Family & Relationships - 30 August 2007

Im 13 and my dad & i always get into fights,
he yells at me so i do it back.
treat someone the way you want to be treated.
...
well he slaps my arms.
so i slap him back.
he yells at me for not doing extra credit homework when i have like ALL A's!
..
abusive?

2007-08-30 15:12:38 · 8 answers · asked by Lolly Pop Lolly Pop Oh. 1 in Family

I am black and I have been dating this girl for about 5 years. We both have good secure jobs and I wanna marry her. My mother doesn't know about us but mom always told me never to date white because I could get hurt. And my grandmother says I should never date white and if she is blonde/blue eyes I am sure I will die. Well she is bright blonde and she has Ice blue eyes.

My mother is catching on to us because I slipped up and said something. Her parents don't know either.

Mom is just really defensive I think and just doesn't want me to get hurt(I won't). She doesn't oppose them but she always tell me to take the safest path.

Dad doesn't care.

I love her not because she is white but because she stole my heart.

I am about to propose to her and I just wanted someone to tell me experieneces.

2007-08-30 15:10:36 · 29 answers · asked by BlackMN 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I baby my man, I tell him I love him and miss him alot. I do his laundry and clean house, I cook for him and I remind him of things and I wake him up in the morning, and I satisfy his every desire in the bedroom. I give him massages. I do all these things because I love him not because I suck up to him. what else can I do to make him realize Im the 1 for him. he already thinks that were meant for eachother. and he does all the same for me 2. he caters 2 me 2 and takes me out. but how/what should I do to make him go insane about me and know he'll never find another woman like me. we want to marry soon and have kids soon too. we absolutely adore eachother. wht do men desire from a woman even outside of the bedroom? what makes an ultamate lover/wife/mother??

2007-08-30 15:09:59 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i live in the los angeles area in california.

2007-08-30 15:09:24 · 4 answers · asked by btree 1 in Weddings

i'm not interested in going on vacation with her and my dad for Labor Day weekend because:

1) I'm 23 years old

2) Three's a crowd with my family because my Dad acts like I get in the way of his time with my Mom

3) I'm a new teacher who is exhusted from work.

The only problem is I still live at home, so if I don't go, Mom will be upset because Dad is extremely clingy which annoys her, so I'm like a buffer. She's said several times she wants me to come. It'll be hard to look at her...

2007-08-30 15:08:55 · 4 answers · asked by o.O 1 in Family

Here's the situation. My ex and I have been broken up for a year and a half. In that time we havent seen or spoke to each other. In that time she meet someone else. They have been together for a year and some months. But in the last three months we have been seeing and talking to each other. In that time we have been intimate with each other a couple of times. She has came to see me and it usually ends up us sleeping together. When I ask about us getting back togehter. She says she has a boyfriend. So three weeks ago I got upset and told I cant do this anymore and told her dont call or come see me anymore. But recently I started missing her and I called her. I told to come see me she remind me what I said and she told me she'll think about it. I've dated other girls but she makes me happy. At times I was a jerk for a boyfriend but I changed. Question I'm asking ladies what should I do? I love her

2007-08-30 15:05:29 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-30 15:05:07 · 16 answers · asked by aggie 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-30 15:04:35 · 7 answers · asked by Padmanaban A 1 in Family

I think I might be crazy but it seems like you will always be the enemy is that true?

2007-08-30 15:03:23 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

or what would you do if your long time boyfriend started dealing drugs?

2007-08-30 14:55:33 · 8 answers · asked by girlwiththegoodies 3 in Singles & Dating

"I told you... I am so swamped this week. I've been working non-stop.
Like I said, you are always going back and fourth about whether we should see each other, or shouldn't, you want to, you don't, it's crazy.
I don't know what to think. I do think it's because you are young and still figuring things out...which is normal. But I have a real hard time dealing with that kind of behavior. I out grew it a long time ago. I'm old.... have had long relationships... and even been married once.
It's got me so concerned. I think we are a big mismatch. You need someone who is young like yourself and figuring things out, passionate just like you.
You are beautiful and sexy but just not in the same place I am right now. "

Please help me say the right thing. I really really like this guy and I am willing to change and be more mature about everything. I dont know how to respond. I really want to try and make things work if he is willing. Can anyone help? I really appreciateit

2007-08-30 14:54:46 · 6 answers · asked by confusedz1 1 in Singles & Dating

To be in love with a man, and have feelings for another? It doesn't seem like the heart should work like that. Think it's just lust?

2007-08-30 14:54:43 · 1 answers · asked by starlichik100 1 in Singles & Dating

hey dated this guy for about 5DAYS and then he wanted to be more than friends? i was like slow down i need to get to know you more give it at least 1 month. im 23 hes ???21 years old in college.

This guys seems to be acting funny now, i mean hes grumpier and seems confrontational and seems to have an attitude im thinking to myself what is his problem! anyway he still tries to call me and the last few times i talked to him he started an argument with me in which i hung the phone up in his face

anyway why is hes still trying to call me and things like that being rude? i mean whats going on in his head

2007-08-30 14:52:10 · 2 answers · asked by gaurdianangelic 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-30 14:51:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

You can say anything you like but no rude answers please!

2007-08-30 14:48:02 · 14 answers · asked by Zahra 2 in Family

I was babysitting besides im 12 okay so the phone rang it said unknow caller i must be thinking its my realtives from London but it was this lady shes like is your mom home?? im like No. then i thought she said by so i just hanged up then she called back and got all pissed she is said very strong i need to talk to an adult then im like no adult here im sorry.Then she said i will call back EVERY HOUR i don't appreciate you hanging up on me the lady is sooooo stupid

2007-08-30 14:46:49 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I saw my bf for 3 hrs on tuesday night, then 2 hours thursday night (but that was out at a pub with his family so we didn't have any alone time). I'm meant to see him on Sunday but his relatives are visiting so his mum won't let him leave the house.

I hardly ever see him. He works full time, has to study for work as he is just new to the police acadaemy, he plays mixed netball twice a week and he has tennis on saturdays.

He msgs about 2 times a day and we talk briefly on msn every night. I've talked to him about my issue about never seeing him and he says he loves me and will make an effort. He has been trying but it's so hard for him because of all these things going on.
I love him and don't want to let him go. Is this a healthy relationship or do you need to see each other more for it to work?

2007-08-30 14:46:08 · 27 answers · asked by jeska102 1 in Singles & Dating

please answer only if you haveFOUR PLUS bedrooms in your home. Do you clean the house yourself? Also, do you work full time, too?

And if you do work full time, and clean the house, is it because you don't want a maid, can't afford it, or the reason, please.

2007-08-30 14:32:02 · 18 answers · asked by Born Valentine's Day 5 in Marriage & Divorce

this sounds strange but im married to a 50 year old man and we get along so well, but he has a sonw hos 24 and he told me he really likes me and wants me to leave his dad for him i dont know what to do i have to live in the same house as him and im married to his dad its so awkward we have never done anything except a little snog at his auntys 40th what should ii do?
somebody please help im desperatee
xxx

2007-08-30 14:24:49 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i like him he likes me we want to b together he is my karate teachers son so idk wat to do cuz if we break up class will prolly b akward help me wat should i do

2007-08-30 14:20:54 · 15 answers · asked by Country Girl 2 in Singles & Dating

nothing has ever happen?

2007-08-30 14:20:19 · 22 answers · asked by Keesha E 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband committed suicide just a month ago. What i dont understand is why? He was a good husband a great dad! HE kissed me good bye for work and then shot himself with a 9mm! My question is how do you go on after something like this? everyday seems to get harder emotionally? Please any ideas on how to cope with this?!

2007-08-30 14:16:44 · 7 answers · asked by Lori M 1 in Family

I have this friend,
she is VERY VERY VERY clingy, I am TIRED OF IT!
She's always following me, and standing too close, and always hugging me, if I tell her I need my space for a while she gets upset and it gets me upset to see her upset!
SHE WON'T LEAVE ME ALONE.
I'm afraid I might scream at her the next time she goes near me.

How do I tell her to go away, without hurting her feelings?...


.....SHE IS NOT GAY. OR BI. so dont answer saying that, okay? ew.

2007-08-30 14:15:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

So my best friend finally did steal my girlfriend and at a perfect place a party to which i wasnt invited to typical. Any ideas how to get her back?

2007-08-30 14:13:22 · 18 answers · asked by Billy 1 in Singles & Dating

I feel like my husband does not talk to me. He wants to put our son behind us and I don't.

2007-08-30 14:11:13 · 25 answers · asked by silvrhawk 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i really like him so tell me what to do. plz signed,in love

2007-08-30 14:08:05 · 1 answers · asked by koolit6 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Are you currently with them? or are they gone?!

2007-08-30 14:04:41 · 16 answers · asked by I <3 Izzy. 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-30 14:02:02 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Men. I am constantly reading about men in love with "the other woman" but are too afraid to leave because they might lose everything. If that's true, why are things more important than being with someone you truly love? Why can't you get more "things?"

2007-08-30 14:00:40 · 11 answers · asked by Lady J 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-30 13:58:19 · 10 answers · asked by bigpump 1 in Marriage & Divorce