find myself not liking anyone..?

Question

it's weird but sometimes i feel like i don't like any of my friends.. except for maybe 1 or 2. i'm close with alot of them.. but i'm not enthusiasitc about seeing them.. or excited to talk to them after long periods of time.. i don't find myself missing any of them.. even if it means going months without them.. i don't feel like seeing any of them or calling them or talking to them..i sound so b****y and bitter.. but i don't want to be like this.. whenever one of them talks to me and is enthusiastic i try to act the same way but end up sounding like a b****. i feel so mean after i do this.. but i don't know it just happens. i don't know what else to do and i don't want to lose friends because of this ..... any suggestions on how i can stop acting or feeling this way?

Answer 1

Realize that your confusing assoicates with friends. You've got ALOT of assoicates but only 1-2 friends, and from the sounds of it no BEST FRIEND, because typically we vent this stuff to that one or two special friends we let in on almost ALL of our life sercerts, feelings and emotions. So realize your still getting your mind around the interpersonal relatioship thing (fancy term for human relations) and your also, HOPFULLY (because quite frankly almost NO ONE DOES!!!) going to realize we have a cultural delima with that, and realizing it and how deep it runs is going to be extremely important towards your individual happiness, but I digress, thats a bit deep for the beganing. Just relax, and open up a little bit more to the 1-2 friends you've got there, and don't sweat the assoicates, there not going to be near as worth it to your happiness as that 1-2 will be, just make nice, short-talk with them, and save that true you for those friends, in time, they'll be BEST friends! So go, relate, relax, oooo and try and keep an eye out for that problem I was talking about, it has alot to do with the misconceptions of love, but I don't want to throw to much on you, loss to many people that way.....