actually i am going to be married in few day but i am really afraid to have sex i mean does it hurt or its kinda enjoying thing to do.what usually happens on the first night of marriage.can girls have sex durning periods or it is forbidded
2007-08-28 23:35:24 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh "It hurts so good" and as far as haveing sex on your period that is a touchy subject depends on the person. It really isnt my cup of tea. On real heavy days that is kind of nasty but on the lighter days doesnt really make a difference. I just feel like I stabbed someone with something that isnt intended to be used as a weapon so I try to stay away from that and you can always do other things during that time. But whatever helps you sleep at night. I am married and the wedding night is all super freaky crazy wild buck nakedness and for you you may see alot of things you probably havent seen before. Its all good though sex is REAL GOOD not bad.
2007-08-29 00:49:20 · answer #1 · answered by red04yr6 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To answer the easy question first, yes, you can have sex during menstruation. Sex for the first time could hurt but doesn't always. It all depends on how rough your partner is being. He needs to understand well ahead of time that you have remained untouched. That's you would like your first time to be loving and romantic, and beautiful. Your wedding night is the best time to enjoy making love for the first time. Traditionally, after your wedding, you would have a reception. There will be someone there to choreograph everything I'm sure. From there you will leave on a journey to your honey moon. Meant to be symbolic of both you and your new husbands release into life as one. If you have your period, you don't have to have sex. It's no rule. Many believe that it's bad luck though to not make love on your wedding night though. Everything will be fine. Good luck and congrats on your wedding.
2007-08-28 23:48:03 · answer #2 · answered by pepinousmc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex might hurt for the first time, but it shouldn't be too painful. It didn't hurt for me at all, but for some women it does hurt. Make sure you are relaxed, don't be afraid and don't worry about pain. Ask your husband to go slow and engage in lots of foreplay to get you physically aroused, this will make sex easier. Make sure you are properly lubricated (wet) if you are not, using a little bit of store bought lube is perfectly acceptable. It might help to have an alcoholic beverage or two. Don't get drunk though, but a slight buzz might calm your nerves. Have fun and remember, the more sex you have the better it gets. Enjoy your body and your partner's body!
As for sex during a woman's period? It's acceptable in my culture and safe, but you can still get pregnant, so remember to use protection each and everytime you have sex unless you are trying for a baby. Good luck!
2007-08-28 23:43:18 · answer #3 · answered by skunk pie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sex is natural - look at all the people on the earth and we all got here the same way. So just try to relax and enjoy. As for as the period goes that is a very individual and personal decision between you and your soon-to-be-husband. Some people of either sex would say it is terrible, others would say it is very natural, just take the normal precautions - towels or in the shower etc. Good luck and enjoy! Congrats on the wedding!
2007-08-29 00:16:48 · answer #4 · answered by vegasrob89118 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My first time hurt, but it was mostly because I was scared and couldn't relax. Second time hurt too, but not as much. Third time didn't hurt at all.
My ex called sex during my period "earning my red wings!" It's messy and personally I wouldn't recommend it; but I guess everyone's got to go there at least once :) Use old sheets on the bed.
Please don't think that because you are on your period you can't get pregnant. Believe it or not, it happens; so if you don't want to get pregnant, use a contraceptive!
Congrats on your wedding. I wish you all the best.
2007-08-29 03:37:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First time mostly all girls will feel pain...
But not all girls feel too pain, just a little while only...
After ur first time, then u will enjoy it and loving to do it...
During periods still can do it but is not so good...
Period time is mean u must rest time, so, no need to do it...
Wish u have a sweet new life...
Good Luck...
Cheers....
2007-08-29 21:13:35 · answer #6 · answered by WindWalker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah it does hurt a bit in the initial stages and u feel tired and exhausted but once ur body adjusts itself accordingly then its alright. and its not forbidden but many people prefer not to have sex during periods cuz it becomes a dirty play. u r getting married dear,don't stress yourself,just let things happen and enjoy the new experiences of married life... gud luck:)
2007-08-28 23:47:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not forbidded but its just a bit yuckky and messy. It hurts a little but you get used to it then it feels good. REAL good. Nerves are normal on the BIG NIGHT, Take it slow and dont be afraid to tell him to be gentle
2007-08-28 23:41:09 · answer #8 · answered by stacee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It hurts a little, but hurt never felt so good!!! Yes, it is okay to have sex during your menstrual cycle, but many men do not enjoy it as much.
2007-08-28 23:40:36 · answer #9 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get lubricated and then go 4r sex,enjoy the sex.
2007-08-29 00:20:06 · answer #10 · answered by raja 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋