Family & Relationships - 28 August 2007

2007-08-28 20:22:41 · 28 answers · asked by Petunia 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-28 20:22:00 · 8 answers · asked by teena 1 in Singles & Dating

In relation to a previous question of mine, my girlfriend (whom I love) has been with many guys for her age. She's 20 and has been with 14 guys, none of which were real relationships that lasted more than a month. A bunch were one night stands.

I see sex as something special to share with someone you love, and it seems to me that the more random "sexcapades" you have had, the less special it will be when you find someone you love.

So my question is, from a woman's point of view, does sex with multiple people change the specialness of it? If it does, how?

On a more selfish note, that just has to do with my insecurities from being such a hopeless romantic, do your experiences with these past partners pop into your head when your with your current partner? Do you compare him with your past ones? What about during sex? I feel guilty asking these ?'s, but I want to know.

2007-08-28 20:04:08 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

anyone ever read any of those books that have strategies in avoiding a break up or getting your ex back? or have any recommendation on good reads that have help them salvage their relationship? if so how did it help and what was it the book or ebook?

2007-08-28 20:03:04 · 2 answers · asked by jack a 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been feeling for 6 years now that my fiance's family completely hates everyone's significant other..they always say and talk a lot of sh*t about each others' wives behind their back, so naturally I suspect they do the same of me.
My fiance always hated me for thinking that, and he would get angry and deny it..but last night I finally found out VERY clearly that I was right..his brother told me that everyone hates all the wives and no matter what I do I just need to ignore it..
How can I have a child with him and know that they will always be like that.. It hurts too much, I have been crying all night..I don't know what to do-- we've been together for so long, and I love him.. but I am confused.

My fiancee always dictates the way I should act in front of his family because he wants me to be perfect in their eyes..but the truth is they will always find something bad to say and I know this now..this is completely devastating..

2007-08-28 20:02:41 · 12 answers · asked by contessa 4 in Weddings

cute sweet guy:
can sometimes be funny (not as funny as the other guy)..he's pretty much reserved so people might perceive him as serious

hot funny guy:
very outgoing.. gets along with all the people.. can sometimes be sweet..

2007-08-28 19:58:21 · 12 answers · asked by Curious 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-28 19:56:05 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've lived here, lived there. I've managed to seek adventure and to not have regrets but often feel like I am trying to get approval from fam.

2007-08-28 19:51:45 · 6 answers · asked by JGidd 2 in Family

I am 19, I have 2 children, and my husband is in Iraq. I love my children and I love my husband but I don't know if I can do this army thing any more. We've been married for two years. He joined the army a few months before we got married and he loves it. But it is not for me I just want a nice normal life as selfish as it sounds. But telling him not to reenlist makes me feel terrible. How can I make someone I love choose between a job he loves and the person he loves?

2007-08-28 19:38:17 · 20 answers · asked by Tascha A 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am going through a seperation with my spouse of 13yrs. He left me and my children recently. I am very depressed and have tried to save my marriage but please answer this do you believe that it is better to walk away and let things go rather than keeping trying and chasing a man who is pushing me away. I wanted to know if you let someone you love go even though you love them dearly than you can truly see if things were mean't to be

2007-08-28 19:37:16 · 5 answers · asked by danaispeace 2 in Marriage & Divorce

On BBW personals site I see BHM. What is BHM?

2007-08-28 19:31:16 · 13 answers · asked by pbjlewis 2 in Singles & Dating

if your boyfriend said this do you think he was truthful, cheating, lieing etc.

baby i miss you and love you too ive just been super busy and stuff sorry we havent gotten to talk much lately.haha [his name] sowrry lol my puppy dog face love you <3 mwah

2007-08-28 19:27:38 · 3 answers · asked by Blondie 3 in Singles & Dating

Plz , tell me

2007-08-28 19:26:20 · 22 answers · asked by Joney B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my sis's bf always when sis is not around tried to flirt with me
today morning when i woke up and saw my sister's bf in the bed with me it was his house i dont remember anything what happened then i left the house i picked up my cloths and left then one of my friends was outside she asked me if i was ok then i asked what do u mean she said that yesterday me and my friends went to a club and i got drunk i dont remember anything my best friend told me that i was really drunk i think i drank very much that night and when we were going home she said that my sis's bf told her that hell leave me home so she left me with him then she went home herself what do i do my sister's bf slept with me when i was drunk what do i do im afriad to face my sis she wont belive me if i told the turth she always think's he the telling turth HELPPPP

2007-08-28 19:23:50 · 12 answers · asked by THE_NICE_ONE 1 in Family

i have moved recently to kolkata and dont have friends.but i talk to this girl from here whom i have never met.problem is we just do not connect to each other.i dont know what to talk to her about.I just dont get into the groove with her.i just want to be more casual with her before we meet.

2007-08-28 19:21:39 · 10 answers · asked by AJ 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-28 19:13:44 · 7 answers · asked by Nicholas D 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm kind of a classy guy in my opinion. I have sex when in a commited relationship only. I've been with one girl only, my current girlfriend. I don't have a double standard with girls, I believe that women can have sex just like men. However, I don't like to share myself with anyone that wants it, so I want a woman who is the same.

My girlfriend has been with 14 boys before me. A lot were one night stands with stupid boys that just wanted some booty (ie. having car sex with a 17 year old boy in a parking lot when she was 19.) She has never had a relationship like this one, with a caring guy who isn't just after wild sex.

I'm very confused about my feelings and what to do. I'm heartbroken because to me sex is very special, and it seems like every girl out there gives it away like yesturdays bagels.

I'm scared to leave her, then find out I can't find what I'm looking for and have lost her for nothing. What should I do? Are there any girls left with the same ideals?

2007-08-28 19:12:55 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

* Is their sex drive dimish at or after the momopause?
* Most of them only like to chat & wasting other Male's time.
* Most of them join the site to see how & how many men will contact them, & when they are being asked to date, they say , they are not ready!, THEN what the hell you are doing on the dating site!!!!
* They are on age of enjoing themselves& satisfy their s*x desire, as every day does count in their short life!
** It is bad & irritating to be a time waster on the dating site , if you are not looking for a male!
WAKE UP TO THE TRUTH LADIES!

2007-08-28 19:11:52 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My fiance and I were doing our registry for the wedding, and at both places we registered, it was asked if we wanted to list gift cards as well on the list. Is this considered the same as asking for money? We are just curious if people would consider this just as rude as asking for money. thanks!

2007-08-28 19:07:45 · 13 answers · asked by bugaboo 2 in Weddings

Would tin-foil be alright?

2007-08-28 19:07:41 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-28 19:01:16 · 11 answers · asked by steve.57343 5 in Family

how can i fake an orgasm i am a guy, cuz sometimes i just go on forever with a girl, how can i fake it, cuz i know girls can, but for guys how?

2007-08-28 19:00:20 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i don't know who i should go out with, they both said they liked me, but now its hard too choose. They're both awesome, and cute......!

2007-08-28 18:54:40 · 15 answers · asked by <333 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

The man who took Maddie, should never be forgiven,the man who stole my childrens childhood should never be forgiven, the teenager who murdered the child should never be forgiven.
The man who put me in hospital will never be forgiven. Just think of these people like garbage,yesterdays rubbish. What do you think

2007-08-28 18:53:04 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

she were still living with her ex. She had a very abusive life with him.They were getting divorced (still living in same house) when he had a stroke and became an invalid. He can talk and feed himself but everything else is total care. She needs a life but is very devoted to him.No sexual involvement with him for 4 years.So what I"m asking is...Is it wrong to start seeing another man and have some kind of a life?

2007-08-28 18:50:45 · 4 answers · asked by § dreamer § 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband and I went to a counselor several weeks ago to work on our relationship. One of the suggestions, to improve our sex life, was to open up to eachother about our fantasies. My husband confided in me that he always had a fantasy of watching me shower without me being aware. I thought what the hell, seemd harmless enough. So I fufilled his fantasy and he watched me and later we'd have great sex. Anyway, he travels alot for business, and now has asked me if he can film me showering so he can "still have me" when he's out of town. I don't know, these things always seem to backfire. We've been married 10 years and I want to make him happy sexually, and I'm glad he'd rather "pleasure" himself to me rather than some magazine, but I don't know what to tell him.

2007-08-28 18:49:24 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

like i know people want to explain thier problems which is great but i hate reading the really really really really long ones and i think that why they get hardly any answers... does that shiit any one else?? hehe HAVE A GOOD ONE YAHOO PEOPLE

2007-08-28 18:46:01 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a personal question that is very close to my heart.. It is very embarassing for me to post it out in the open like this but im going to confess my penis size.

I just started dating this new girl and I am crazy about her but we havent done anything below the belt yet. I am afraid that when she sees my penis.. she will not want to be with me anymore.. and I am not that special of a person inside, so I cant see why she would stay with me.

All my life I have been in-secure about this.
My entire high school life was misserable! One day someone walked into the bathroom and my pants werent fully on and he told everybody that my penis was the size of a slug.. everybody started calling me mini-dick.. they also called me sluggy, slug-dick, micro-weaner and so on....

these names may sound funny to you but they made my world hell..

anyways.. I know you guys dont want to here about my miserable life but my penis is actually 1 inch erect.. what can I do???!!

2007-08-28 18:45:30 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-28 18:44:03 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my exbf and I went out 2 yrs ago,we werent on speaking terms but i recently contact him to hang out b4 leaving for college. He agreed and we met up, hung out and kissed at the end of the night (that was our first kiss together) . A week later he left for college but kept in touch; calling me, texting me saying he misses me and wants to kiss me..etc. Well, when he came down from college he asked to see me, I agreed. But I had seen pictures of him and his "ex" girlfriend (he had told me they were broken up and werent really speaking to eachother) rather affectionate on the girl's FACEBOOK. This made me suspicious so I brought a camara with me and met up with him. We made out a lot and he was very affectionate and rather lustful with me..he said things like "things couldve been diff. btw. us" "you are soo good looking" "you are a cool chick to hang out with" and said wow a lot and kissed me alot. At the end, I took out my camara and asked him to pose with me. Well guess what? He hid his

2007-08-28 18:43:52 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships