Family & Relationships - 28 August 2007

2007-08-28 15:17:59 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

One week we were talking about marriage & Family then three days later we had a silly arguemnt & he says he doesnt know what he wants and he isnt happy. He says he still loves me but is not happy and needed to stay away from the house for a while. he was gone for a day staying with his dad when he came home he said he was still confused and just needed another night to think and he would be back the next day. He never came home and didnt answer my phone calls or called. its all so confusing we have been together for 6.5 years and from one day to the next its over. we have a home together and i am going to move out tomomorow i dont know what to do i love him so much but he obviously doesnt care anymore cause he hasnt even called. this is just not like him at all so I have been confused and heartbroken. why did he do this? Was he scared or could he really fall out of love from one day to the next? I miss him so much but feel pathetic cause he hasnt called meaning he doesnt miss me,right?

2007-08-28 15:17:58 · 25 answers · asked by TexasGirl 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been holding off sex for a while because I wanted to know how to please the girl rather than please myself- but I still don't get it. LADIES! Please, tell me from personal experience what worked for you and what didn't. What are some good positions and good foreplay techniques? I really want to give this girl the night of her life- really blow her mind so that she'll always remember me as "the guy noones ever come close to", so I really need some tips and pointers. Please! All comments appreciated! Except the sarcastic ones.

2007-08-28 15:16:59 · 21 answers · asked by TheJasonProject 1 in Singles & Dating

dose he ever want to cheat on me

2007-08-28 15:15:23 · 8 answers · asked by amanda p 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I was just asked to be a personal attendant one of my good friends, but I'm clueless on what I'm suppose to do? HELP PLEASE!?!?!

2007-08-28 15:15:09 · 10 answers · asked by fonzfan_2006 2 in Weddings

A former best friend of mine is lying to me and a mutual friend of ours. He's also lying to me and telling her something different to where we don't know why or how he would do this. He has played mind games with me like hes doing to her. I can't stay out of it because he got me involved when he told her one thing and me another. I don't care what he did to me in the past hes forgiven but I've had it with him and I want him out of my life for good. I will continue to be there for my other friend and I need to do my best in not letting my advice to her be because of what he did to me. I want to support her in any choices. But to do this I need to get away from him. Should I confront him on what hes doing to me? I would never bring up my friend because its her choice to confront him on her own. Should I walk away from him without a goodbye or should I have closure by telling him goodbye? He is very short tempered and I don't think I have the energy to talk to him now.

2007-08-28 15:13:54 · 7 answers · asked by EchosOfAngels 3 in Friends

Okay here's my story (short version) dad cheated on mom several times mom forgave then finally after ten years of hell he abandon her for this ugly witch/my sister was nine and he also treated her like crap and i was 5 and daddy's lil girl and we use to see him once every year and get a call from him twice a month now am 14 and my sis is 18 mom got remarried and i have a six year old bro any way i haven't seen in two years my sis and i were suppose to go visit him in colorado were he lives but instead i went to visit my cousins that are like sisters to me in texas and my sister went to colorado cuz my dad promised her to buy her a car and now she's over there wat pisses me off out all of this is that we both had agreed on hating for the rest of our lives but know she's all like oh i can now say that i love my dad and the only reason she's saying that is cuz he taught her how to drive cuz the smart one didn't know how and he's kissing her *** buying her all kinds of things and that's bull cuz he's not doing it cuz he loves her but so that he can finally sleep at night cuz when he found out my mom was pregant of her he wanted her to abort expect my mom said no and as a way to repair an unrepair pain he's caused us

2007-08-28 15:10:49 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I'm just curious lol cause i get alot of flirts and stuff and wonder what it is they like

2007-08-28 15:08:08 · 10 answers · asked by Alex 1 in Singles & Dating

Has anyone here gone on without sex for the past 5 to 6 years? Can you last so long without it? Do you think sex should be part of everyone's life?

What did you do to overcome the urge?

2007-08-28 15:07:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have a 35 y/o brother. (I'm 41). Last year he got himself into a very difficult financial situation. I felt really bad for him. He moved in my city cause there's a lot of jobs here. I forwarded the money for him to move and settle. He found a good job right away. At first it was hard for him (he said) so I would help with his month's end also. Now it's been 8 months since he works and he's still asking for money from time to time. I'm starting to feel like a bank machine! Needless to say I have my own responsibilities to face.

Did I do right by giving him the money or I should of let him fetch for himself even if he is my brother?

2007-08-28 15:04:25 · 9 answers · asked by Jane Marple 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-28 15:00:07 · 53 answers · asked by Christopher N 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I don't like my friends anymore its like i grew out of them and i dont need the once i got right now there like ruining my life.. and its ruining my reputation for high school. When i hang with them they older seniors think im stupid and they guy i like probably hates me cause of them and when they act in mature and tell him ****... and just randomly bug him. So really, I want to ditch my friends [[i know sounds harsh lol] so how do you make new friends any tips?

2007-08-28 14:52:38 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-28 14:50:25 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Need tips

2007-08-28 14:48:01 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

she will lie at the drop of a hat for her kids and doesn't tell her husband. He thinks she does no wrong.

2007-08-28 14:46:51 · 7 answers · asked by roostersv2002 1 in Family

2007-08-28 14:45:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-28 14:43:48 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am considering having the bridesmaid dresses be the "wine" colored (deep purple) and someone told me they are going to clash with the pumpkin centerpieces. The bridal party is not going to be sitting all at the same table.....so does it really matter?

2007-08-28 14:42:03 · 23 answers · asked by angelmisk 1 in Weddings

I'm a dirty blonde, and I'm very skinny. Why do guys not seem to like blondes anymore? And I'm 14. So, I can't die my hair darker, as I would look very pale with anything darker. So, am I wrong or what. What do you guys like?

2007-08-28 14:41:41 · 11 answers · asked by Nicole. 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm sure the story will grow tomorrow.

2007-08-28 14:39:50 · 10 answers · asked by MZNAVY 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My brothers were adopted two years ago (just found out) I want to talk to them see them or write. Is there any way I can do this. The case worker has changed and I don't know who it is now what can I do. I'm 24 and there 6 and 11.

2007-08-28 14:39:47 · 3 answers · asked by Tara Elaine 4 in Family

So I work with a boy, and I really like him. I'm almost positive this boy knows I'm interested in him.. for example when doing something i do to him to someone else, he made a comment; "oh she's doing that, she likes you".. etc. And I'm frustrated because I really like this boy, and clearly he's not into me or else you'd think he would have already made a move or something. And he's always flirting back to me and is so nice.. it's like he knows, doesn't want, but likes to play. It really sucks.. I want him to be my boyfriend but don't see it ever actually happening.. and I try to just ignore my feelings but just can't. Do you have any good advice for me?.. ie) how to find out discreetly how he truly feels... how to move on.. how to "make" him want to be my boyfriend...etc.
Thanks!
I will vote best answer for the best answer!

2007-08-28 14:38:59 · 0 answers · asked by candita 1 in Singles & Dating

I know the question didn't make a lot of sense but what I mean is: say there's this guy that you like but you don't necessarily want to be in a relationship with him you just want to build a friendship, but he wants a relationship or nothing at all. Like he thinks your wasting his time telling him you like him when you don't even want him as a boyfriend. So he just decides to not talk to you all together, and not even give a friendship a chance: what do you do in a situation like this?

2007-08-28 14:38:17 · 1 answers · asked by Smile :) 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend of two and a half years has been talking a lot to this girl he met in grad school. I have found that they email back and forth rather frequently and that they also Instant message each other as well. Just recently I found her ipod over at his house that he said he was working on fixing and adding new songs to it. I should say we met through a internet dating site where we got more and more interested as we chatted longer and longer via email/instant messenger and sometimes talked on the phone in the beginning of our relationship. I am just worried that in time he might start to grow feelings for her. They are going through some of the same things, such as both being laid off of their job at relatively the same time and also are going to grad school to continue their education. I see that they have several similarities and Im starting to feel a little threatened by their close friendship. Am I being overly jealous or paranoid?

2007-08-28 14:38:03 · 1 answers · asked by jilly27 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay, here is the thing: me and my fiance have been graciously paying for the bills for the wedding and reception. We're not rich, and neither is our families, which will be taking up 90% of the guest list. We've paid for all the dresses, tuxs, etc. and everything ourselves. So for the rehearsal dinner, we are trying to save expenses. There will be 30 people attending the rehearsal dinner and we debated taking them out or just having food at the wedding hall. We think the later will be cheaper. So the next step is figuring out what to have. So we were MAYBE contemplating getting sandwiches from Subway and then preparing some side dishes to go along. Again, our family isn't rich so they aren't expecting anything TOO extravagent, but I don't want to be tacky either. Thanks for your input!

2007-08-28 14:37:51 · 22 answers · asked by BlackDahlia 5 in Weddings

of a flirt or very forward. I am curious what other females would do.

I was eating at Popeye's and I noticed this guy saying grace over his chicken. I am a sucker for manners and tradition so I was impressed. It made me see that God was the center of his world.

Should I have stuck my neck out or was walking away unnoticed the right thing? I am lousy with attracting guys.

2007-08-28 14:36:50 · 3 answers · asked by §♫♪‹(•¿•)›☼»-(¯`v´¯)-»\\ 6 in Singles & Dating

it's weird but sometimes i feel like i don't like any of my friends.. except for maybe 1 or 2. i'm close with alot of them.. but i'm not enthusiasitc about seeing them.. or excited to talk to them after long periods of time.. i don't find myself missing any of them.. even if it means going months without them.. i don't feel like seeing any of them or calling them or talking to them..i sound so b****y and bitter.. but i don't want to be like this.. whenever one of them talks to me and is enthusiastic i try to act the same way but end up sounding like a b****. i feel so mean after i do this.. but i don't know it just happens. i don't know what else to do and i don't want to lose friends because of this ..... any suggestions on how i can stop acting or feeling this way?

2007-08-28 14:35:42 · 1 answers · asked by jenna s 1 in Friends

2007-08-28 14:34:45 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Since my husband can't get an erection, hasn't had one for months now and therefore we haven't had sex in months, should I cheat on him?

2007-08-28 14:31:53 · 35 answers · asked by Girlon22s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok well I was in a LTR for 3 yrs and in the last year didn't feel as if i loved him in the way i should like more than a friend. Toward the end of our relationship i started liking this other guy and he turned out to be great. Well after i broke up with my ex like a week later we started casually dating. it has now been a month since my LTR ended and i still like the new guy and we are still dating should i start a relationship with him or wait? My last relationship ended well and i don't feel like i'm hung up on my ex i just really like this new guy. What are your thoughts or advice on getting into another relationship after another just ended?

2007-08-28 14:30:32 · 4 answers · asked by spyvixen17 1 in Singles & Dating