 in Weddings

2007-08-30 22:15:56 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im wondering..my guy he just got to know me..i mean we've been in a relationship for 2 weeks+..but on the day he got my number,right after that day,he already talk to me about getting engaged or even married..isnt he a bit rushing..?? i dont know why he's into me..??im confused..is he really serious with me or just want to get married with me because no one wants him cause he's a bit old..as in he's 24..or is he just curious for sex..??

2007-08-30 22:14:47 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i would like to know how long one can court a man before they get married,
there was a friend of mine who courted a man for 6 years, and later he married another woman, maybecause he knew her so well, i don't know

2007-08-30 22:10:22 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I'm crying over something that might not even be a big deal.. I'm just really tired right now but it's been bugging me for a while.. please read
My bf n I hav been dating for 3 months and I love him. I've never loved anyone like this before. He says he loves me too n that he wants to be with me forever.
The past month he has just started at the police acadaemy so he has to work heaps and study. On top of that, he has taken up netball 2 nights a week and tennis all day saturday.
This week I saw him for 3 hrs on tues nite.. 2 hrs last nite but that was at a pub with his family so we had no alone time, and i dont c him till 7pm sat nite. Hes leaving early sunday morning to go and c family.
Then next week its bak 2 the same thing. 2day he sent one msg saying he hoped i was havn a good day.
Hes at the pub with work mates rite now. I just want him here with me. Ive told him that it bothers me n hes been tryin to c me more but its not any different.. I love him so much...

2007-08-30 22:06:16 · 25 answers · asked by jeska102 1 in Singles & Dating

old to my home when ever she speak good they take opposite meaning of her . she is honest women she wants to do mba but my sister in laws are telling dont do mba because they had not completed they college why are u studying my 2nd sister in law is very cheap use bad words to her &jellious she wants to study and do something good job my english is not so good please adjust this thanku

2007-08-30 22:00:28 · 7 answers · asked by Arvind P 1 in Family

This personlal need to stop masterbating on cam to wmen and kids his name is ,lonelyadventurer1.

2007-08-30 22:00:15 · 1 answers · asked by cuddle.hunny 1 in Singles & Dating