My husband and I went to a counselor several weeks ago to work on our relationship. One of the suggestions, to improve our sex life, was to open up to eachother about our fantasies. My husband confided in me that he always had a fantasy of watching me shower without me being aware. I thought what the hell, seemd harmless enough. So I fufilled his fantasy and he watched me and later we'd have great sex. Anyway, he travels alot for business, and now has asked me if he can film me showering so he can "still have me" when he's out of town. I don't know, these things always seem to backfire. We've been married 10 years and I want to make him happy sexually, and I'm glad he'd rather "pleasure" himself to me rather than some magazine, but I don't know what to tell him.
2007-08-28 18:49:24 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Go for it! Better you fullfilling his desires than someone else. Most men will watch their partner taking a shower; they love to sneak that peak.
2007-08-28 18:59:49 · answer #1 · answered by pussycat 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I fufill my husbands fantasies completely, because I know if I won't do it there is always a sex craving whore out there that will. Just be happy he is wanting you to do this and now wanting to watch someone else. It doesn't seem that bad of a thing to do, I'd do it for my husband :o)
2007-08-29 02:11:52 · answer #2 · answered by ~{Graciela}~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What did he do for your fantasy? I hope it was something. But in any case, you shouldn't force yourself if you feel uncomfortable, and your husband should understand it and not push it. On the other hand, that is not so bad, a little bit naughty. I would give another thought but that's just me :)
2007-08-29 02:02:48 · answer #3 · answered by terliuke 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is the problem with that. My wife and I do whatever we can to fulfill the other persons fantasy. As a result we have the best marriage in the world.
2007-08-29 02:48:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Enough is enough! He's pushing you sweetie, & if you don't give in, he pulls the marriage counseling card!! These things DO backfire so listen to that little voice in your head. The nerve, he expects you to live out every whim he throws at you. Don't let him demean you like this.
2007-08-29 08:25:34 · answer #5 · answered by Chili 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
like you say back fire couldh appen and this isn't the best answer say no and why you tell him its just not appropriate for your all. he can watch but now films he could later get back at you buy showing it and that isnt' good i wonder if he would be it cold come back to haunt you are try and do soemthing like black mail just a thought i had.
2007-09-01 23:34:12 · answer #6 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's not going to harm you, why not do what pleases him? And the same goes for HIM. If you like something in particular, I'd hope that he'd WANT to do that to you, for you.
(I'd also suggest to stop thinking and start FEELING.)
Whatever gets him off, do it.
Whatever gets YOU off, HE should do it.
Those are the only "shoulds" in MY book. :-)
GOOD LUCK!!!
2007-08-29 02:06:43 · answer #7 · answered by PG 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would do it. What man doesnt like a tape of there own woman. Like she said above me better you then some other woman.
2007-08-29 02:01:54 · answer #8 · answered by Star™ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What if you allow him to film you-
and he shares you with someone else?
Only do it- if you really feel
you can trust him not to share
the film.
2007-08-29 02:01:52 · answer #9 · answered by DG 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you sooo need to do it! at least its you he still wants to look at. make him all kinds of videos...that would be alot of fun, i think
2007-08-29 07:03:45 · answer #10 · answered by poodle mom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋