Someone I know confided that he, a married man, has been constantly seduced by a married female boss, to the extent of sexually harrassing him ala Demi Moore on Michael Douglas in Full Disclosure. Should he be faulted if he gives in?
2007-08-30 22:34:23 · 21 answers · asked by Tita 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
no excuse for cheating.. its a choice... he chose wrong.. now has to suffer for it {}
2007-08-31 00:17:41 · answer #1 · answered by who ?? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How would he feel if he walked in on his wife and the plumber working out free plumbing? Or the car dealership guy? How about the electrician?
If he does it she will feel like she can do it too.
Seriously we get a job because we need a way to support our marriage. Our jobs are just a means to that end. We should not ever think that committing this unforgivable sin is in any way the right thing to do.
No one should compromise for any reason.
2007-08-31 01:14:59 · answer #2 · answered by debbie2243 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, he should take advantage of the situation. He needs to consult with a lawyer who will probably confirm that if he tapes her behavior with a concealed camera, he can also record the dialogue. Taping the dialogue alone may be illegal, falling under wiretap rules. Harassment is harassment, regardless of gender or preference. If he simply gives in, he's an idiot. He could make a bundle off this.
2007-08-30 22:47:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Has he heard about work place harrasement???
gimme his bosses number
just kidding
he is not at a fault but if he is already involved nothing much can be said...let him have fun if he really wants to
every body is there own boss when ot comes to things like this
CHEERS!!!
2007-08-30 22:41:14 · answer #4 · answered by Geek 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He should file sexual harassment charges and sue her for a lot of money. She needs to stop or get fired. I would have him contact a lawyer or the Labor Board and go home to his wife. He should not give in. She's married. Gross. Poor guy.
2007-08-31 00:10:03 · answer #5 · answered by whereRyou? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SO MUCH SO THAT IT IS BORDER LINE. And that was a "Period" at the end, meaning, the individual would have to be menatlly ill to partake in that and ruin not only his and her life, but the lives of the spouses.
2007-08-30 22:41:09 · answer #6 · answered by Dee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He must be deprived of sex by his wife if he gives in. Why should he mess up his marriage by giving in to the temptations? Is he unhappy with his wife? Just leave the job if she is his boss. Not worth the chances.
2007-08-30 22:45:37 · answer #7 · answered by candie 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if he really is committed and loves his wife, he will NOT give in to this woman, I'm sure ! Yea, he should be faulted if he gives in, his wife will surely feel she's been cheated if she discovers this illicit liaison
2007-08-30 22:42:55 · answer #8 · answered by PikC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
2007-08-31 04:30:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah he is married n marriage means commitment and trust god i hate men n im guessin this married man is u yeah behave n keep it in your trousers
2007-08-30 22:39:55 · answer #10 · answered by lovestoned 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get A mini recorder and get a raise and maybe a law suit...
2007-08-30 22:40:02 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋