Family & Relationships - 28 August 2007

Oh please... i really need help.
I moved away from family and friends last year to be with my boyfriend (army) and just found out my boyfriend is going to Afghanistan next month for 7 months.
My 21st is in early November and he wont be here... i cant go home until Christmas because of money issues.
I have only one friend here and she decided to fly away ON MY BIRTHDAY! She knows i will be alone!
Im so scared that i will be alone and sad on my 21st, i have NO FRIENDS or FAMILY up here... i still have time though
1. What should i do for my birthday
2. Is my friend a true friend for choosing to leave ON my birthday? she could have avoided it.

2007-08-28 23:55:29 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I need big help.
I thought i was in love [[Haha!!]] with this guy but last night i found out he's a cheater. thing is he didn't cheat on me.
...He cheated on his girlfriend, with me.
I found out from a reliable source that he hadn't broken up with his girlfriend so i told him i knew and he didn't deny it atall. he admitted it smugly and then just ignored all my calls and texts when i was trying to verbally kill him. lol.

Anyway today I'm seeing him today but just as ""friends"".

How do i get my payback...??

Need Help This Is Soooo Important xx

Cheers x

Nikki <3

2007-08-28 23:53:21 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The reason i ask is beacuse a yahoo member responded to my last post and stated that she too had an unhealth relationship with her father based on the question that i posted about my boyfriends daughter

2007-08-28 23:51:30 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

right i hang around with alot of lady freinds we all ways usually meet in a bar /club or somwere public there very very beutiful woman indeed and have dated one myself which we are now just freinds coz i ****** up the relationship, apparantly although thats in the past what i would like to know is .

i was told by my lady freinds that woman only hang around guys which are very good looking and attractive in public is any of it true i took it as a compliment but i meen is that actually a true statment or is it a load of crap

2007-08-28 23:45:44 · 16 answers · asked by GG 1 in Singles & Dating

ok guys...heres the deal...im 22, smart, well educated, cute, & many have told me that im really beautiful...the thing is whenevr a cute guy approaches me, tries to talk or smth im like literally shaking! i dunno what happens to me, it must be Me geting really shy & my hands just shake!
it also happened to me when i met my bfs for the first time, or when i go to a blind date...thats normal i guess, but when u r at the mall, & some1 approaches me or act all cute, i get so anxious & i dont think thats normal...whys that? even at school when i meet a new guy i get that anxiety! although i was brought up in a very healthy environment & my parents didnt raise me to be like that whatsoever!
it the sexy guys syndrome? what can i do?

2007-08-28 23:39:20 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It was a somewhat reunion, hadn't seen these guys in many years. While we were all hanging out my "friend" said to me "Man, I can't wait til you go to bed so I can eat your wife's pussy"

It has sent me into a state of insecurity. I am very successfull with 3 kids and a great marriage!! What the hell can I do? How would you react to someone saying that to your spouse?

2007-08-28 23:37:43 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

You get your looks from your parents, and everthing, but can younger brothers and sisters get similarities from their older brothers and sisters?

2007-08-28 23:36:36 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

We've been broken up for a while, but i've had the worst time since, going out with some real losers, and I was talking to him for a long time about everything, and he really made me feel better, i know now he's the best guy out there, how can I let him know that, breaing up was a mistake, I want him back

2007-08-28 23:36:32 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been dating this woman for 2 months and at the beginning the e-mails were flowing in from her and now she is not emailing me anymore as much. It was always her sending the first email and then I respond. Is this normal? We still see each other 3 or 4 times a week.

2007-08-28 23:35:35 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

actually i am going to be married in few day but i am really afraid to have sex i mean does it hurt or its kinda enjoying thing to do.what usually happens on the first night of marriage.can girls have sex durning periods or it is forbidded

2007-08-28 23:35:24 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Question Details: i know about it, i see it on these questions on yahoo and they talk about liking someone who dosent like them for YEARS. some even claim 6 years or more. What would posess someone to do that? I mean, if you didnt have a relationship how could they waste their time for that long with their mind on one person?

2007-08-28 23:33:38 · 12 answers · asked by broz215 5 in Singles & Dating

I have been in a relationship with a really great guy for about a month and a half. In the beginning we really clicked and I was realy happy and into him. Now, although it has only been over a month, I feel like it is not really going much further. I am having my doubts whether I am ready for a relationship, especially one where the sparks have stopped flying already. Do you think I am being impatient and should give the relationship a fighting chance, or should I get out and end it before either of us gets too attached?

2007-08-28 23:33:36 · 6 answers · asked by Liv 1 in Singles & Dating

Just wondering if you have started any traditions with your children for holidays.
We have made a Thanksgiving tree. We made a leafless tree out of construction paper and hung it on a large empty section of wall in our home. Every Thanksgiving we all get a few construction paper "leaves" of different colors. Before dinner we write things we are thankful for on the leaves and hang them on the tree.
Every year the tree gets fuller and we get a chance to remember that we are thankful.
Please share your traditions.

2007-08-28 23:29:36 · 4 answers · asked by wandknut1488 2 in Family

I'm thinking male body hair here, to be more specific. Hairy chest good to run your fingers through or gross? - you decide.

Please note: The questioner wishes it to be known that there is nothing implied or inferred in the above, as to his current body grooming regime.

2007-08-28 23:29:12 · 34 answers · asked by Frankie Baby 2 in Singles & Dating

I think I would smash her with a giant rock take a giant dump on her cat.

2007-08-28 23:27:30 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-28 23:26:46 · 20 answers · asked by The Asker 4 in Singles & Dating

my man asked me to go to the strip club the other day , and once in a while he will ask to go with his friends and i jus feel like if he needs to go see other women i aint enough for him is that true i don't know

2007-08-28 23:25:43 · 12 answers · asked by a529 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-28 23:21:00 · 10 answers · asked by Sugar_Flip 1 in Singles & Dating

i am confused right now if I'm going to follow my heart what wants or not. We met each other in chat and so far we're doing good and we're planning to move forward; he can't come in my country because of some problems cause his dad is ill and very old to travel and he can't his dad alone because there's no other person can watch and take care of his dad so we planned I'm the one to go in his place just to meet him in person. We are more than 1 and 1/2 that knew each other and we keep our communication daily. Our age gap is 17 years actually i am confused if i am going there to see him and if it fine to marry a man who is older than the girl. i do really love him but is it really love or infatuation? Guys i want to know what can all you say about age gap...

2007-08-28 23:20:04 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So we got back from our honeymoon today and sadly the photographer hasn't posted our wedding pictures up yet. I remembered that one of the groomsman had his digital camera at the wedding so I went to his Myspace page to see if I could find any of them. Once there, I see a comment from my husbands ex wife. I know that she is friends with this paticular groomsman and have had absolutely no problem with it until now. The comment from her said " i can not thank you enough for passing along the message from the Inlaws. It really means a lot to me,more than you will ever know. I appreciate you listening to your heart and valuing our friendship. " So what the heck am I supposed to think about this? My new inlaws are giving messages to his ex wife on my wedding day and/or vice versa? I have had a great relationship with his family until now, but I am extremely hurt about this whole thing. Do I confront them? What do I do!? Thanks for your help!

2007-08-28 23:16:16 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

You find out that the man you have been 'dating' online for about 3 months was chatting with you and another 'female' at the same time. He wrote you a message completely irrelevant to the course of your conversatioin at the time and it was addressed to a female.
Although not too personal in nature but nevertheless, it's apparent that he knew her well enough to want to share something with 'her'. Would you dump his sorry a**?
He texts three times immediately afterwords first pretending to be 'surprised' by my reaction to 'our' conversation - which he repeated - but, . . .without that 'line' that was sent to me ( by mistake ) with the 'other' woman which only confirms my doubts.
Second text: " I love you and want you to be my life partner and I am happy and contented with our relationship. Do not throw away everything that's between us, for no apparent reason.
Third text:" I beg you to reconsider if you intend to leave me, because it's not fair; at least answer my call(s)"- all 3

2007-08-28 23:07:47 · 6 answers · asked by nutcracker 2 in Singles & Dating

i alowed my best friend and her boyfriend to stay over last night as they promissed they respected me and wouldnt do anything apart from cuddle so we all shared my big bed. about an hour after we went to bed however they thought i was asleep and started kissing really loudily and giving each other handjobs and making the bed move a hell of a lot, i know 100 percent what they were doing as i could hear it and fell them moving. would you say this was rude for doing this in my bed right next to me.?

2007-08-28 23:05:44 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My step mothers mum has passed away today after a battle with cancer... i need some advice on what to write on th card

2007-08-28 22:59:06 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Well, I haven't really lost them but I feel them slipping away from me because I have made new friends this year and now I usually spend more time with my new friends. I don't mean to but I think my old friends are getting annoyed. I really don't want to lose them. Any tips on how to show them that I care a lot about them and don't want to lose them.

2007-08-28 22:58:53 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Your first step is just to know about it and I promise you will love and respect it . wait for amazing cd's wihin a month.It deserves waiting.

2007-08-28 22:58:33 · 1 answers · asked by ah.hopeful 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-28 22:56:47 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Right now you have told of your turn offs, but what about what turns you on in a man!!!

2007-08-28 22:56:18 · 18 answers · asked by Rich 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-28 22:53:28 · 8 answers · asked by MR.Marhomy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

we broke up because i refused to have sex with him...

2007-08-28 22:52:42 · 3 answers · asked by sakhura_31 1 in Friends

I got a party tonight where I'm going to meet up with some friends that I haven't seen over a year. However, my ex-boyfriend will be there and it'll be the first time with our friends that we haven't been together.

I had a stupid tiff with him last night because, regardless that I was already invited, he kept the party a secret from me. I can't help but think that I'm going to the party just to dance around him all night (metaphorically speaking) and act all 'I'm not hurt and I'm over you'.

So should I go? Thx for your answers!

2007-08-28 22:52:03 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends