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I have been dating this woman for 2 months and at the beginning the e-mails were flowing in from her and now she is not emailing me anymore as much. It was always her sending the first email and then I respond. Is this normal? We still see each other 3 or 4 times a week.

Answer 1

After you have been together awhile, ther is not much to email about other than good jokes. You save what you have to talk about for when you see each other.

Answer 2

Once couples get comfortable with each other (when the pure excitement wears off) one or both in the relationship slacks off on the contact as other things in life take up the time more.

One thing you might want to consider is that maybe she's waiting to see if you'll pick up the slack. Maybe she was emailing you first all the time, but why should she have to do that even now? Nothing wrong with the man contacting first half the time. If you're not doing that, maybe she's wanting to see how much you care about her by giving you a chance to contact (email) her first. She hasn't totally cut off contact, so she's not playing games so much as she wants to see if you care enough to carry your share of the relationship on your own or if you'll expect her to come panting at your heels like a puppy. Most girls have too much pride to keep doing that for very long....if at all. If you contact her, you'll keep the relationship on an even keel so both of you can maintain pride as well as show devotion.


Besides that, like I said, all couples get a bit lazy in relationships after the newness wears off. It's very common and will most likely happen in all relationships you have throughout your whole life. Plus, you see her often enough during the week, so if you've been worried, you don't have to anymore. If she wasn't into you, I doubt she'd keep dating you.

Good luck.

Answer 3

Brother, she got tired of taking initiative! Have you tried emailing her?Send her mail and see if she won't reply, you men need 2 learn how 2 take the lead in building the relationships.

Answer 4

Okay, so the emails are slowing down. But how is the relationship as a whole? If it's moving in the right direction, then don't trip. But if the communication isn't there, and you feel she is distancing herself, you might want to talk with her about this.

Answer 5

She might have a lot of reasons to be slow in mailing, but since you see each other 3-4 times/week it seems not to be a serious problem. To calm down, why dont you ask her about? Tell her how much her mails please you and that you miss them, then she has to answer ...

Answer 6

I don't think you should worry!She may not e-mail you as much as she use to,but you also said you two see eachother a few time's a week,and she may not know alot to talk about. If you e-mail her does she reply back? She probubly like's to see you and talk in person, rather then e-mail all the time. DON'T WORRY,BE HAPPY!

Answer 7

perhaps she mite be a bit busy with work..or maybe she just decided that since u guys are meeting very regularly..there mite be more quality opportunities to talk to u face to face than emails..

but jsut to tell ya if the meeting and dates is starting to get cold and it's like a "routine" than a date with fun and appreciation for each other.. it's high time u start to think whther she's the one for ya

good luck in your relationship. tkae care.

Answer 8

when you say dating.is it online or face to face?
if you've meet face to face before, then you could have a chance to meet up and ask her.
if email is the only way you've been interacting then i guess she might be busy with work or pc breakdown..
ask her rather than fretting that she won't contact you

Answer 9

yes its normall she want u to email her as well if its always her then she obviously just want to c if u will email her she might feel insecure

Answer 10

umm yeah its normal your doing fine it sounds perfect lol you have nothing to worry about stop stressing