Family & Relationships - 28 August 2007

Please give me some advice, as i really need it.. i don't know what to think or what to believe....

2007-08-28 02:12:27 · 43 answers · asked by Christina 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my wife will be married for one year Dec 21, I love her dearly, but i love another women just as much. both are very important to me and in my life. they know about each other and my feelings towards them both. i am afraid that one day they are going to make me choose between them.... it is a choice that i can not make... the other woman stands at myside as my wife and my high priestess in our Wiccan Coven... I am lost and confused on the matter......
I am married to both women, one by state and the other by religion. When i say that i mean that yes i have walkd both down the isle and said our vows, but my wife in my religion. she is only seen as my wife because i am the High Priest of the coven and she is the High Priestess. Both women are important to me However and i would do anything for either of them. my wife (thru the state) has been trying to talk me out of my religion since we met. Both share a strong bond with me. I am not asking for the ok to be with both women.

2007-08-28 02:10:52 · 15 answers · asked by Silver 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a little brother who is REALLY anoying. JUst this morning we were visiting relitives in Florida and they have this talking battleship game. I was tring to teach my brother how to play. I told him he was stupid for picking the first one. My dad was like "KELLY!" so I lost my temper and now I'm stuck in my room (good thing I have the computer!) PLEASE HELP!

2007-08-28 02:09:41 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

we've been best friends for 4years but now i feel like we're different and i dont wanna do the whole best friend thing no more ,and just keep it at friends. its not working for me no more. im at a place in my life where i need a change of crowd cos im serious about life and i feel like she's not.

How do i let it go?Do i tel her how i feel/HOW,without hurting her feelings???...help

2007-08-28 02:08:37 · 24 answers · asked by Femme Fiasco 1 in Friends

2007-08-28 02:08:30 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Do you have a side to you that your partner would be surprised, appalled or embarrassed about you, if he saw you with your friends or workmates?

2007-08-28 02:05:28 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband does not seem to want to have sex with me anymore. We have been together 10 years now and have always had a great relationship in and out of bed. We had a child a year and a half ago and another one on the way in a couple of months. I can't figure him out...He seems to avoid me lately. He will go to his Den and watch T.V. from the time he comes home from work until bedtime which is usually well after I have gone to bed (around 1 am) I wonder if he does this on purpose. Anyway we have had sex once a month if I'm lucky and this only happens if I initiate it. We used to have sex 2 to 3 times a week. I asked him about it last night and he told me That the problem is I am too antiliticall about it (which Iam not this is the first time I've said anything, then he told me all I have to do is come and get it. I told him that it would be nice ig he'd come and get it now and then . Then he replied that Maybe it's an age thing...He's 42. He then rolled over and went to sleep. UUGGHHH

2007-08-28 02:04:56 · 14 answers · asked by wenifer 2 in Marriage & Divorce

So you are a beautiful woman. You have just finished your child bearing years bringing in 3 beautiful babies. You are ack to the gym and looking good. Do you like being checked out by other men? Do you purposely look around to see if other men are checking you out? If the answer is yes, does it turn you on? Is it just pure inocense? You love your husband very much, but do you also like being looked at by other men?

2007-08-28 02:04:52 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-28 02:04:20 · 10 answers · asked by qwerty 2 in Family

My parents tell me I am beautiful all the time but I don't know whether or not to believe them.

2007-08-28 02:00:33 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-08-28 01:58:42 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

he doesnt want to commit and he says he doesnt see the point of having a relationship.

but i think we are seeing each other although we have never even held hands or kissed.

i feel he doesnt like me that much and he doesnt take that much time off with me. but he is keeping me around so that he could be seen by his friends to have a date. like he is inviting me along for this vacation on the west coast with his pals and their wives and girlfriends. and ive gone along to dinners with his pals too and they all think that i'm his girlfriend.

i dont know if i should continue with this. the more i am involved with his life, the more emotionall vest i become in him. i feel that he doesn't like me enough and its bad that he doesnt want to commit. but what if i am wrong about him. i do like him quite a lot.

2007-08-28 01:58:36 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I can tell she is totally in love with me and will be a devoted wife. All of a sudden though the rest of my life is flashing before me - and the fun of this honeymoon period is waning. I'm going off thinking about everything, job, life, everything and feel like I am going to throw up from stress. I feel out of control. Any thoughts?

2007-08-28 01:57:45 · 16 answers · asked by Delay 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Although I am in need of some kind words it is going to be a good day. You see my mother in law is being released from the hospital today and she will be coming home to live with me and my husband. Her health is on the poor side, triple by-pass in Feb. and now she batteling vascular problems in leg and foot. In fact she was in jeopardy of losing the leg. By nothing short of a miracle she has regained blood flow to the leg and foot. She was scheduled for another surgery this week and the flow just returned!! I am so thankful she at this point will not lose the leg. Anyway I am rearranging furniture, bunking my 2 very small boys in one bedroom to make room for her. I do not mind at all. It will be a pleasure to have her here. I am just anxious to get this transitioning period behind us becuase I know I it be a adjustment for the whole family. This family of 4 with 2 boys ages 2yrs and oneonly 8 mos. just became a family of 5. The challenge will be of the time management nature and of the

2007-08-28 01:55:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Doesn't something suffer? I know it does in my life. It is my relationship with my husband.

2007-08-28 01:52:34 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I don't feeling of fit and joyable whenver i do sex with my wife. I think the O is expaned. what to do for resize & feeling fit

Please guide

2007-08-28 01:52:16 · 17 answers · asked by konitari k 1 in Marriage & Divorce

please help me to answer this question..we have a debate 2morow and i want to gathered all of your opinion for we to have a great article...please make your answer as long as you can...thank you!!!!

2007-08-28 01:50:39 · 24 answers · asked by jvictor 1 in Singles & Dating

me and my boyfriend have been togeather for a year and a half. and it started out good then about 2 months into it we went to the shore(nj) and we got a hotel room and i dont remeber what we were fighting about but i kicked the trash can that we was holding on to and we started to fist fight well i socked him right in his eye and he griped me up by my neck. he never said sorry he told of his friend cuz he though it was funny. he made me look like a moron. anyway..so after that we would alway fight and and he would alway grip me up.so then he had a 35,000$ car and his mom would always b*tch to him about the car payment(hes 23 yrold and the car is under his mom's name) so by this time i was living with him and all we had at the time was the exsect amouth money that the car payment was and his mom took it(his mom would keep him in her room for 2hrs at a time everynight wile i would sit in his room, so rude) so he came back and i told him that he would have givin her half cuz he getting...

2007-08-28 01:47:07 · 18 answers · asked by ARMY WIFE TO BE 2012 4 in Marriage & Divorce

well, I live in the philippines. My family decided that within 6 months, we will be living in canada... And me, I'm anti for this plan. Because we have arrangements with my friends to go to college together. me and my friends were together since 3 years and we shared so much happiness to each other.

because of that, I cant seem to leave the philippines and going to canada is like start all over again; from routines to new friends..

I know some of you think that its a great idea but leaving my friends if very hard for me. And my family wants all of us to go and live there.

I'm so afraid that I will never see them again, their faces, their actions, our friendship. Can anyone help me "let go" of these things.

even though we can chat together but its allot better if we can see each other in the flesh right?

can anyone give me advise?

while I type this details, I remember them and I cried (sorry about that)

thank you....

2007-08-28 01:44:31 · 19 answers · asked by Remon 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

make you more likely to cheat on your spouse, or less likely to cheat on your spouse.

My wife's Dad cheated on Mom many times, and Mom always let him back in. Finally after 25 years of different affairs the marriage ended. Granted the Mom was a mess for many reasons......... My wife still to this day despises her Father's action and hated how his actions destroyed their marriage. To my point. Is a woman who comes from this background more likely or less likely to cheat on her husband?

2007-08-28 01:42:56 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

sometimes she needs the physical motivation to be respectful.

2007-08-28 01:40:19 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he is in Portugal and before he left, he promised to spend the rest of his life with me.

2007-08-28 01:39:46 · 6 answers · asked by Mercy J 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-28 01:36:52 · 24 answers · asked by Beth 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My wife assumed I was making the decision without her and told me to move out of the house and find my own place! I then told her that I wanted to talk to her about it, but that it really meant a lot to me since I really miss them.

Also, I feel that she should accept them as part of marrying me. At this point, she says I'm always going to put them first and she's always going to be sitting in the background and never do the things she wants to do. She's basically consented to stay in the relationship but says that divorce is always an option. Any advice?

Any time there's a problem with my kids, she tells me to move out. I'm getting tired of worrying whether or not I'm going to have a place to stay.

2007-08-28 01:35:20 · 15 answers · asked by PersonalImprov 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-28 01:33:05 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

There is this one guy I dated and I've always wanted to know what happened after we split. What does he do, did he get married, how has life been? I think I've tracked him down and have an email address and I'm debating on whether or not to send him a message. It's been 13 years since we last spoke and I just want to know what ever happened to him. I have no intention of starting things up, I'm happily married and I think he is as well, I just can't have to know how he is. Is that bad? Has anyone else tried to locate an old flame and how did it go?

2007-08-28 01:28:35 · 9 answers · asked by WREAGLE 3 in Singles & Dating

I was at the store yesterday, and on TV Guide on the Front Page, it stated Rated X in Prime Time! What happened to the days of the "Cosby Show" or "Full House" and other family type shows being free on the major networks that you could access w/ just an antenna? Networks used to fight to have the best family show, now, most of the major networks are loaded w/ crap =(... You have to pay to have cable or dish to get decent family shows, even then, there are not many family shows anymore unless they are re-runs. What is happening here to our world?

2007-08-28 01:26:23 · 6 answers · asked by elvlayarvvi fEisty wife and mom 6 in Family

After 6 years he told me it was over, he stays with his co-worker/ room mate whom he claimed was lesbian and @ some point and time was living with her girlfriend. Is it possible if youe'r lesbian to fall in love with a straight man? She is his lover now . Beating my head not knowing if I am coming or going I am still in love with him and do want him back in time any suggestions.

2007-08-28 01:24:40 · 17 answers · asked by maria s 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Is being boyfriend or girlfriend a good reason to have sex? I don't think so!
Oh, remember I'm older than you (I was born in 1952)

2007-08-28 01:20:29 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-28 01:16:21 · 13 answers · asked by Karan 1 in Singles & Dating